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Well, if you are in a realtionship, her mom is actually on point about that. You shoudlnt expect like to be on your partner's bed in the parent's house like that anyways? That would be something a lot of parents arent into.
What do you think you can do? Because as she is a minor she cant just leave. Running away isnt a good option and it can lead to some legal issues for you. If oyu want you can call cps and stuff, idk if she has other relatives to go to, but school isnt a big issue as that can be sorted out.
She does and I'd be very willing to be open about it, if it wouldn't get her in endless trouble and me restrained. They aren't accepting of that sort of thing. Never will be.
And I'm not stupid enough to come out with it even if it means it's doing things the correct way.
If there is a correct way to handle parents that would wanna murder you if they found out you're dating their daughter..
Anyways, the reason she was angry over it was kinda silly. We weren't being all snuggly or anything like that. Just laying across the bed and talking.
Me and my cousins and other friends would do that and nothing would really be meant by it.
Idk why you think you would get a restraining order? It makes no sense that you would for reporting what is a crime, and you cant really do that just for dating their daughter. Unless you are like crazy older it isnt like you have any reason to fear. I bet that she probably has a suspicion about the relationship (just not willing to confront because scared), you dont need to be snuggling to have a parent annoyed over that. I know that I am not really allowed to be in my boyfriend's room alone at his house, even if it isnt anything, like when I go wake him up he always says that. His parents are chill with me staying over and such but not hanging out in his room.
Also her mom working at the school doesnt change anything. That has no bearing on the legal stuff they have to do.
I'm legally an adult and she is almost seventeen. (Say it's gross if you'd like, but it's not a dramatic difference. xD Just barely enough to possibly get me in trouble.)
So they still probably could. Especially if they made stuff up.
Even if they didn't get a restraining order, I'd never be able to see her. They would have her on something like lockdown. She'd never be able to leave the house and if she was they would be close enough to get her. They are friends with police which I am sure they could get on their side if they made it sound like I'm crazy and/or dangerous.
Her mom working at the school would make it easy to force her back.
And the way that school works, the other adults would side with her mom and make it happen.
The thing about emotional abuse is, most people won't pay attention to it. Unless the damage is physical, it's not worth noting. Even if CPS was called, I doubt it'd matter.
Besides, they aren't bad people. Her dad is pretty chill most of the time and trusts her to make good decisions. And she does. Her mom just tries to force all of her points of views on her and makes her do what she thinks is best and what she wants. If she doesn't.. Like I said, screaming, taking privileges, things, degrading, all to the point of her eventually giving in.
There's discipline, then there's selfishness. It leans more to the latter.
That's understandable, most parents don't allow their kid and the girl/boy they are dating in the same room together too long.
It's something I would completely respect if it wasn't for the fact that they wouldn't accept us being together in the first place.
I do feel guilty about hiding that, but I can't just.. Not be with her, y'know?
As gross and evil and mislead as people assume it is, I can't let it go.
It's like, I found my other half but 90% of the people who could see the full picture would just try to burn it down.