how do i make my boyfriend propose to me?

[Spiffehz]

this sounds like a fake story to meee

[konfused123]

The fact that you've put a schedual on him show's immaturity. HE shouldn't have to conform to YOUR ideals. relationships require give and take from both sides, though I'm sure you've already heard of that. why not try moving in with him first, and then just suck it up if he doesn't want to propose to you before your 30'th birthday?

Besides, if he was going to propose at disney world, then why would you ask? >.> that completely ruins the surprise, and would have immediately made him say "no" and start planning something else.

also, I'm sure I don't need to tell you that you should marry a guy because you want to be with them, not because you want to be married by a certain time and because you've already been together for ___ amount of time.

[peach_zelda]

you can't, you simpleton.

fail topic is fail.

[konfused123]

Kaori242

You've met TWICE. It's been ONE YEAR.

OF COURSE YOU SHOULD GET MARRIED.

HE'S AN ASSHAT FOR NOT WANTING TO PROPOSE TO YOU AND FULFILL YOUR CHILDHOOD WANTS!

Never mind HIS needs and wants!

LOLOLOLOLOL.

rofl you just made my day....

[Nekkita]

LoVeRz In SpRiNg

My boyfriend and I have been dating since last December 11th. We met online in a Second Life bondage club and he collared me last December. A lot of my friends don't think my anniversary is serious because it took us until the end of May to meet IRL, but they are just jealous that we have been dating so long. We are still long distance but we have met twice now and when we meet up in December it will be the third time, to celebrate my 29th birthday, and our 1 year anniversary, in Walt Disney World heart

Since I have been a little girl I have dreamed of being married in Walt Disney World and being proposed to under the fireworks in the Magic Kingdom. And I want to be married by the time I am 30, god damn it. I have watched all my friends getting married and I am sick and tired of being alone. It's my turn now, and when I turn 29 I will only have a year left. I need Ron to propose ASAP.

I asked him if he was going to propose to me in December and he flat said no. He said he needed to save his money to pay off student loans and it didn't make sense to propose while he is in California and I am in South Carolina. This is such bullshit. We have been dating a year. A YEAR. It is HIGH TIME for him to commit or get out. All my bitchy so-called friends have said "Why don't you just hightail it down to the courthouse when it's time." They are so ******** stupid. That is NOT what I have dreamed of since I was a little girl. It is my turn, goddamnit. And I want a princess ring, and a fairy tale wedding. I NEED Ron to propose NOW, because it's going to take at least a year for us to save up for the wedding. I don't intend to spend more than 10 thousand dollars on the wedding but it will still take time to save. How do I get him to propose already?! I've wasted a year of my life waiting around on him and if I break up with him it's too late to start over with someone else. Help!

i think you are jumping the gun just a bit there. first, you cant make someone propose to you, thats defeating the purpose. to be honest, you're being a bit too desperate...my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship, he's 26 and im 22, we been together a year also but have been close friends for more than 2 years. we have talked about getting married but we will see. TIME tells all. and thats what i think you need, time. your life is not ending just yet so dont rush it. the more you push the topic on him the more he'll despise the topic and you're more likely to make him leave you than marry you. give him TIME and respect his wishes/feelings.

[Ellyn]

probably done to death because this is nearing the tenth page.


if you want him to propose to you, i think you should ask yourself why you want to get married.
do you wish to marry simply because of your age or do you want to marry because you want to share the rest of your life, money, and companionship with him?

you're probably more mature than me in many areas, and more mature than most of the people on this website (i'm 19..the general population on here are probably younger)
so..i can easily say that i can't tell from a few paragraphs and reading only one side to know anything.

older people tend to wait far less longer to get married than younger people..so i don't really know.

all i can really securely tell you is that love shouldn't be rushed. marriage shouldn't be rushed. if you love him, and he loves you, try not to fear the future and just try to soak in the present.


or poke a few holes in the condom. that's what i'd do if i was desperate enough. ;3
most marriages i see are usually the result of an unplanned pregnancy.

[Clockwork Lime]

THREAD NECRO IS BAD, PEOPLE.

[Alamoney]

The poster is an obvious troll, but I will bite anyways.


You keep talking about your childhood dream and how he HAS to propose, because that is the way you dreamed it would be.

What about his dreams, huh? his passions? his goals? The point of a relationship is that BOTH parties are to be happy - not just one person.

And if he isn't happy with you because you forced marriage upon him when he clearly is not ready, then you are the one at flaw. You are the fault in this relationship. You will be the end of it all, and it is only you to blame.

[Alison_Kagome]

Im normally not rude on these.

but you dont make someone propose to you. thats a no no!. grow up.

you met online,and saw eachother barely, boo hoo one year, and barely see eachother u dont know if he's the one or not.

i've been with my bf for almost 2 years (feb 21st will be 2 years) and im 16, hes (well, 18 next tuesday), so if we do make it to the proposal part itll be over 3 years together. i love my man very much and i know in my soul that hes my one. we had one bad month this past summer but got over it and it made our relationship stronger.

so grow up "princess"

[XxXYourBabyDollXxX]

Oh wows here we go again another drama queen so your well I hate to say it but a brat i mean if you want to get married so badly then ******** ask him the worst things that can happen is he can say no and in some parts of the world it is thought that a women proposing to a man is more romantic plus he already said no when you asked him if he would propose to you so why pressure him aka nice way to make the guy run a mile. So stop living in a fairytale. He is trying to make your future better by paying off his loans and when he’s ready he will prose to you and it will be romantic because you'll know he wants to marry you and it not just you pressuring him to make the decision so yeah before having a b***h fit over it and think about it your just going on 30 some people don’t even have the privilege to get married so chill out.

[Tuxedo Mask (Levitz9)]

OP, you're deluded.

You are rushing into things. I can understand if your biological clock is ticking, but this hurried attitude of yours is only going to push him away further. What's more, you have barely even been with the guy long enough to even begin consider marrying him.

There's no way you'll be able to marry him in a year at Disney, and with your current attitude, the chances dwindle even further. You're 28. You should know better by now.

Chances are, he's going to get tired of your pestering (and I don't blame him), and he's going to break up with you. I recommend that you stop, take a moment to analyze things, and go see a counselor. You really need to set yourself straight.

[Silversan]

While this OP is most likely a troll, there are people out there that are like her. I am sure that most of you, if not all, have at least heard of the show Bridezillia. Women can be serious business when it comes to making their childhood dreams a reality. A lot of people imagine the perfect wedding with the perfect man. Not everyone does, because I did not even think about marriage until I was in middle school and even then I didn't have the image of a perfect wedding. If anything I was angsting about the fact that I would probably die alone with a million cat. Maybe I was the minority, maybe I am the majority. I just know that there are a good number of women who will do anything to have their wedding day be perfect in their eyes.

People need to remember that a wedding is about two people getting married and their family and friends celebrating this fact. It is not just about the bride buying a dress, having a shower, hanging out with her girlfriends, and then being the center of attention on her big day. There is another person in the picture. The groom, the fiance, the future husband. The person who proposed to you in the first place.

It pisses me off when I watch shows and see the women bitching at their fiance, whining how they want their big day to be perfect. Perfect? For what? You? Did these people forget that maybe the groom wants certain things to happen at the wedding? Maybe he has his own dreams and goals he wants to be seen in reality.

[[.Asuna.]]

Don't be in such a rush.
I've been dating the same man for over four years.
Our education is first, and we aren't in a rush to get married yet.

Look, you have to be patient and make sure HE is ready, even if you are raring to go for it. If you make him propose to you, it won't mean anything, and you'd be forcing something on him that he may not be ready for, or even want.

[Iron_Lynx]

Holy s**t. Spend a significant amount of time together before getting married. Take a road trip and see how it goes. Don't marry someone you've never lived with, and certainly don't expect them to propose before you've lived together.

If you push as hard as it sounds like you do, I wouldn't be too surprised if you never got married.