First time having sex, what a let down.[Mature]

Was your first time good?

Yes	24.9%	[ 65 ]
No	25.3%	[ 66 ]
Still have my V-card	49.8%	[ 130 ]
Total Votes:			[ 261 ]

[DeathEaterZero]

Ok, so just lost my V-card last night to my girlfriend. IDK but it sucked. I know its not suppost to be amazing but I didn't even c**. Then again her family was in the next room so I was scared shitless they would walk in. Plus we had to be really quite so they didn't hear us. Do you know how hard it is to have QUITE sex! Tis not easy. But IDK why, I cant get off with her. Blow job, hand job, sex. Nothing gets me to orgasm. I get it up no prob. She just kisses me and its at attention. But from there nothing else happens. Is it just cause I'm nervous? I'm so conffusled. Help? sweatdrop

[angel_259236102]

Well, lets see waht you did wrong...
1. Have sex when her parents are there.
2. Forced yourelf to be quiet so you didnt have as much fun
3. Nervous beause it was your first time added to 1 and 2 made it quite hard to preform well.

Next time...use your HEAD and only have sex where you can fully enjoy it and not in your parents house when they are there.

[Phoenixxangel LycanVamp]

I'd say your nervous and probably need to teach her more of what you like.

Make sure to tell her when shes doing something right... Give the girl some advice.

[ChibiTaryn]

The idea that the "first time" is supposed to be amazing is a bit... of a falsehood, for most.

It does sound like you're very tense though. That will have a huge effect on your ability to enjoy sex.

[PimpinEggs]

angel_259236102

Well, lets see waht you did wrong...
1. Have sex when her parents are there.
2. Forced yourelf to be quiet so you didnt have as much fun
3. Nervous beause it was your first time added to 1 and 2 made it quite hard to preform well.

Next time...use your HEAD and only have sex where you can fully enjoy it and not in your parents house when they are there.

Second this.

[-RainbowFlavoredBubbbles-]

PimpinEggs

angel_259236102

Well, lets see waht you did wrong...
1. Have sex when her parents are there.
2. Forced yourelf to be quiet so you didnt have as much fun
3. Nervous beause it was your first time added to 1 and 2 made it quite hard to preform well.

Next time...use your HEAD and only have sex where you can fully enjoy it and not in your parents house when they are there.

Second this.

This.

[Magic-Froggie Sundae]

"Nervousness and stress can make you unable to orgasm. Quiet sex isn't all that difficult....next time go somewhere else...."

[Little_Robotic_Earring]

[ J U S T. W A N T E D. T O. S A Y. ]»



Your first time isn't supposed to be amazing.
It's something you've never done before.

But then again, it's not supposed to be god awful.
Which yours seemed to be.
Next time, don't put yourself in a situation where you're more worried
about getting caught than satisfying your girl.

[Freebird4077]

angel_259236102

Well, lets see waht you did wrong...
1. Have sex when her parents are there.
2. Forced yourelf to be quiet so you didnt have as much fun
3. Nervous beause it was your first time added to 1 and 2 made it quite hard to preform well.

Next time...use your HEAD and only have sex where you can fully enjoy it and not in your parents house when they are there.

this.

[Granting Freedom]

Having to do it while people in are in the otehr room, that's a lot of pressure. It'll be better when you're not trying to be sneaky about it.

[kitten tea]

My first time was in a car....near a bowling Alley. lol We were almost caught because a truck stopped right behind us and just sat there...and then he went around the Alley, and parked in an empty parking lot....we were like, oh s**t.
It was amazingly funny though! He was like, "Shhhh. Stay down...." [[did that with just a friend... sweatdrop known him for almost two year now.]]

But yeah, like everyone else is saying. Nervous, Tense, not able to relax.
I can't get my bf to come either...My arm tires out right when he gets to that point, quiet ironic....
and with sex, he has to be the one on top, going at his pace...

Making noise is the best part....


and my bf grandparents are deaf.... blaugh

[majesty_del_mystico]

yes you're just nervous, you need to relax and your location is what kept you from enjoying yourself. As long as you're protected and secluded you'll have more fun next time.

[DeathEaterZero]

Cpt Lonestar

Well, you are a failure of a man for not cumming. Leave your Man card next to your V card when you leave. And I LOL'd at you having sex in the same house as her parents. Failure. Grow up 8 years, til you're atleast 18.

Hey Umm, I'm 19 and in college. So yea. Suck it. rofl

@Everyone else: Thanks.
So pretty much I got that next time, wait till I dont have to be incognito.

I did have fun though, just didn't c**.
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[Chase Your Demise]

The first time for me wasn't amazing, but the memory of it was, because I lost it to someone I loved. But the first time is never really amazing, especially not in an environment like that.