Female Problem (Christians Please)

[Mr Marmalade Jones]

Neurological Flatulence

Why do I get the impression that you want to get married just so that you can have sex? neutral

Seriously, that would be an appalling reason to get hitched.

What she said. There's a lot more to marriage than sex.

Look - you're putting a stupidly huge amount of pressure on yourself by trying to find a marriable gf Right Now. Girlfriends and wives are tricky. Take it easy at first. Meet people. Date 'em. Learn. Don't expect to get it right or meet The One right away.

xd The One. There better not be just The One. 7 thousand million people in the world and I gotta find The One? I can't find my friends in the pub and I already know what they look like!

[Celadonia]

Rushing to marry someone to have sex is stupid and naive.

Some would argue that it might be un-Christian. (I personally don't, but it's still really stupid.)
So either, buck up and deal with using your hand until you find the right woman, or realize that plenty of Christians have sex before marriage and don't get struck by lightening.

As for the girls, don't worry about it.
Focus on building friendships with both genders, and your schoolwork.
When you find someone, you'll find someone.
You can't go committing yourself until both people are really into it for the long run, and since you haven't even gone on a date with her, and she's going away quite a distance, it'd be kind of silly.
Maybe you will find someone at school!
Or maybe you'll find someone AFTER school, somewhere else in the world.

Don't rush things, especially for the wrong reasons.

[xLady Tsukiyox]

SizeDontMatter

Soup for Life

Well, I would gladly give my advice, but since I'm not christian you'd be to close-minded to take it into consideration anyways.
It's rather rude to only ask for help from "your own kind". There are plenty of yahoo groups for this kind of thing, please take your ignorance there.

HAHA you don't know how open minded I can be twisted . It's my opend mindedness that made me Christian razz

They only reason I wanted Christians to give me advice because lots of us believe that God will provide you a spouse and I wanted to see If others can see If she is the one for me or not cause of my emotional input I'm blind to it right now.

Or you could fall in love with someone that's not a Christian. That's the thing about attraction, you don't know who you are attracted to nor do you know who you'll fall in love with. Inter-religion relationships do work out. :3 I know this by experience.

[x_iiPapa Bear]

is it philippians or philippines? hmmm because my country is philippines

[Flameinexile]

If you're getting married to have sex, you're doing it wrong.
Not only are you cheating her, but really, you're cheating yourself.
You're thinking about this way too much.
Go ahead and ask the girl out, at least then she'll know you like her, but don't start pushing her to the altar.
Just because you're a not a Catholic and divorce is free-game doesn't mean you should rush in that direction.

The person you marry should be your best friend in every sense, not just the first girl who will agree to have you so you can finally get laid.

[Shannon_Yokomoto]

well like everyone is saying. get her information and keep contact with her. there are some good christian girls here in the US. im trying to be a better christian right now. its hard. but im working on it. you can always, find a girl at the school or at the church you go to here in the US.

what state are you going to go for the college?

[Miss-dark8607]

I think you need to stop worrying about all this goofy stuff and just let God handle it. IF and WHEN God wants you to hook up and get married you will get married. Don't let your mom bully you into something that GOD Himself doesn't fill you aren't ready yet.

Get your degree and let God set your path.

Gez.

[Inuyoujo]

What sums up this thread:

LOL CHRISTIANS

[Ad Hominem Tu Quoque]

Inuyoujo

What sums up this thread:

LOL CHRISTIANS

Basically, yes.

[vanillawonderland]

SizeDontMatter

Soup for Life

Well, I would gladly give my advice, but since I'm not christian you'd be to close-minded to take it into consideration anyways.
It's rather rude to only ask for help from "your own kind". There are plenty of yahoo groups for this kind of thing, please take your ignorance there.

HAHA you don't know how open minded I can be twisted . It's my opend mindedness that made me Christian razz

They only reason I wanted Christians to give me advice because lots of us believe that God will provide you a spouse and I wanted to see If others can see If she is the one for me or not cause of my emotional input I'm blind to it right now.

Obviously, you aren't open-minded enough to accept advice from people of other religions. Being jewish, my advice is probably of no use to you.

[Mathew Elric]

Soup for Life

Well, I would gladly give my advice, but since I'm not christian you'd be to close-minded to take it into consideration anyways.
It's rather rude to only ask for help from "your own kind". There are plenty of yahoo groups for this kind of thing, please take your ignorance there.

Well played.

[MarmeeXnoir]

Mathew Elric

Soup for Life

Well, I would gladly give my advice, but since I'm not christian you'd be to close-minded to take it into consideration anyways.
It's rather rude to only ask for help from "your own kind". There are plenty of yahoo groups for this kind of thing, please take your ignorance there.

Well played.

Agreed with this as well.