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Yes because thirteen year olds really know what love is.

First, you shouldn't be making fun of people for that : | Or popping....that stuff. It hurts like hell if someone else does it, and it's just gross.

Second, if he beat you, break up with him. Geez. Obvious solution is obvious.
 
     
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He says he'll never hurt you again, yet he threatens you at the hint of breaking up? Dump him now, honey. Never let a man touch you like that. If this is how he behaves without even a year gone by, imagine how horrible he'd be in a few. You have to leave him; you can love another man.
     
break up.
its gonna happen again.
promises get broken,one way or another.
wake up.
 
     
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Bye Bye Lyre
He says he'll never hurt you again, yet he threatens you at the hint of breaking up? Dump him now, honey. Never let a man touch you like that. If this is how he behaves without even a year gone by, imagine how horrible he'd be in a few. You have to leave him; you can love another man.

But hes been my first for everything under sex! it'll be too much, couldn't i just wait it out, i told him if he does anything like that again we are over! crying
     
imma ninjaa yo
Bye Bye Lyre
He says he'll never hurt you again, yet he threatens you at the hint of breaking up? Dump him now, honey. Never let a man touch you like that. If this is how he behaves without even a year gone by, imagine how horrible he'd be in a few. You have to leave him; you can love another man.

But hes been my first for everything under sex! it'll be too much, couldn't i just wait it out, i told him if he does anything like that again we are over! crying


It doesn't matter how many firsts he's given you, he's obviously an a*****e with very little self-control, not that it excuses his behavior. Stop making excuses and leave him. There are men out there that can and will treat you better.
 
     
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Communication problem. TALK ABOUT IT to him. If neither of you talks, then you just continue to annoy and scare each other.


Agreed. You guys gotta get this out in the open and figure out exactly what happened so you're both on the same page and nobody's freaked out. He's probably really worried about how you feel about the situation but doesn't know how to talk to you about it.
     
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So Sunday night my boyfriend and i were hanging out and i always joke around with the pimples he has on his back, so i was joking and popped one. usually he doesn't do anything, but this time he turned on me sad . he kicked my in the leg, shoulder, and stomach. It hurt but not too bad. He had this look in his eye, i thought he was going to beat me. I burst into tears and starting shaking. He can back to the normal boy he always is.
Its been 3 days now and i still am a little scared of him. I don't know what to do.
I want to break up with him, but its almost 9 months and i do truely love him. IDK what to do!!!
He promised it would never happen again but it still bugs me.
Everytime i even mention breaking up because of it he goes crazy saying hes taken all my s**t and he does one thing wrong and i end it.. idk what to do x[[


fail.
 
     
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imma ninjaa yo
So Sunday night my boyfriend and i were hanging out and i always joke around with the pimples he has on his back, so i was joking and popped one. usually he doesn't do anything, but this time he turned on me sad . he kicked my in the leg, shoulder, and stomach. It hurt but not too bad. He had this look in his eye, i thought he was going to beat me. I burst into tears and starting shaking. He can back to the normal boy he always is.
Its been 3 days now and i still am a little scared of him. I don't know what to do.
I want to break up with him, but its almost 9 months and i do truely love him. IDK what to do!!!
He promised it would never happen again but it still bugs me.
Everytime i even mention breaking up because of it he goes crazy saying hes taken all my s**t and he does one thing wrong and i end it.. idk what to do x[[


fail.

you forgot the "epic"
     
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imma ninjaa yo
Bye Bye Lyre
He says he'll never hurt you again, yet he threatens you at the hint of breaking up? Dump him now, honey. Never let a man touch you like that. If this is how he behaves without even a year gone by, imagine how horrible he'd be in a few. You have to leave him; you can love another man.

But hes been my first for everything under sex! it'll be too much, couldn't i just wait it out, i told him if he does anything like that again we are over! crying
Doesn't matter. My ex was my first everything. Turned out he was an a*****e, so I dumped him. I gave him chances, too. I heard a lot of "that'll never happen again, I swear." It'll all bullshit. Your boy isn't any different, believe me. You'll be better off without him, with someone you deserve. And you know it, too, or you wouldn't be posting here.
 
     
 
You're going to be one of those wifes who goes to the hospital with bruises on her face and says, "He didn't mean to! Honest."

Break up time if you have any braincells. It doesn't matter why he did it.
     
Wow, if my boyfriend ever hit me, I'd leave him in a heartbeat.

No matter how much I "love" him.

Don't be one of those women whose husbands hit them regularly, but "it'll never happen again" and "he still loves you".

Stand up for yourself.

You tell him that he will never hit you again, or you're gone.
 
     
 
1. Talk to him.
2. "I want to break up with him, but its almost 9 months and i do truely love him. IDK what to do!!"
It you 'truely love' some one then you wouldn't want to break up with him. Just because it's nine months doesn't mean you shouldn't break up or you should.
3. Normally any man that hits will hit again.
     

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imma ninjaa yo
Bye Bye Lyre
He says he'll never hurt you again, yet he threatens you at the hint of breaking up? Dump him now, honey. Never let a man touch you like that. If this is how he behaves without even a year gone by, imagine how horrible he'd be in a few. You have to leave him; you can love another man.

But hes been my first for everything under sex! it'll be too much, couldn't i just wait it out, i told him if he does anything like that again we are over! crying


It doesn't matter how many firsts he's given you, he's obviously an a*****e with very little self-control, not that it excuses his behavior. Stop making excuses and leave him. There are men out there that can and will treat you better.

I'm an a*****e with no self control? From one story? You don't know me.

A promise is a promise to me. Don't judge me by every other guy in the world.

*Goes back to lurking*
 
     

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sweetcharades1234
imma ninjaa yo
Bye Bye Lyre
He says he'll never hurt you again, yet he threatens you at the hint of breaking up? Dump him now, honey. Never let a man touch you like that. If this is how he behaves without even a year gone by, imagine how horrible he'd be in a few. You have to leave him; you can love another man.

But hes been my first for everything under sex! it'll be too much, couldn't i just wait it out, i told him if he does anything like that again we are over! crying


It doesn't matter how many firsts he's given you, he's obviously an a*****e with very little self-control, not that it excuses his behavior. Stop making excuses and leave him. There are men out there that can and will treat you better.

I'm an a*****e with no self control? From one story? You don't know me.

A promise is a promise to me. Don't judge me by every other guy in the world.

*Goes back to lurking*
There is NO excuse for hitting your girlfriend. I don't give a s**t if you were hopped up on drugs. You're a ******** worthless man and I hope you die alone.
     
Dump his a**.

Seriously..... 14 years young and going assault & battery?
 
     
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