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Post: 7979545_1 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 09:51:52 +0000
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2years ago My Father and Sister died... I didnt talk about it at all until It started to eat me from the inside out. until I eventually told someone and when I did. It felt like a million razors were ripping me from the inside out... what do you think Is the best method of coping with death.. what worked for you heart

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Post: 7979545_2 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 09:55:36 +0000
Posted: Fri, 27 May 2005 09:55:36 +0000

Is this In the right Forum? sweatdrop

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Post: 7979545_3 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 10:01:20 +0000
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well whem my grandma died I wrote in a journal and only told my friend who i knew whould listen she said i need to go to therepy only once. the other times she listend and it started not to hurt as much...you wont get over them but dont go into depression cause some people have it worse and when you start to deny it look in the preaioue news papers...faimlys broken apart by war childern and infants dieing not being able to live a life like you no life at all...whitch do you want? consider the anser....you can make both ansers reality if you try

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Post: 7979545_4 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 10:02:48 +0000
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Yeah.. I only wish I had spoken to someone before It got to this point.. but it hurt to much... not as much as it hurts if you dont.. but I didnt know that then cry

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Post: 7979545_5 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 10:13:00 +0000
Posted: Fri, 27 May 2005 10:13:00 +0000

Could try the Life Issues Forum maybe? Sub - forum under GD. I haven't really had much experience with dealing with death. redface

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Post: 7979545_6 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 10:13:43 +0000
Posted: Fri, 27 May 2005 10:13:43 +0000

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Could try the Life Issues Forum maybe? Sub - forum under GD. I haven't really had much experience with dealing with death. redface

Well you're lucky 3nodding And um.. sorry I didnt know what forum to post in

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Post: 7979545_7 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 10:15:07 +0000
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ive had several close friends die... 2 of which died while i held them in my arms... and one of which died because of me... a stupid mistake i made at the time...

this may not be very healthy or constructive... but i drank... ALOT... vodka is how i dealt with it...

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Post: 7979545_8 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 10:31:34 +0000
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Yeah.. I only wish I had spoken to someone before It got to this point.. but it hurt to much... not as much as it hurts if you dont.. but I didnt know that then cry

yes that is sad...but who wants people to go through that? no one i know. so why not tell every one? so they deal with it right not go into epression and end up hurting themselfs.

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Post: 7979545_9 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 10:32:34 +0000
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Yeah.. I only wish I had spoken to someone before It got to this point.. but it hurt to much... not as much as it hurts if you dont.. but I didnt know that then cry

yes that is sad...but who wants people to go through that? no one i know. so why not tell every one? so they deal with it right not go into epression and end up hurting themselfs.

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Post: 7979545_10 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 12:02:27 +0000
Posted: Fri, 27 May 2005 12:02:27 +0000

Rahlin

Im sorry about your friends.. I btw mailed you

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Post: 7979545_11 created on Fri, 27 May 2005 12:03:29 +0000
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Yeah.. I only wish I had spoken to someone before It got to this point.. but it hurt to much... not as much as it hurts if you dont.. but I didnt know that then cry

yes that is sad...but who wants people to go through that? no one i know. so why not tell every one? so they deal with it right not go into epression and end up hurting themselfs.

I went through a stage of cutting too... I am over it now.. but I have deep scares down my wrist because of it.. I dunno why I did it.. it was just foolish of me and didnt get me anywhere...

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Post: 7979545_12 created on Sat, 28 May 2005 05:33:00 +0000
Posted: Sat, 28 May 2005 05:33:00 +0000

Its funny... everyone is like.. I dont understand cutters and why they do it.. I was a cutter for years And I still dont understand sweatdrop

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Post: 7979545_13 created on Sat, 28 May 2005 05:56:11 +0000
Posted: Sat, 28 May 2005 05:56:11 +0000

its a good think that you told someone about this...it kind of helps you feel better when you say it then keep it to your self for a long time...

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Post: 7979545_14 created on Sat, 28 May 2005 05:59:11 +0000
Posted: Sat, 28 May 2005 05:59:11 +0000

I Guess:
Move on, enjoy the better things in life. Occupy your time and cherish what relationships you do have. Aside from that it all really depends on what kind of person you are. Some are sensitive, some are too sensitive, and some are passive. Of course there are things in-between, but you understand. Live life~

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Post: 7979545_15 created on Sat, 28 May 2005 06:00:48 +0000
Posted: Sat, 28 May 2005 06:00:48 +0000

just keep telling people like a counsoler telling them your feeling and what you wished didnt happen and stuff like that,

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