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You've met TWICE. It's been ONE YEAR.

OF COURSE YOU SHOULD GET MARRIED.

HE'S AN ASSHAT FOR NOT WANTING TO PROPOSE TO YOU AND FULFILL YOUR CHILDHOOD WANTS!

Never mind HIS needs and wants!

LOLOLOLOLOL.
Like someone already stated, maybe the only reason it's working is because it's a long distance relationship . xD Also, he said no for a reason.
You know, you said something about growing up and being in an adult relationship, yet every word that spews out of your mouth drips with the stain of the selfishness of a 5 year old.
Kaori242
You've met TWICE. It's been ONE YEAR.

OF COURSE YOU SHOULD GET MARRIED.

HE'S AN ASSHAT FOR NOT WANTING TO PROPOSE TO YOU AND FULFILL YOUR CHILDHOOD WANTS!

Never mind HIS needs and wants!

LOLOLOLOLOL.
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That's pretty much along the lines of what I was going to say.

You obviously don't care what he wants. You only care about your pretend backyard Disney wedding with all your dolls and toys watching.

Shame on you for only caring about your selfish nonsense. That man deserves better than an unappreciative, immature and cold hearted b***h.
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Don't feed the troll.
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LoVeRz In SpRiNg
My boyfriend and I have been dating since last December 11th. We met online in a Second Life bondage club


And that's where I stopped taking you seriously.
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LoVeRz In SpRiNg
My boyfriend and I have been dating since last December 11th. We met online in a Second Life bondage club


And that's where I stopped taking you seriously.

Yeah, that's where the relationship became a joke.
Oh noes, one year and he hasn't proposed yet ?
Deary, leave him, that's disgusting of him not to propose to you after a year !
/sarcasm
I can't help but wonder, do you want to marry him because you want to spend the rest of your life with him, or do you want to marry him because you have a ridiculous dream of getting married before you're thirty?

In everything you've said you haven't given any indication that you want to spend the rest of your life with him, just that you NEED to get married and WANT to get married before you're thirty. You briefly mention how much in love you are which is great, I wish you the best of luck, but do you really think forcing someone to marry you is the right way to go about it?

If you want to marry him wait until its the right time for BOTH of you, its his big day too, the whole thing about it being the bride's day, that's rubbish, I hope when my boyfriend and I marry (which is something we have discussed and both want, but are willing to wait for) that he remembers the wedding with fondness and a not a distinct sense of fear and loathing.
don't be too aggressive.
wait for him too make the move. burning_eyes
Insanity.
You can't make him.
If he hasnt done anything yet..You've only seen in TWICE then my advice iis get a new dood...He doesn't seem interested
Why does it matter so much to get married before you're 30?? It's just a number. You'll get married when there's the right time for it and all circumstances allow it. There's nothing bad about having patience and waiting for when you are able and can afford moving somewhere together.
TROLL!!!!!!

Well if you are serious and judging by your post its no wonder why you aren't married yet despite the fact you're hitting thirty. You act like some stupid thirteen-year-old girl. rofl The more you pressure him the more likely he's gonna run away. Just let him propose when HE'S ready. That is, unless you're stupid enough to try to hold him ransom to it (I refuse to tell you how some Bimbos I know managed to make their husbands stay with them and marry them.)

Either way, one year is too early to decide you want that kind of commitment, wait... Ten months, eleven this coming Wednesday. You need to give him time to think about it... That is if this is a serious post.
Also it's very sad if a 28 year old person types her username the way she did. eek
LoVeRz In SpRiNg
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Wow, you're a complete b***h.

You've "wasted" a year with him?

You've met him twice?

You want to make him propose?

So you want to rush into a marriage, which he's not ready for, just so you can have a "fairy tale" wedding only for it to end in divorce within a matter of months?

Seems like you don't know how Disney weddings work. You don't get proposed and married in the same trip. You have to book your wedding possibly a YEAR in advance.


Try learning how to read before you make ignoramus posts. rolleyes Way to be an asshat. rolleyes

He has to propose to me NOW when we go to Disney World (under the fireworks) so that we will have time to save money for our wedding before I turn 30 NEXT December. If he proposes now we can be married next year in Disney World before my birthday.


First of all, he doesn't have to do anything. I agree with a lot of the people who have posted here. You're being selfish. Marriage isn't something to take lightly. So far, you've only talked about what you want to happen. What about what he wants or what he's ready for? If you loved him and if you really wanted to get married to him, you would put him before yourself. I am eighteen. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. As opposed to your meeting your boyfriend twice, I see mine three or four times a week. Whenever our schedules will allow. We haven't had sex yet, if that's of any importance. Yes, we love each other and yes, we want to get married some day but we aren't stupid. He has to go to college first and I have to do whatever I'm going to do with my life. We have to have a way to support ourselves before we even consider anything like that. That doesn't mean we love each other any less. I realize that you're twenty-nine and our age difference accounts for something but honestly, you're being selfish. Show some consideration. You've only been together for a year and this will only be your third time seeing each other in that entire year. Get. A. Grip. Life just isn't a fantasy.
theannacracker
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LoVeRz In SpRiNg
My boyfriend and I have been dating since last December 11th. We met online in a Second Life bondage club


And that's where I stopped taking you seriously.

Yeah, that's where the relationship became a joke.


holy ******** I totally missed that.

They should get married

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