God, I hate it when I can't tell whether a post is just an immature person or a troll...
First of all, she's 23. She can do what she wants. She doesn't have to come around when she has her own life and take care of snot-nosed selfish younger siblings and her ailing father if she chooses not to [although it would be -kind- if she did her ailing father].
Second of all, she's pregnant. She doesn't have to come around and take care of snot-nosed younger siblings and her ailing father if she doesn't want to [de ja vu, yes?] and ********, yeah, she's gonna complain about being pregnant. It isn't easy and she's old enough that she can be pregnant if she wants to. And you don't NEED to know her boyfriend for her to, you know, BE with him??
Jesus Christ. You sound like a spoiled little princess to me. Expecting your ADULT sister to come around to a place she apparently doesn't live anymore and help you around the house and take care of you?? She doesn't LIVE with you anymore. She doesn't need to leave her household and do your dishes, she's an adult who has her OWN dishes to clean now. And a baby she's carrying. Have you thought about the fact that maybe she's -busy- because she's an ADULT now??
-_-;;
I should probably stop before I hurt your feelings further. But my point is, sounds like you need to grow up, get a reality check, and learn to take responsibility for your own s**t now.