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So Sunday night my boyfriend and i were hanging out and i always joke around with the pimples he has on his back, so i was joking and popped one. usually he doesn't do anything, but this time he turned on me sad . he kicked my in the leg, shoulder, and stomach. It hurt but not too bad. He had this look in his eye, i thought he was going to beat me. I burst into tears and starting shaking. He can back to the normal boy he always is.
Its been 3 days now and i still am a little scared of him. I don't know what to do.
I want to break up with him, but its almost 9 months and i do truely love him. IDK what to do!!!
He promised it would never happen again but it still bugs me.
Everytime i even mention breaking up because of it he goes crazy saying hes taken all my s**t and he does one thing wrong and i end it.. idk what to do x[[
 
     
 
Communication problem. TALK ABOUT IT to him. If neither of you talks, then you just continue to annoy and scare each other.
     
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so he beat you you're only considering breaking up with him?the answer is beyond obvious
 
     
 
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so he beat you you're only considering breaking up with him?the answer is beyond obvious

no, he didn't beat me, i thought he was going to
     
First off, it sounds like he has issues, like parental stuff; and to boot he continued...?
The " I promise I'll never do it again " doesn't cut it, as a kid this happened to my mom a lot, and it always ended with that sentence, next time he does it; it'd bash the guy in the sack and call the cops. I don't care who the kid is, that's not cool, I'd kick his a** myself, but of course this is the internet, so that's a negative; unless he happens to live in CT, XD.

Anyways, I'd let it go, and what-ever you do, don't be afraid of him, that only promotes it, if he ever, and I mean ever even comes close to that again I'd do something. How old are you and said guy?
 
     
 
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so he beat you you're only considering breaking up with him?the answer is beyond obvious

no, he didn't beat me, i thought he was going to


you said he kicked you 3 times,one in leg,one in stomach,and one in shoulder,sounds like beating to me?
     
He's probably felt horrible about those back pimples for ages but haven't said anything

You've hit a touchy spot, shoulda noticed earlier
 
     

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First off, it sounds like he has issues, like parental stuff; and to boot he continued...?
The " I promise I'll never do it again " doesn't cut it, as a kid this happened to my mom a lot, and it always ended with that sentence, next time he does it; it'd bash the guy in the sack and call the cops. I don't care who the kid is, that's not cool, I'd kick his a** myself, but of course this is the internet, so that's a negative; unless he happens to live in CT, XD.

Anyways, I'd let it go, and what-ever you do, don't be afraid of him, that only promotes it, if he ever, and I mean ever even comes close to that again I'd do something. How old are you and said guy?


he is 14 and i'm 13, 14 by the end of this month, he is the sweetest guy, i wouldn't have expected that from him, that what scared me
     
No one ever suspects it. "Hey, baby, let's go back to your place so I can beat the everliving s**t out of you." isn't exactly a good pick up line. Break up with him immediately, before it gets worse.
 
     
 
talk to him
     
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talk to him

I'll have to wait for the weekend
 
     
 
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Tichoronda
First off, it sounds like he has issues, like parental stuff; and to boot he continued...?
The " I promise I'll never do it again " doesn't cut it, as a kid this happened to my mom a lot, and it always ended with that sentence, next time he does it; it'd bash the guy in the sack and call the cops. I don't care who the kid is, that's not cool, I'd kick his a** myself, but of course this is the internet, so that's a negative; unless he happens to live in CT, XD.

Anyways, I'd let it go, and what-ever you do, don't be afraid of him, that only promotes it, if he ever, and I mean ever even comes close to that again I'd do something. How old are you and said guy?


he is 14 and i'm 13, 14 by the end of this month, he is the sweetest guy, i wouldn't have expected that from him, that what scared me

Yeah, well next time he does it; I'd tell your parents, if you live with your dad, especially him, I'm sure he'd have something, more than worth, to say to the kid.

And if he finds out you've posted here, and he gets all aggressive and in your face, I'd dump him right there; with a parent around, and if I have him flaming up my profile, I'll be sure to change my user name, and my have him banned; and do it gladly with a "******** you and have a nice day."
     
Tichoronda
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Tichoronda
First off, it sounds like he has issues, like parental stuff; and to boot he continued...?
The " I promise I'll never do it again " doesn't cut it, as a kid this happened to my mom a lot, and it always ended with that sentence, next time he does it; it'd bash the guy in the sack and call the cops. I don't care who the kid is, that's not cool, I'd kick his a** myself, but of course this is the internet, so that's a negative; unless he happens to live in CT, XD.

Anyways, I'd let it go, and what-ever you do, don't be afraid of him, that only promotes it, if he ever, and I mean ever even comes close to that again I'd do something. How old are you and said guy?


he is 14 and i'm 13, 14 by the end of this month, he is the sweetest guy, i wouldn't have expected that from him, that what scared me

Yeah, well next time he does it; I'd tell your parents, if you live with your dad, especially him, I'm sure he'd have something, more than worth, to say to the kid.

And if he finds out you've posted here, and he gets all aggressive and in your face, I'd dump him right there; with a parent around, and if I have him flaming up my profile, I'll be sure to change my user name, and my have him banned; and do it gladly with a "******** you and have a nice day."


I highly highly doubt he'll say ANYTHING, but alright xD
 
     
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Tichoronda
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Tichoronda
First off, it sounds like he has issues, like parental stuff; and to boot he continued...?
The " I promise I'll never do it again " doesn't cut it, as a kid this happened to my mom a lot, and it always ended with that sentence, next time he does it; it'd bash the guy in the sack and call the cops. I don't care who the kid is, that's not cool, I'd kick his a** myself, but of course this is the internet, so that's a negative; unless he happens to live in CT, XD.

Anyways, I'd let it go, and what-ever you do, don't be afraid of him, that only promotes it, if he ever, and I mean ever even comes close to that again I'd do something. How old are you and said guy?


he is 14 and i'm 13, 14 by the end of this month, he is the sweetest guy, i wouldn't have expected that from him, that what scared me

Yeah, well next time he does it; I'd tell your parents, if you live with your dad, especially him, I'm sure he'd have something, more than worth, to say to the kid.

And if he finds out you've posted here, and he gets all aggressive and in your face, I'd dump him right there; with a parent around, and if I have him flaming up my profile, I'll be sure to change my user name, and my have him banned; and do it gladly with a "******** you and have a nice day."


I highly highly doubt he'll say ANYTHING, but alright xD

If you tell yuor dad, this kid kicked you around like he did, I doubt he'd stand there and do nothing.
     
Whether he meant to do it or not, it is not acceptable.

Ever.

He should never lay a finger on you in anger. EVER.

Take a step back and seriously think about it.

Do you want to continue being in a relationship where you're in constant fear?
 
     
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