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Post: 55933299_91 created on Mon, 30 Nov 2009 01:58:17 +0000
Posted: Mon, 30 Nov 2009 01:58:17 +0000

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

My boyfriend and I have been dating since last December 11th. We met online in a Second Life bondage club and he collared me last December. A lot of my friends don't think my anniversary is serious because it took us until the end of May to meet IRL, but they are just jealous that we have been dating so long. We are still long distance but we have met twice now and when we meet up in December it will be the third time, to celebrate my 29th birthday, and our 1 year anniversary, in Walt Disney World heart

Since I have been a little girl I have dreamed of being married in Walt Disney World and being proposed to under the fireworks in the Magic Kingdom. And I want to be married by the time I am 30, god damn it. I have watched all my friends getting married and I am sick and tired of being alone. It's my turn now, and when I turn 29 I will only have a year left. I need Ron to propose ASAP.

I asked him if he was going to propose to me in December and he flat said no. He said he needed to save his money to pay off student loans and it didn't make sense to propose while he is in California and I am in South Carolina. This is such bullshit. We have been dating a year. A YEAR. It is HIGH TIME for him to commit or get out. All my bitchy so-called friends have said "Why don't you just hightail it down to the courthouse when it's time." They are so ******** stupid. That is NOT what I have dreamed of since I was a little girl. It is my turn, goddamnit. And I want a princess ring, and a fairy tale wedding. I NEED Ron to propose NOW, because it's going to take at least a year for us to save up for the wedding. I don't intend to spend more than 10 thousand dollars on the wedding but it will still take time to save. How do I get him to propose already?! I've wasted a year of my life waiting around on him and if I break up with him it's too late to start over with someone else. Help!

rolleyes
you sound like a lil 10 year old.
most people do not get married after dating their bf/gf for 1 year
some people didn't even get married after 5 years of dating their bf/gf

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Post: 55933299_92 created on Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:01:08 +0000
Posted: Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:01:08 +0000

Rains On Friday

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

Rains On Friday

rolleyes
You don't.
You propose to him, wait for him, or ******** ask him to do it.

Yeah right, like proposing to a man was my childhood dream. He is going to do it RIGHT and treat me like a lady, god damn it.

LOL, you're an idiot.
You're being selfish.
At least your boy friend is thinking finances.
You're just, "OMG, DISNEY, MUST GET MARRIED NOWZ."
He IS treating you like a lady, he's getting all of his debts his paid so that your futures will be better.
It's irresponsible to just get married off whim, or some stupid fantasy.
Troll.

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Post: 55933299_93 created on Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:27:57 +0000
Posted: Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:27:57 +0000

I pray to God you're a troll. Please be a troll. No one is this shallow. No one.

If you're not one...I hope he never proposes to you. And I hope you never procreate. Because the world would be far better off without people like you in it. A year...of dating, you've met him...twice, and you want to get hitched? I think you're more in love with the idea of your dream wedding than you are in love with him. I really hope you two break up--he sounds like he has a level head on his shoulders. He doesn't need someone like you.

Edit: By the way, I don't think your friends are jealous--I think they realize you're an idiot. Grow up.

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Post: 55933299_94 created on Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:37:02 +0000
Posted: Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:37:02 +0000

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tell him what you want and tell him now is the time or its over... say its not working out, and if he doesn't propose then your not meant to be with him

Shame on you! No necromancing troll threads!

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Post: 55933299_95 created on Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:41:47 +0000
Posted: Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:41:47 +0000

Wow, honestly you're 28? that's pretty sad. I'm 16 and I can tell you, that you sound like an immature three year old.

It's been a year? wooow waddia want? a gold star? most guys dont feel ready for a commited I'm going to marry you relationship till maybe 2-3 maybe even four years. and I know it varys by guy but this "Ron" fellow sounds like he's not even remotly ready for a thousand dollar wedding just because he's snobby little girlfriend doesnt get what she wants. he's still paying off loans and you want him to pay ******** thousands of dollars now?

I hope you're a troll.

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Post: 55933299_96 created on Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:48:03 +0000
Posted: Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:48:03 +0000

You seem to fall very much under the category of girls who are more in love with the idea of being princess for a day than with the guy they're with.

Even if you're been talking for a whooole yearrr, you've only met twice, you don't even know this guy well enough to get married yet.

And really. Just grow up.

How bout you help pay off his student loans, so you can get your ring quicker, princess?

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Post: 55933299_97 created on Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:58:11 +0000
Posted: Mon, 30 Nov 2009 02:58:11 +0000

... ... ... ... ... ...
HAHAHAHAHAHA
Troll.
Wow, that was hilarious to read. I only read to page four... but oh well.
Geez, if you're real, you're an f-ing b***h. If I was a guy I CERTAINLY wouldn't want to marry you. I'm sixteen and I clearly have a better picture of finances. Do you know how much it costs to have a wedding in Disney World?
And you don't MAKE someone propose. If you want the perfect proposal of your little girl fantasy or whatever, then it has to be his choice.
Oh, BTW, if you keep bitching at him about proposals, he's going to dump you.
Seriously, you need to stop beign so narcissistic. That means SELF OBSESSED. If you're really ready to get married, then you should be caring more about the other person than yourself. Get it? So if you're trying to force him to propose to you becasue of your own selfish fantasies, you clearly prioritize yourself WAY above him. Thus I draw my conclusion taht you are not ready for marriage.
Get back under your bridge, BTW.

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