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- Posted: Sun, 07 Oct 2012 17:26:10 +0000
How the ******** can you have UNPROTECTED SEX with your boyfriend if you were raped?! emotion_facepalm
If I was your boyfriend and found out you risked transmitting HIV to me, I'd dump you straight away.
I seriously hope you're just a troll or I just lost a bit more faith in humanity once again. I feel very sorry for your boyfriend.
First, and I think this goes for most people, I don't think constantly about "oh I could get an STD from this and that, that person has an STD and that person probably does too"
I didn't even think "I have an STD probably" after having been raped. Also, HIV is less than 1% chance of being transmitted through rape. Chlamydia and Gonnorhea are the most likely disease. I knew this guy that raped me, he had steady girlfriends. He wanted me to be a steady girlfriend but I was already with my boyfriend..I think he raped me out of frustration. And it's not like he was punching me in the face during the rape. He had incapacitated me...
Lastly, my boyfriend and I have sex until he comes close then he puts a condom on. Don't give me s**t about "well precum" because you can wait until you've had sex with your boyfried 200+ times and NOT GET PREGNANT. Okay? It's more likely that buttsex will impregnate me than him going in without a condom, then putting one on before he gets close okay?
And he and I have only had sex a few times the past month, quite a bit less than normal. I've been having "my period" and "stressed" etc. I have my good days, where the owrld is fine and I'll pull through, and my bad days, where I feel like s**t over all of this.
Oh, one other note: if I transmitted HIV to my boyfriend, he will not die from it. He's old enough now that "old age" will kill him sooner than AIDS would ever result in his death. I'm not as lucky.