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First off, I am not a troll. I don't give a damn if you think I'm a troll. Go ******** off and talk to your other little kiddie pals about crushes and periods and whatever s**t you little creeps like to chat about.

Second of all, all of you blabbing about how one year isn't enough time CLEARLY have never been in a real, adult relationship. And our relationship is NOT pretend just because we are long distance. We are very much in love. We have spend months, just chatting together, spending every waking moment with one another, touching with our voices when we cannot touch in real life... and we have made our two weeks together count VERY much. I am tired of this s**t about how we haven't "really" been dating a year because we didn't meet until May. That is utter s**t and if you are saying it you are just jealous of our connection. Yes that includes YOU little kids who don't know what true love is.

THIRD, yes, our wedding is every bit as important as his student loans. Hello, it's the most important part of our lives. My wedding is all I've ever wanted. I crave it so bad it hurts.

wow, you remind me soo much of my bothers girlfriend and its scary.. GROW UP, life does not revolve around you. i have dated for two years before, and i never gotten proposed. i have been in long distance relationship like you are in for over a year, and this is just ridiculous. love is about sacrfrice for one another. if you are truly both "soul mates" you can wait. your obsession over a wedding is truly killing you in the inside. your fantasasies of having a wedding are suppose to make you happy. but now im sure your fantasasies all turn into pain.
You're not in an "adult relationship".
You're sitting in a chair on the computer, swearing at people (many being 10+ years younger than you) because you can't get what you want.
How about you start saving up some money?
You're the one who wants an over-done Disney wedding, but it's not going to happen anyways.
I've been in a long-distance relationship myself for almost 2 years, I finally moved within 5 minutes of my boyfriend about a month ago.
We've talked about getting married someday, but not until we're both positive we're ready.
And...you met at an online bondage club? I don't think he's in it for the romance/wedding. <_<
How often do you talk to him? How do you know he's not cheating on you over there in Cali?
Your "relationship" is probably just a joke to him.
Keep dreaming, princess. <3
Thanks for this thread, it made me laugh.


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One year isn't that long. I was with a guy for three and we broke it off.

You don't ask someone to propose, they just do it if it feels right. If you want more of a commitment maybe you should live together? Ask him if he would consider that instead, because that is a big commitment, though probably not as large. Living together he could more easily pay off his debt since you would both be working and paying for rent.

Living together will either make or break a relationship. ;]
Boo ******** hoo. Grow up.
Wait like normal, mature people do.
He has a priority, his studies, and you should understand that.
Also, you can't force him.
Risk getting dumped by purposing to him after he said he won't purpose to you yet.
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"Stupid troll is stupid....that doesn't even sound like a proper BDSM relationship. Don't be selfish or you will drive him away."
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I now officially love this thread so much, I'd probably subscribe to it if the troll comes back.
Congrats on being one of the best deluded-and-immature trolls on the internet.
Wow.

I really hope you're trolling. If not, I think you get the idea on why you shouldn't be forcing someone into marriage.

It's not even been a year and you're trying to FORCE him into marriage? If you stopped to think about someone other than your selfish self, maybe you'd realize that paying off his student loans is pretty damn important. rolleyes
I'm sorry I laughed.

Propose to him and shut up.

You sound like some little girl.
FACT: We guys are incredibly stupid in situations like this

FACT: girls are fking mind ninjas and guys know i,t half the time we can't tell how serious you really are in a relationship

FACT: explain it to him slowly and without big words and if he loves you he will all like " Holy sh1t thank you! I was wonzing if i shuldz"
tell him what you want and tell him now is the time or its over... say its not working out, and if he doesn't propose then your not meant to be with him
You can't make him propose. If he doesn't want to marry you.. either accept that or dump him and keep looking for someone who does want to marry you.
You sound like a fat chick. If you've waited five years plus, then we can talk.

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