how do i get his attention again?

[Hellokimmiee]

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and lately things have been a little rough due to being away at different colleges. He's been more into his friends lately,making me really lonely. His communication is horrible, if I'm lucky I'll get two short conversations a day which take hours due to his slow responses. I asked him if he's coming home this weekend and his exact words were "let me check with my friends first"... He says he still loves me very much, and tells me he loves me often. But i was wondering, do you guys have any advice? How do i get him crazy for me again? What's going on? sad

And Nooo please don't mention breaking up. I want to make this better...

[Knobist]

It's really simple, you have to be music.

[Hellokimmiee]

Jacque De Molay

It's really simple, you have to be music.

confused

[Hellokimmiee]

Jacque De Molay

He's drowning in noise and you're just another noise to him so I suggest you spice things up by arranging meetings and travel destinations.

what do you mean by noise?

[Knobist]

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

It's really simple, you have to be music.

confused

You don't want to be just another noise right? If you were like music you'd really grab his attention. What does he like to do?

[Knobist]

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

He's drowning in noise and you're just another noise to him so I suggest you spice things up by arranging meetings and travel destinations.

what do you mean by noise?

Noise is a constant that you learn to ignore early on.

[Hellokimmiee]

Jacque De Molay

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

It's really simple, you have to be music.

confused

You don't want to be just another noise right? If you were like music you'd really grab his attention. What does he like to do?

he likes to play games, in which i made myself learn how to play so we can play together, only worked for a little while...

[Hellokimmiee]

Jacque De Molay

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

He's drowning in noise and you're just another noise to him so I suggest you spice things up by arranging meetings and travel destinations.

what do you mean by noise?

Noise is a constant that you learn to ignore early on.

makes sense... I don't wanna be noise sad

[Knobist]

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

It's really simple, you have to be music.

confused

You don't want to be just another noise right? If you were like music you'd really grab his attention. What does he like to do?

he likes to play games, in which i made myself learn how to play so we can play together, only worked for a little while...

You are chasing him dear and that loses it's touch after some time. If you want to reverse the dynamic you really need to learn how to attract attention like music does.

[Hellokimmiee]

Jacque De Molay

It's really simple, you have to be music.

at first i thought you were trolling, but i understand what you're talking about now. Thank you

[Hellokimmiee]

Jacque De Molay

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

It's really simple, you have to be music.

confused

You don't want to be just another noise right? If you were like music you'd really grab his attention. What does he like to do?

he likes to play games, in which i made myself learn how to play so we can play together, only worked for a little while...

You are chasing him dear and that loses it's touch after some time. If you want to reverse the dynamic you really need to learn how to attract attention like music does.

okay, i thought playing his favorite game of all time would get him excited. Hmm. Do you have any suggestions on how to be music? We're both 22.

[Disconsented]

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

Hellokimmiee

Jacque De Molay

It's really simple, you have to be music.

confused

You don't want to be just another noise right? If you were like music you'd really grab his attention. What does he like to do?

he likes to play games, in which i made myself learn how to play so we can play together, only worked for a little while...

You are chasing him dear and that loses it's touch after some time. If you want to reverse the dynamic you really need to learn how to attract attention like music does.

okay, i thought playing his favorite game of all time would get him excited. Hmm. Do you have any suggestions on how to be music? We're both 22.

Have you tried sex?

[-Detaiiz]

i feel like i missed a lot of this thread.