Currently stuck in a different state

[Rationalized]

Hello I'm currently stuck in the state of CT due to my father forcing me to move in with him after a while of living here I felt bad and caved in and even started helping him out until recently.
We got into a huge fist fight and I'm stuck here with a concussion and bruised ribs trying to find my way back to the state of MA
I currently have no car because My DAD is using it
I have little to no income because I recently lost my job
My life is currently in immediate and physical danger and would like to figure out if there is any way to get back to MA where my permanent resident is

I tried calling family/friends and they told me to call the cops but I don't want to be stuck in a holding cell for someone to come pick me up which could take days or even weeks when I already have a shelter in a different state with my Mother

I am not homeless either I just want to go back to my ACTUAL home with my mother

[Blackberry Heartilly]

You're gonna have to get the police involved. Do you have the title to the car or anything on you that proves it's licensed in your name? You may or may not have to provide some kind of proof that you own that car.

You will have to call the sheriffs department or go visit them in person, let them know the situation, and ask someone to escort you to collect your belongings such as the car. Then you can drive back to your mom.

You don't owe your dad anything, and you certainty don't have to let him take advantage of you or let him walk all over you.

[Rationalized]

Blackberry Heartilly

You're gonna have to get the police involved. Do you have the title to the car or anything on you that proves it's licensed in your name? You may or may not have to provide some kind of proof that you own that car.

You will have to call the sheriffs department or go visit them in person, let them know the situation, and ask someone to escort you to collect your belongings such as the car. Then you can drive back to your mom.

You don't owe your dad anything, and you certainty don't have to let him take advantage of you or let him walk all over you.

I apologize but the vehicle that is currently in the state of CT is my dad's
I have one in MA but my sister is currently borrowing it because I thought I was safe enough to allow my dad to drive me around in CT which is not
If i call the cops will they still be able to bring me back home? Or will i be stuck in holding facility

[Blackberry Heartilly]

Rationalized

Blackberry Heartilly

You're gonna have to get the police involved. Do you have the title to the car or anything on you that proves it's licensed in your name? You may or may not have to provide some kind of proof that you own that car.

You will have to call the sheriffs department or go visit them in person, let them know the situation, and ask someone to escort you to collect your belongings such as the car. Then you can drive back to your mom.

You don't owe your dad anything, and you certainty don't have to let him take advantage of you or let him walk all over you.

I apologize but the vehicle that is currently in the state of CT is my dad's
I have one in MA but my sister is currently borrowing it because I thought I was safe enough to allow my dad to drive me around in CT which is not
If i call the cops will they still be able to bring me back home? Or will i be stuck in holding facility

They probably wouldn't be able to help you get back home, and I don't see why they'd stick you in a holding facility??
If you have anything at your dads I'd ask them to take you get it, and let them know you are feeling uncomfortable and you think your dad might try something. They'll be able to help you with that.
As far as getting back home you'll have to ask a family member or friend to come get you. I'm not sure how tight you are on money but offering to pitch in for gas is a good way to get people more willing to rescue you.

[CYNIBON]

Hello Rationaliz,

That was a nice story to share. If I were you, I would try to talk to him about it in terms of agreement but if he's not the type to be understanding. He is your father and there must be a reason why you guys got into that argument in the first place. I know you overreact in situations or probably got angry out of no where. If you're living in his house, you should be sucking up to him until you're able to gather up money to go see your mom. Either you're lying to me or telling me the truth but if you have what you say you have in your card, you should be able to purchase a train ticket to MA. Afterwards, make sure you save up money instead of spending it on you know what and also finding a new job unless you still want to be in that nuclear firm. Either ways, if it's your car, take that s**t back and just head home. I just hope for the best and I hate that I can't do anything to help your situation.

xoxo,
Cyni


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[legnanellaf5]

Is your life really in immediate danger? It was a fight, if you go back, apologize and s**t it would be over. You can then go and figure out what you can do about your living situation, as it is more than just what you want to do since you are dependent on your parents. Can your mother even take you home? There has to be a reason you were 'forced' to move in. Does she want to? Will she go and pick you up? Etc. But the first step is to swallow your pride.

[CupofCodeine]

:O this is really heart breaking to hear! Although, im sure you know that if you don't have any money to leave the state just yet, wait until you do.
I understand the whole arguing with your dad because my mom and i have gone through some really bad s**t with the cops involved; let me tell you, if i had a chance, i would not be calling the cops whatsoever! The cops probably wont and can't do much.

So, your best luck is to hang in there and try your hardest to keep clear of you and your dads arguments. If it really gets bad, i'd say shut him out with music. I do that with my mom when im stuck in a car with her. It shuts her up cause she says all she needs to say.



C: Hope this helps!

[Rationalized]

CYNIBON

Hello Rationaliz,

That was a nice story to share. If I were you, I would try to talk to him about it in terms of agreement but if he's not the type to be understanding. He is your father and there must be a reason why you guys got into that argument in the first place. I know you overreact in situations or probably got angry out of no where. If you're living in his house, you should be sucking up to him until you're able to gather up money to go see your mom. Either you're lying to me or telling me the truth but if you have what you say you have in your card, you should be able to purchase a train ticket to MA. Afterwards, make sure you save up money instead of spending it on you know what and also finding a new job unless you still want to be in that nuclear firm. Either ways, if it's your car, take that s**t back and just head home. I just hope for the best and I hate that I can't do anything to help your situation.

xoxo,
Cyni


Btw,
P.S.
Thank you for donating 29b towards my fund and helping me achieve my Optimistic Eyes.

Thank you
My father and I don't argue we get into fist fights
and it got way out of hand this time. We both have a long history of fighting and violent nature and this time I got scared that I would hurt him to the point where he can't work anymore which is why I did not want to deal with it
I actually swallowed my pride and rented a uhaul and had to pay my sisters boyfriend to drive it for me while I watched my belongings It actually put a huge hole in my pocket and caused me to be extremely tight with my money now because moving state to state is too expensive even for me
but don't worry about it now I was just scared of seeing him because the fight happened 1 hour before he left for work and I didn't want it to escalate from a fist fight to a pathetic brawl between father and son when he got back from it
Of course I really wanted to stay and help my dad out because I understand his money situation is worse than mine but I don't think I can do it anymore with whats been happening between us anymore