Forsaken Myth
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- Posted: Tue, 22 Mar 2005 13:52:07 +0000
Well...my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a week now and I think I'm starting to have alot of self esteem issues. He's probably the most handsome guy I've ever seen/been with. To myself, I'm ugly, fat, etc...I know he's dated alot of hot/beautiful girls and it's really starting to get to me. Everytime I'm on the phone or around him I get kinda teary because I don't think I meet his standards of a girlfriend. I've asked him of what he thinks of me, and he says I'm perfect. But to me, I'm nothing close to it. I really don't want our relationship to end like my others, because of lies. I'm not saying he's lying but, I don't know. I've been weary about boys lately...and thier shallow minds crying (**No offense**) I really don't know what to do, I can't stop thinking about it. Everytime I watch T.V., I see all these beautiful people...and I just can't help but cry because I can't be one of them. It's really getting to my head, I can't take it anymore. There's this feeling that is urging me to break up with him because I'm nothing compared to him. I love him though...I just...can't deal with all this media and how I want perfection. Can anyone give me any advice on what to do? Should I be happy because he loves me how I am? Or should I try to perfect myself to be atleast worth being with him?
------Update!!!!------
Okay, I just got off of the phone with my boyfriend, what he told me...smashed my heart into little tiny pieces. He confessed that yesterday, his ex-girlfriend came over and like wanted to talk to him. One thing lead to another and they started making out. When I heard that, I didn't know what to do. My whole world just crumbled. He said he would NEVER cheat on me, or do anything like that. I don't know what to do. He says he's really sorry and asked if I was going to break up with him. His apology didn't seem really sincere to me. Should I break it off between me and him? Or should I give him another chance....?
------Meep?------
Last night, I couldn't sleep till like 5 in the morning. I couldn't get him out of my head. My mind kept thinking '******** that whore who did that to him...' I was wishing she would die, I hate her. And I'm still VERY mad at him for what he did. He called me today, and we didn't really talk much because my bro needed the phone. He was asking if I was still mad at him, I just said 'I don't know'. I don't know if I should trust him. He did confess though, which I'm really happy about. But then again, I don't know if that's a sign if he wants to break up with me. I really, really love him...but apart of me just won't let that happen.
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I LOVE HIM!!! <33
------Update!!!!------
Okay, I just got off of the phone with my boyfriend, what he told me...smashed my heart into little tiny pieces. He confessed that yesterday, his ex-girlfriend came over and like wanted to talk to him. One thing lead to another and they started making out. When I heard that, I didn't know what to do. My whole world just crumbled. He said he would NEVER cheat on me, or do anything like that. I don't know what to do. He says he's really sorry and asked if I was going to break up with him. His apology didn't seem really sincere to me. Should I break it off between me and him? Or should I give him another chance....?
------Meep?------
Last night, I couldn't sleep till like 5 in the morning. I couldn't get him out of my head. My mind kept thinking '******** that whore who did that to him...' I was wishing she would die, I hate her. And I'm still VERY mad at him for what he did. He called me today, and we didn't really talk much because my bro needed the phone. He was asking if I was still mad at him, I just said 'I don't know'. I don't know if I should trust him. He did confess though, which I'm really happy about. But then again, I don't know if that's a sign if he wants to break up with me. I really, really love him...but apart of me just won't let that happen.
------<3------
I LOVE HIM!!! <33