IAmInLoveWithAWhale
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- Posted: Tue, 22 Sep 2015 01:31:51 +0000
Hello, everyone. I want everyone's advice on whether or not this man likes me. I will break it down for you. On Thursday, the whole family got together, including all of my extended family. There was about 100 people there. We will call this guy Bob. So, During the whole family gathering me and Bob talked and talked and talked. He told me, "I never get to see you anymore. Only your pictures on Facebook." I found myself pretty much hanging with him the whole night and talking. he basically was following me around some. After the gathering, my parents decided to get something to eat, we invited my cousin's family to join us. Bob was standing next to me, and I asked him if he was tagging along. He really wasn't invited so he didn't know if he was allowed to come to dinner with us, so he said "I guess." as he shrugged his shoulders. So, yeah. I pretty much invited him to tag along. We went to Buffalo Wild Wings and as we were standing he put his hands around my neck, pretending to choke me. I looked behind me and we both laugh and smiled. He sat diagonal from me at the dinner table and while I was telling the waitress what I wanted to eat, he was looking at me the whole time as I was ordering my food. I also did catch him looking at me a few times at the gathering. Friday, the whole family was together again because we were attending a funeral. I saw him get out of his car and I smiled and waved at him. He smiled and waved back at me. Inside the church, he said, "You are always carrying around that iPad." I said, "I know! I am getting tired of carrying it around!" he offered to carry my iPad for me, so I handed it to him. He clicked the button on my Ipad to where my passcode comes up to access it. He says, "What is your passcode?" I said, "I ain't going to have you snooping around!" I said jokingly. He said, "Why not?" It was cute him carrying around my iPad for me. We had to go into this room for prayer. I sat on the floor next to my cousin and he literally came into the room and STOOD right behind me! Out of all places he could stand, he stood right behind me, as I was sitting in front of him. After the prayer, we left to the room to be seated. He was standing in the middle of the aisle looking to sit next to me, but couldn't. My aunt was taking pics of me and my cousin and the whole time I was posing and smiling for the pics, he was watching me!! Basically, I got this vibe from him and I felt a connection. I never felt this way before. I know I can't be the only one who feels it, I know he has to feel it too. I caught him looking at me those two days and he was following me around those two days. Does he like me? By the way, we are not related. He has been a family friend for years. I am 21 years old and he is almost 50. Please do not judge me. I can't help the way I feel I have fallen for him. Today, he called my dad and invited my dad to go to the flea market with him this Saturday. OF ALL MY 20 YEARS, BOB HAS NEVER EVER INVITED MY DAD TO HANG OUT. What does this mean? I think he invited my dad cause he knows/figures I will tag along. Thoughts? Please please don't give me disrespect about the age. Please. Thank you! <3