HaineTheStrayDog
unboundsmiter
Little 'x' in the corner of the window. If you feel that you can't actually type out the word 'no', close the window to solve the problem.
Not what I mean.I have this problem with people in PERSON as well as over the net.
How do I solve it in person?
The net is easier to just vanish.I want to be more firm in real life as well.
Hmm. Have you considered seeing someone about it perhaps? Like a therapist, or counsellor?
I used to be fairly shy and doormat-like when I was younger, but since taking up re-enacting, I soon grew a thicker skin and learnt that if you're shy, throwing yourself into a conversation helps as you're too embarrassed to back out. Most people find it hard to believe that my boyfriend's actually shy because on site he never shuts up, but he uses the same tactic. I took self-confidence classes at school run by their counsellors, which sort of helped - most of it was just filling in bits of paperwork but the message of the classes were more important.