xChibi Cannibalx
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- Posted: Thu, 24 Apr 2014 10:40:25 +0000
Ill start off by saying this is probly more of a vent
My boyfriend is a manager at McDonalds. Currently, hes working night shifts although he told them he cannot do them due to an *incident that happened last year. They put him back on this shift again because managers were quitting left and right due to a new boss who doesnt exactly fallow the rules. Yes, shes been reported by workers as well as customers, the company is doing nothing about it. Anyway, his hours are 10:00pm to 5:30am - 6:30am depending on how busy it is that night. Ive morphed to his new sleeping schedule because we live together [we both live in his parents house, currently]. We usually fall asleep around 9am and wake up around 8pm. Side note, sleeping while its bright out gives me a shooting headache when i wake up; our blinds arnt the best, but its all weve got
We eat before bed and we eat when we wake up, kind of like anyone else would do during the day. However, i cant during the night. Everything in the kitchen is always loud. They stack things rather than put them away, so if i need a pot, chances are that ill have to move several before getting one thats the right size. Not to mention one thats clean. His younger sister does the dishes and she usually slacks because there are 6 people living in the house, and those dishes do add up. She refuses to do them sometimes, too. Back on topic, the kitchen is very loud, so i cannot eat while everyone is sleeping. Im stuck eating twice a day, then snacking over night. The snacks usually consist of pretzels, poptarts, or candy. Im starting to get sick when i eat any of these, and i understand why - theyre junk. So now when i eat, i feel sick, and when i dont eat, i feel sick. Its a lose - lose situation with eating
As you can also see, our sleep schedule takes up the entire daytime we have if we need to run errands. I cant drive due to medical issues, so he is my one and only driver to get things done. We can still go grocery shopping thanks to 24/7 walmart, but if either of us need to go to a doctor, we cant. Or if we want to go on a date, we really cant because the theaters arnt open, and good restaurants arnt open either
I feel hungry, tired, and constantly exhausted to the point i feel like im going to pass out and/or puke. Im starting to feel depressed when hes gone because im locked up in the room the entire time so i dont wake up his family. I dont know what to do any more
*Note. He was getting really sick/exhausted and passed out while on the job and was sent to the ER
EDIT: Pretty much worked it out. Were going to be spending more time in the morning than at night so we can get things done then go to bed after
EDIT 2: Everything is pretty much worked out now. Were going to leave the morning open to do what we need, then go to bed around 11 - noon. Weve got fruits to bring to the room for me to snack on at night, and weve got the basement fridge and part of the freezer. We are now allowed to clean our own dishes, which will help a lot too. Eating at night is getting easier now that we have enough space to just heat something up in the microwave
My boyfriend is a manager at McDonalds. Currently, hes working night shifts although he told them he cannot do them due to an *incident that happened last year. They put him back on this shift again because managers were quitting left and right due to a new boss who doesnt exactly fallow the rules. Yes, shes been reported by workers as well as customers, the company is doing nothing about it. Anyway, his hours are 10:00pm to 5:30am - 6:30am depending on how busy it is that night. Ive morphed to his new sleeping schedule because we live together [we both live in his parents house, currently]. We usually fall asleep around 9am and wake up around 8pm. Side note, sleeping while its bright out gives me a shooting headache when i wake up; our blinds arnt the best, but its all weve got
We eat before bed and we eat when we wake up, kind of like anyone else would do during the day. However, i cant during the night. Everything in the kitchen is always loud. They stack things rather than put them away, so if i need a pot, chances are that ill have to move several before getting one thats the right size. Not to mention one thats clean. His younger sister does the dishes and she usually slacks because there are 6 people living in the house, and those dishes do add up. She refuses to do them sometimes, too. Back on topic, the kitchen is very loud, so i cannot eat while everyone is sleeping. Im stuck eating twice a day, then snacking over night. The snacks usually consist of pretzels, poptarts, or candy. Im starting to get sick when i eat any of these, and i understand why - theyre junk. So now when i eat, i feel sick, and when i dont eat, i feel sick. Its a lose - lose situation with eating
As you can also see, our sleep schedule takes up the entire daytime we have if we need to run errands. I cant drive due to medical issues, so he is my one and only driver to get things done. We can still go grocery shopping thanks to 24/7 walmart, but if either of us need to go to a doctor, we cant. Or if we want to go on a date, we really cant because the theaters arnt open, and good restaurants arnt open either
I feel hungry, tired, and constantly exhausted to the point i feel like im going to pass out and/or puke. Im starting to feel depressed when hes gone because im locked up in the room the entire time so i dont wake up his family. I dont know what to do any more
*Note. He was getting really sick/exhausted and passed out while on the job and was sent to the ER
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EDIT: Pretty much worked it out. Were going to be spending more time in the morning than at night so we can get things done then go to bed after
EDIT 2: Everything is pretty much worked out now. Were going to leave the morning open to do what we need, then go to bed around 11 - noon. Weve got fruits to bring to the room for me to snack on at night, and weve got the basement fridge and part of the freezer. We are now allowed to clean our own dishes, which will help a lot too. Eating at night is getting easier now that we have enough space to just heat something up in the microwave