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Btw, what kind of christian are you? (I mean donimation I guess...)
A lot of christians (in the US anyways) have sex before marrage. It's really only the Cathloics that are morbid about the issue.
Althought Adultry is not acceptible.
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Btw, what kind of christian are you? (I mean donimation I guess...)
A lot of christians (in the US anyways) have sex before marrage. It's really only the Cathloics that are morbid about the issue.
Althought Adultry is not acceptible.


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This is what happens when you don't live by carpe diem. You have 4 choices. 1: ask her out. If she says yes get her phone number and online contact information. If she says no, then at least you wouldn't be constantly wondering what she would have said. 2: Ask her out after the school year is up and after trying it out with some girls on campus. Relationships are a great way of finding out what you're looking for in a life time partner. 3: Don't ask her out and stick to finding a girl on campus. 4: Don't ask anyone out. Which will ya choose?
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you realise there's no rush to get married, right?
she's not the only girl out there.


Only reason I want to get married soon is because I believe in sex with only 1 woman after marriage. Women are my only weakness and I don't know if I can wait past I'm 25.


then why are you christian?
if you want to have sex, have sex.
its not the end of the world.
and if Gods so great, im sure he'll forgive you.


I'm christian because of the experiences I had.

I want sex because I'm human but I only want it with one person. Someone who I love and can trust and who loves me back. It's like looking at porn. first time you look you can watch the same thing over and over again. once you find something else then your hooked. you can't stop watching it and will always find new stuff and get bored with the old. It's the same as having sex. I want to have sex with only one woman cause once i have sex with 2 it will always be on my mind to have sex with more.

Obviously God will forgive me lol
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Btw, what kind of christian are you? (I mean donimation I guess...)
A lot of christians (in the US anyways) have sex before marrage. It's really only the Cathloics that are morbid about the issue.
Althought Adultry is not acceptible.


baptist


ah, 'splains it then.
I left them a while ago.
I'm a methodist now. :3
I don't really think sex before marrage is bad, as long as it's not casual sex.
And if you really want to wait, but don't feel you can: sex isn't that amazing. It's stickey and sweaty and really kind of nasty. gonk
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Well, I would gladly give my advice, but since I'm not christian you'd be to close-minded to take it into consideration anyways.
It's rather rude to only ask for help from "your own kind". There are plenty of yahoo groups for this kind of thing, please take your ignorance there.


HAHA you don't know how open minded I can be twisted . It's my opend mindedness that made me Christian razz

They only reason I wanted Christians to give me advice because lots of us believe that God will provide you a spouse and I wanted to see If others can see If she is the one for me or not cause of my emotional input I'm blind to it right now.


And open-mindedness helped me despise religion (not God, just religion) because of people like you. I know what Christians believe, you really don't have to tell me,. But God wont provide for you if your not open to anything other than what you believe. Maybe God doesn't have a Christian spouse in-store for you? Crazy, I know.


HAHA not crazy at all. You could be well right cause the girls that are attracted to me are not the ones from church. I just want a Christian woman so I can be... less tempted to do evil things.



How do you know the Christian woman won't tempt you?
I'm Christian, I'd tempt someone regardless of my faith. (now granted, I"m not a "hardcore" christian but still...)
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This is what happens when you don't live by carpe diem. You have 4 choices. 1: ask her out. If she says yes get her phone number and online contact information. If she says no, then at least you wouldn't be constantly wondering what she would have said. 2: Ask her out after the school year is up and after trying it out with some girls on campus. Relationships are a great way of finding out what you're looking for in a life time partner. 3: Don't ask her out and stick to finding a girl on campus. 4: Don't ask anyone out. Which will ya choose?


you have been great help... Most here didn't answer my question and just questioned my faith lol. I like option 2 the best so I'll might try that.

Thx
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Btw, what kind of christian are you? (I mean donimation I guess...)
A lot of christians (in the US anyways) have sex before marrage. It's really only the Cathloics that are morbid about the issue.
Althought Adultry is not acceptible.


baptist


ah, 'splains it then.
I left them a while ago.
I'm a methodist now. :3
I don't really think sex before marrage is bad, as long as it's not casual sex.
And if you really want to wait, but don't feel you can: sex isn't that amazing. It's stickey and sweaty and really kind of nasty. gonk


Haha Lots of people say that sex isn't that amazing when they find out I'm a virgin, but they always talk about it as if it was the only thing to life.
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Well, I would gladly give my advice, but since I'm not christian you'd be to close-minded to take it into consideration anyways.
It's rather rude to only ask for help from "your own kind". There are plenty of yahoo groups for this kind of thing, please take your ignorance there.


HAHA you don't know how open minded I can be twisted . It's my opend mindedness that made me Christian razz

They only reason I wanted Christians to give me advice because lots of us believe that God will provide you a spouse and I wanted to see If others can see If she is the one for me or not cause of my emotional input I'm blind to it right now.


And open-mindedness helped me despise religion (not God, just religion) because of people like you. I know what Christians believe, you really don't have to tell me,. But God wont provide for you if your not open to anything other than what you believe. Maybe God doesn't have a Christian spouse in-store for you? Crazy, I know.


HAHA not crazy at all. You could be well right cause the girls that are attracted to me are not the ones from church. I just want a Christian woman so I can be... less tempted to do evil things.



How do you know the Christian woman won't tempt you?
I'm Christian, I'd tempt someone regardless of my faith. (now granted, I"m not a "hardcore" christian but still...)


What do you mean you tempt people? If its a sexual temptation let me tell you sex is not an evil thing.
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This is what happens when you don't live by carpe diem. You have 4 choices. 1: ask her out. If she says yes get her phone number and online contact information. If she says no, then at least you wouldn't be constantly wondering what she would have said. 2: Ask her out after the school year is up and after trying it out with some girls on campus. Relationships are a great way of finding out what you're looking for in a life time partner. 3: Don't ask her out and stick to finding a girl on campus. 4: Don't ask anyone out. Which will ya choose?


you have been great help... Most here didn't answer my question and just questioned my faith lol. I like option 2 the best so I'll might try that.

Thx

I'm glad I could have been of help, and I'm sorry you're not getting as much help as you would have hoped for. When it comes to religious or pregnancy topics, people seem to be very biased in their replies.
Im Catholic and Canadian heart
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Btw, what kind of christian are you? (I mean donimation I guess...)
A lot of christians (in the US anyways) have sex before marrage. It's really only the Cathloics that are morbid about the issue.
Althought Adultry is not acceptible.


baptist


ah, 'splains it then.
I left them a while ago.
I'm a methodist now. :3
I don't really think sex before marrage is bad, as long as it's not casual sex.
And if you really want to wait, but don't feel you can: sex isn't that amazing. It's stickey and sweaty and really kind of nasty. gonk


Haha Lots of people say that sex isn't that amazing when they find out I'm a virgin, but they always talk about it as if it was the only thing to life.


Trust me, it really is icky and disgusting.
For the little bit of pleasure that comes out of it...
It's only really worth it if it's with someone you trust and care for.
And it's the same as your porn analogy. It becomes a drug. A rather unpleasent drug if you ask me.
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This is what happens when you don't live by carpe diem. You have 4 choices. 1: ask her out. If she says yes get her phone number and online contact information. If she says no, then at least you wouldn't be constantly wondering what she would have said. 2: Ask her out after the school year is up and after trying it out with some girls on campus. Relationships are a great way of finding out what you're looking for in a life time partner. 3: Don't ask her out and stick to finding a girl on campus. 4: Don't ask anyone out. Which will ya choose?


you have been great help... Most here didn't answer my question and just questioned my faith lol. I like option 2 the best so I'll might try that.

Thx

I'm glad I could have been of help, and I'm sorry you're not getting as much help as you would have hoped for. When it comes to religious or pregnancy topics, people seem to be very biased in their replies.


Haha no worries this is nothing compared to my work lol. lets just say I'm the only one there out of 20 guys who doesn't drink coffee or smoke or do drugs and believes in God and is still a virgin.
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