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- Posted: Fri, 26 Oct 2007 01:53:54 +0000
You should definitely tell her if you love her. Of course, you should be sure that you're bisexual and not that you're just confused (which is what most young people are). If you're actually sure about it, your mother is going to figure out about it unless you never have a date in your life and what would be the point in being bisexual if you never have a partner? I say you should just break it to her and if she becomes outraged then you can just slowly try to make things easier on her. Before telling her, though, you should make her gain some trust in you; make sure there's something about you that outweighs a decision that she probably won't like, such as being really good at an instrument or something. That way, if she's really against gay people, she'll be able to see that you're not totally wasting your life in her eyes. You should also be accepting of her ideals if she is to be accepting in your decision; if the compromise is to go to church once in a while, I say you should take that choice if possible. After all, she is your mother and you should be able to take her advice once in a while.