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Rathyas
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Rathyas
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he's ******** a girl in his area, obviously

-Sigh-
I don't see how not wanting to talk makes me a "******** girl in my area".
That's just retarded beyond so many levels.


you realize that sentence made no ******** sense, bro.

she's saying that since you don't want to talk to your ONLINE GURLFRAND you're probably out getting irl p***y.

which is true facts.

Elaborate on how it didn't make sense, yeah?

It doesn't entirely make sense, now that the other post was clarified.
o.e..
But still, I don't see how that would mean I'm ******** another girl.
Well, kind of.


it didn't make sense because of the way you typed it

i dont see how not wanting to talk makes me a ******** girl in my area.
that makes it seem like you thought she was calling you a woman.

and usually if someone in a long distance thing doenst want to talk to the other person, there is at least some irl fellatio going down.

I read it wrong, damn it. >:/

I mean, yeah, I guess it could be taken that way.
But she's the one who cheated on me.
I'm not a cheating p***k. Girls in my area are entirely retarded, and my ex-girlfriend that I actually loved died, so there are reasons other than cheating that I don't want to talk. D;
Well I for one think that the OP needs to stop being so touchy about stuff. It was late and he probably just wanted to go to sleep. Nothing wrong with that.

I would also like to point out that she could have left a voice message instead of texting him not that it really would have mattered either way.
Does this happen often? All signs point to "emotional abuse" and/or cheating. Watch your back. =/
Clockwork Lime
Does this happen often? All signs point to "emotional abuse" and/or cheating. Watch your back. =/

Oh, come on. Dx
I just didn't want to talk, and I was busy dealing with something. :c
To me it seems like one of two things- either he genuinely thinks you were talking to other guys and he is jealous or he is finding little things to fight over because he wants to break up.
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Maybe you should have tried telling her that in a way that wouldn't get you both so frustrated.
Communication is key.
I don't want to talk to you is kinda... Well, it can lead to misinterpretations.
So, just... be more sensitive, maybe let her know why you don't want to talk to her, to avoid her freaking out about 'Why doesn't he want to talk to me, what did I do, etc,' and hopefully she won't jump down your throat type thing.
Also, she's allowed to talk to people on the phone other than you, and vice versa.
Everyone forgets stuff, too.
I've had someone fall asleep while texting me, and I've fallen asleep while texting. It happens.
Nothing to go getting in a huge ol' fight about.
Just sayin'.
Androgynous Mannequin
Maybe you should have tried telling her that in a way that wouldn't get you both so frustrated.
Communication is key.
I don't want to talk to you is kinda... Well, it can lead to misinterpretations.
So, just... be more sensitive, maybe let her know why you don't want to talk to her, to avoid her freaking out about 'Why doesn't he want to talk to me, what did I do, etc,' and hopefully she won't jump down your throat type thing.
Also, she's allowed to talk to people on the phone other than you, and vice versa.
Everyone forgets stuff, too.
I've had someone fall asleep while texting me, and I've fallen asleep while texting. It happens.
Nothing to go getting in a huge ol' fight about.
Just sayin'.

But she knows why I don't want to talk. :/
And she always gets blah when I act like I don't.
And all I said was "Go talk to whoever you talk to" or something.
I never said she couldn't talk to people. >:/
I encourage it.
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I think you should be more considerate, and she should be more understanding.

You're both kinda at fault here.
Talk about it, apologize, maybe?
It's a stupid reason to get into a fight, no offense.

OH. Also, regardless of whether she knows WHY, I said that you should have actually communicated the fact that you didn't want to talk to her in another way.
Androgynous Mannequin
I think you should be more considerate, and she should be more understanding.

You're both kinda at fault here.
Talk about it, apologize, maybe?
It's a stupid reason to get into a fight, no offense.

I know it's stupid, and a fight wasn't an intention.
I'll apologize for whatever I did. I have no problem doing that. :/
AWWWWWWWWWWW meng you guys are complaining about women...??? You might as well and just get used to it.
Sounds like you guys were both tired and frustrated and took out your moods on each other. Sure, he needs to trust you, but you need to not get upset at him for not wanting to talk at 2:30 a.m. Don't be such a psycho girlfriend! I'm sure everything will smooth over in the morning. Just be more sensitive to his situation next time razz
lol whut is this

no really. There are some people who are like "BLEH THIS IS SO SRS HE'S OBVIOUSLY CHEATING" and then there's like some people who are like "this is a test, to see if you are ready enough for a mature relationship" so whut... how can you tell the difference between "this isn't working we need to break up" and "this is a test!" moments?

I suppose it could work as an excuse. Like if you got caught doing something bad by your gf/bf you could be all like "...This is a test. To test our relationship. Yup."
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            EARHaerhe&#xTU;JHae. Yes, it was stupid, I realize that. >:I
            And I never accused him of cheating.. o.e I mainly typed this as a rant because I was pissed off at the fact he didn't believe I called him. I understand if he doesn't want to talk, and all, just saying. Blergqywegriwet.

            Okay.
Rathyas
Clockwork Lime
Does this happen often? All signs point to "emotional abuse" and/or cheating. Watch your back. =/

Oh, come on. Dx
I just didn't want to talk, and I was busy dealing with something. :c



Way to rationalize. a*****e.

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