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So, this girl i like (A) and I were going to go to the dance, but i doubt she can go now.. Well, that completely ruined my plan to ask her out during a slow song.

Well, i told my friend (B) about this, and we talked about it. The next day, A's best friend (C) magically hears about this and starts asking me if i like B and stuff. I know for a fact that if i tell C, that she'll tell A, and that'll completely ruin it, whenever i decide to ask her out (Which is a problem in its own.) i want it too be a surprise, you know?

Well, i want to know what i should do. Should i tell C I like A, despite the fact that A will inevitably know? Any other help would be nice. Its a big confusing mess, xD

EDIT: Also, C just said that A said it would be weird, because of how good friends we are. So, um.. That just about means no, right? Im pretty sure it does.

MORE EDIT: Actually, C just clarified, saying that A would say yes, but it would be weird. So, i guess that now im back at square one, eh?
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EDIT: Also, C just said that A said it would be weird, because of how good friends we are. So, um.. That just about means no, right? Im pretty sure it does.
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MORE EDIT: Actually, C just clarified, saying that A would say yes, but it would be weird. So, i guess that now im back at square one, eh?
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Stop talking about ruining it and random times to ask her out. Want to ask out A? Just go and do it. Fixes the whole issue of who knows what and you wont KNOW if it is a no until you do.
I know you're looking for a good time to ask her, but it kinda sounds like since your intricate plot seems to be falling through, why not just go for it? ESPECIALLY since it also sounds like all the folks who know you already know, wouldn't it be better for her to hear it from you?
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Grow some balls and just ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no.
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Grow some balls and just ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no.


You're missing the point. I am going to ask her out, i just wanted it too be at a good time. So, actually read before being an a**. Please and thanks.
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Grow some balls and just ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no.


You're missing the point. I am going to ask her out, i just wanted it too be at a good time. So, actually read before being an a**. Please and thanks.

>Implying that being honest is being an a**
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Grow some balls and just ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no.


You're missing the point. I am going to ask her out, i just wanted it too be at a good time. So, actually read before being an a**. Please and thanks.

>Implying that being honest is being an a**


You were being honest, yeah. But the "Grow some balls" remark was assholish. The thread was about the girl's friend pestering me. I said in the thread that i will ask her out at some point. The thread wasn't about me trying to decide to ask her out. Thats why you're being an a**, do you get what im saying, now?
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Grow some balls and just ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no.


You're missing the point. I am going to ask her out, i just wanted it too be at a good time. So, actually read before being an a**. Please and thanks.

>Implying that being honest is being an a**


You were being honest, yeah. But the "Grow some balls" remark was assholish. The thread was about the girl's friend pestering me. I said in the thread that i will ask her out at some point. The thread wasn't about me trying to decide to ask her out. Thats why you're being an a**, do you get what im saying, now?

I know that you're planning on when to ask her out, I'm not stupid. What I'M saying is that you should just do it as soon as you get a chance to talk to her. Putting it off will just make it even harder to do. If you just do it, then it'll be a lot less stressful.
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Grow some balls and just ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no.


You're missing the point. I am going to ask her out, i just wanted it too be at a good time. So, actually read before being an a**. Please and thanks.

>Implying that being honest is being an a**


You were being honest, yeah. But the "Grow some balls" remark was assholish. The thread was about the girl's friend pestering me. I said in the thread that i will ask her out at some point. The thread wasn't about me trying to decide to ask her out. Thats why you're being an a**, do you get what im saying, now?

I know that you're planning on when to ask her out, I'm not stupid. What I'M saying is that you should just do it as soon as you get a chance to talk to her. Putting it off will just make it even harder to do. If you just do it, then it'll be a lot less stressful.


Fair enough. The way you worded it didnt seem like it.
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Grow some balls and just ask her out. The worst that can happen is that she'll say no.


You're missing the point. I am going to ask her out, i just wanted it too be at a good time. So, actually read before being an a**. Please and thanks.

>Implying that being honest is being an a**


You were being honest, yeah. But the "Grow some balls" remark was assholish. The thread was about the girl's friend pestering me. I said in the thread that i will ask her out at some point. The thread wasn't about me trying to decide to ask her out. Thats why you're being an a**, do you get what im saying, now?

I know that you're planning on when to ask her out, I'm not stupid. What I'M saying is that you should just do it as soon as you get a chance to talk to her. Putting it off will just make it even harder to do. If you just do it, then it'll be a lot less stressful.


Fair enough. The way you worded it didnt seem like it.

I've got really bad heartburn right now, so I'm kinda cranky. :c
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>Implying that being honest is being an a**


You were being honest, yeah. But the "Grow some balls" remark was assholish. The thread was about the girl's friend pestering me. I said in the thread that i will ask her out at some point. The thread wasn't about me trying to decide to ask her out. Thats why you're being an a**, do you get what im saying, now?

I know that you're planning on when to ask her out, I'm not stupid. What I'M saying is that you should just do it as soon as you get a chance to talk to her. Putting it off will just make it even harder to do. If you just do it, then it'll be a lot less stressful.


Fair enough. The way you worded it didnt seem like it.

I've got really bad heartburn right now, so I'm kinda cranky. :c


Its fine, i understand biggrin
Im fairly annoyed too, what with A's annoying friend.
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>Implying that being honest is being an a**


You were being honest, yeah. But the "Grow some balls" remark was assholish. The thread was about the girl's friend pestering me. I said in the thread that i will ask her out at some point. The thread wasn't about me trying to decide to ask her out. Thats why you're being an a**, do you get what im saying, now?

I know that you're planning on when to ask her out, I'm not stupid. What I'M saying is that you should just do it as soon as you get a chance to talk to her. Putting it off will just make it even harder to do. If you just do it, then it'll be a lot less stressful.


Fair enough. The way you worded it didnt seem like it.

I've got really bad heartburn right now, so I'm kinda cranky. :c


Its fine, i understand biggrin
Im fairly annoyed too, what with A's annoying friend.

I hear ya. But yeah, my chest is hurting pretty bad. LOL
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I know that you're planning on when to ask her out, I'm not stupid. What I'M saying is that you should just do it as soon as you get a chance to talk to her. Putting it off will just make it even harder to do. If you just do it, then it'll be a lot less stressful.


Fair enough. The way you worded it didnt seem like it.

I've got really bad heartburn right now, so I'm kinda cranky. :c


Its fine, i understand biggrin
Im fairly annoyed too, what with A's annoying friend.

I hear ya. But yeah, my chest is hurting pretty bad. LOL


Take some medicines. razz

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