Hellokimmiee
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- Posted: Wed, 06 Feb 2013 08:17:54 +0000
Riviera de la Mancha
First, wrong place to post this.
Second, when you are in a long term relationship, its normal to grow alittle too familiar at times. If you are serious, start by having a sit-down conversation in a non-confrontational way. Make sure to note your issue is not that he has friends or spends time with them- your issue is you feel like you are being pushed out.
Then, when you have made your feelings known and, if he is still interested in a relationship, do your part to make it fun for him to hang out with you. Get dressed up, put some nice perfume on, etc. Then, go to something you both enjoy or mix in some stuff you both like. And, in all seriousness, think like a guy- put some physical spice in the mix. Last long term girlfriend I had, we went to a show, got back to her place, she made me dinner, and made some chocolate frosting. FYI- there was no cake.
Second, when you are in a long term relationship, its normal to grow alittle too familiar at times. If you are serious, start by having a sit-down conversation in a non-confrontational way. Make sure to note your issue is not that he has friends or spends time with them- your issue is you feel like you are being pushed out.
Then, when you have made your feelings known and, if he is still interested in a relationship, do your part to make it fun for him to hang out with you. Get dressed up, put some nice perfume on, etc. Then, go to something you both enjoy or mix in some stuff you both like. And, in all seriousness, think like a guy- put some physical spice in the mix. Last long term girlfriend I had, we went to a show, got back to her place, she made me dinner, and made some chocolate frosting. FYI- there was no cake.
Thank you for the advice.