how do i make my boyfriend propose to me?

[Stolen Heartache]

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

First off, I am not a troll. I don't give a damn if you think I'm a troll. Go ******** off and talk to your other little kiddie pals about crushes and periods and whatever s**t you little creeps like to chat about.

Second of all, all of you blabbing about how one year isn't enough time CLEARLY have never been in a real, adult relationship. And our relationship is NOT pretend just because we are long distance. We are very much in love. We have spend months, just chatting together, spending every waking moment with one another, touching with our voices when we cannot touch in real life... and we have made our two weeks together count VERY much. I am tired of this s**t about how we haven't "really" been dating a year because we didn't meet until May. That is utter s**t and if you are saying it you are just jealous of our connection. Yes that includes YOU little kids who don't know what true love is.

THIRD, yes, our wedding is every bit as important as his student loans. Hello, it's the most important part of our lives. My wedding is all I've ever wanted. I crave it so bad it hurts.

I was in a long-distance relationship for two years, so I don't doubt for a second that you're "dating" each other. But even after seeing my boyfriend for a total of several months, even after talking for hours and hours every single day, I still knew we were nowhere near marriage. We had university to worry about, we didn't live together, and despite our love for one another, we were being RESPONSIBLE, MATURE ADULTS. Weddings are symbolic, and only have the meaning you give it. Better do it right than quick. You need to grow the ******** up. I can't believe there are people like you out there, who act like five year olds despite being 28.

[Not Squidy]

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

we have made our two weeks together count VERY much..

sometimes long distance relationships work because they're long distance

[xCO2]

Listen you trolling little twerp; I'll tell you what, I have more experience in probably everything you've ever done, minus the fact I don't have a p***y gorging ******** blood, at the moment, PMSing like you are right now.

I told you my deal, accept it; if this is real, move in with him, take the initiative; because obviously he CAN'T. Who cares if you don't get married before 30; at least you'll be married, unless you keep this up.

If I ever met this guy I'd smack him, just for not standing up for himself.
Come talk to us when you move in with him, then maybe you'll get some constructive criticism
that you don't already know.

I hate people like you, who are so ego-centric that they're actually hurting their own life.
BTW, you wanna know what we little creeps do...we masturbate...A LOT; obviously you
keep this up you'll still be too, and when I say A LOT...

[The Rainbow Spork]

Squidy McSquidsworth

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

we have made our two weeks together count VERY much..

sometimes long distance relationships work because they're long distance

They were probably in "vacation mode".

Real life will be nothing like those two weeks together.

[Not Squidy]

The Rainbow Spork

Squidy McSquidsworth

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

we have made our two weeks together count VERY much..

sometimes long distance relationships work because they're long distance

They were probably in "vacation mode".

Real life will be nothing like those two weeks together.

Exactly my point. People can only keep that up for so long.

[lostathome]

... you're narcissistic and need to stop trying to live a dream that will fall apart if you try to be such a control freak. If you make him propose do you think it will lead to happiness? So what, 30 is a number. If you're tired of all your friends getting married and think they whine to much, get new friends.

[Huu Vu]

It is called a 'dream' for a reason. Most dreams don't come true.

A wedding like that will run 15 or even 20k+. Each relationship is different and there is no status quo for a certain timeframe before marriage. While I do think that one year is too short, especially since it is a LDR, it is still the OP's decision along with her lover in the end. Each relationship is different. I'm in no rush and I'm going to wait for at least a 3 year relationship before marriage. blaugh

Living with someone is completely different from just knowing them through an online alias. I recommend spending a couple of summer months together. You won't be able to hide your flaws and you'll see each other's good and bad qualities.

[Faye Kaiba]

Maybe he doesn't want to marry you
maybe he doesn't want to to get married for another 4 or 5 years
maybe he has no intention of proposing to you.
Maybe he doesn't want to get married at all


Stop thinking about yourself
Who cares if you getmarried before you turn "30" Its just an number right now.

Ever think of those?

you can't make him to propose to you.

[Nickula Sixx]

Magical Kitty-tan

You can't make him propose. If he doesn't want to marry you.. either accept that or dump him and keep looking for someone who does want to marry you.

this

[Cruton San]

First off, you don't make him propose. He will propose if he feels like it.

Secondly, at this rate you're not EVER going to get married. Most men will not put up with a woman who tries to force them into marriage.

Either calm your s**t or find a man who will submit to every whim you have.

[Fial Neilans little moon]

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

My boyfriend and I have been dating since last December 11th. We met online in a Second Life bondage club and he collared me last December. A lot of my friends don't think my anniversary is serious because it took us until the end of May to meet IRL, but they are just jealous that we have been dating so long. We are still long distance but we have met twice now and when we meet up in December it will be the third time, to celebrate my 29th birthday, and our 1 year anniversary, in Walt Disney World heart

Since I have been a little girl I have dreamed of being married in Walt Disney World and being proposed to under the fireworks in the Magic Kingdom. And I want to be married by the time I am 30, god damn it. I have watched all my friends getting married and I am sick and tired of being alone. It's my turn now, and when I turn 29 I will only have a year left. I need Ron to propose ASAP.

I asked him if he was going to propose to me in December and he flat said no. He said he needed to save his money to pay off student loans and it didn't make sense to propose while he is in California and I am in South Carolina. This is such bullshit. We have been dating a year. A YEAR. It is HIGH TIME for him to commit or get out. All my bitchy so-called friends have said "Why don't you just hightail it down to the courthouse when it's time." They are so ******** stupid. That is NOT what I have dreamed of since I was a little girl. It is my turn, goddamnit. And I want a princess ring, and a fairy tale wedding. I NEED Ron to propose NOW, because it's going to take at least a year for us to save up for the wedding. I don't intend to spend more than 10 thousand dollars on the wedding but it will still take time to save. How do I get him to propose already?! I've wasted a year of my life waiting around on him and if I break up with him it's too late to start over with someone else. Help!

You don't need him to propose, you want him to. A year together is commitment enough as it is, why don't you get that?

Also, you are the kind of person that I was familiar with on Second Life and probably the reason I left that community of primarily BDSM roleplayers.. You are collared and have been with him a year. Quit topping from the bottom and learn some respect.

Edit: I'd like to add if you aren't a troll, you are an incredibly controlling submissive/slave. That is not how it works, you can't make your Dom/Master do anything without asking them first if they can do it for you. Then it is in their control. Once you started wearing his collar, you offered that much of your control over to him. Respect it or take your collar off in all honesty. I can't believe he's putting up with your bratty-ness. I'm not saying that there is a "true" submissive or bullshit like that, I'm just saying you are being a controlling and disrespectful sub who needs to be punished.

[Dr_Phish]

He wont propose cause he's saving up to buy his real girlfriend a ring, obviously, who would want to marry a narcissistic b***h like yourself.
Lol you're going to die alone, you fat troll.

[Bahama_Momma]

Bridezilla anyone? rolleyes
Just so you know crazy lady, a wedding isn't all about the bride.
The husband kind of plays an important part too.
Unless you're rich, don't expect him to produce a very expensive wedding out of thin air.
Not to mention support himself and a crazy wife.