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My boyfriend and I have been dating since last December 11th. We met online in a Second Life bondage club and he collared me last December. A lot of my friends don't think my anniversary is serious because it took us until the end of May to meet IRL, but they are just jealous that we have been dating so long. We are still long distance but we have met twice now and when we meet up in December it will be the third time, to celebrate my 29th birthday, and our 1 year anniversary, in Walt Disney World heart

Since I have been a little girl I have dreamed of being married in Walt Disney World and being proposed to under the fireworks in the Magic Kingdom. And I want to be married by the time I am 30, god damn it. I have watched all my friends getting married and I am sick and tired of being alone. It's my turn now, and when I turn 29 I will only have a year left. I need Ron to propose ASAP.

I asked him if he was going to propose to me in December and he flat said no. He said he needed to save his money to pay off student loans and it didn't make sense to propose while he is in California and I am in South Carolina. This is such bullshit. We have been dating a year. A YEAR. It is HIGH TIME for him to commit or get out. All my bitchy so-called friends have said "Why don't you just hightail it down to the courthouse when it's time." They are so ******** stupid. That is NOT what I have dreamed of since I was a little girl. It is my turn, goddamnit. And I want a princess ring, and a fairy tale wedding. I NEED Ron to propose NOW, because it's going to take at least a year for us to save up for the wedding. I don't intend to spend more than 10 thousand dollars on the wedding but it will still take time to save. How do I get him to propose already?! I've wasted a year of my life waiting around on him and if I break up with him it's too late to start over with someone else. Help!
 
     
 
boo hoo. Too bad. You don't ******** make someone propose to you cause of your own selfish wants.

Grow up " little girl".

Maybe if you can fork over all the money and pay off his student loans.

1 years is prob too soon to determine someone is your soul mate anyways. Considering you guys only met twice and haven't even tried moving in together.

Don't waste 10 k to only divorce 1 year or less later. >_>

I also don't see how you can manage to have a wedding at disney world and spend less than 10k.
     
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You can't make him propose. If he doesn't want to marry you.. either accept that or dump him and keep looking for someone who does want to marry you.
 
     
 
You can't make someone propose to you. Give it time... longer than a year, definitely in my opinion. Don't push him, 'cause in reality you're just pushing him further away from you.
     
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You can't make him propose.
Ditto. If he doesn't want to propose yet, tough luck. You're being such a spoiled brat about it, too. How dare you pressure him into something that should be natural? You can go to Disney World again if you really want to, for god's sake. You seriously need a wake-up call. You've ONLY been dating for a year, and you're not even living near each other. Maybe you should save up to, I don't know, MOVE IN WITH HIM before trying to get hitched. Show some goddamn initiative.
 
     
 
Wow, you're a complete b***h.

You've "wasted" a year with him?

You've met him twice?

You want to make him propose?

So you want to rush into a marriage, which he's not ready for, just so you can have a "fairy tale" wedding only for it to end in divorce within a matter of months?

Seems like you don't know how Disney weddings work. You don't get proposed and married in the same trip. You have to book your wedding possibly a YEAR in advance.
     
"Make" him propose to you?

Well. He definitely shouldn't be avoiding marrying you at all costs, since you're not a completely manipulative, overly controlling b***h. stressed
 
     
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Troll or stupid. Probably the first, so don't bother.
     

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Wow, you're a complete b***h.

You've "wasted" a year with him?

You've met him twice?

You want to make him propose?

So you want to rush into a marriage, which he's not ready for, just so you can have a "fairy tale" wedding only for it to end in divorce within a matter of months?

Seems like you don't know how Disney weddings work. You don't get proposed and married in the same trip. You have to book your wedding possibly a YEAR in advance.


Try learning how to read before you make ignoramus posts. rolleyes Way to be an asshat. rolleyes

He has to propose to me NOW when we go to Disney World (under the fireworks) so that we will have time to save money for our wedding before I turn 30 NEXT December. If he proposes now we can be married next year in Disney World before my birthday.
 
     
 
rolleyes
You don't.
You propose to him, wait for him, or ******** ask him to do it.
     

Don't his eyes just turn you on?
Misguided heart.
Just wait until it's time, when he feel right to
say those words.
 
     
 
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rolleyes
You don't.
You propose to him, wait for him, or ******** ask him to do it.


Yeah right, like proposing to a man was my childhood dream. He is going to do it RIGHT and treat me like a lady, god damn it.
     
PROPOSE TO HIM

Really, you cant FORCE him to act, so if YOU want it, DO IT YOURSELF.

You are a very Whining 28 year old. And immature.
 
     
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rolleyes
You don't.
You propose to him, wait for him, or ******** ask him to do it.


Yeah right, like proposing to a man was my childhood dream. He is going to do it RIGHT and treat me like a lady, god damn it.
Actually, no. He's going to dump you after you go all psycho on his a** for not giving up his ******** life and happiness for you.
     
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