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- Posted: Sun, 06 May 2012 21:05:31 +0000
Love--and people--are not one dimensional and there are many ways to go about it.
Agreed. WHich is why this topic will fuel many different opinions. The only proper answer to your question is, do you think its being unfaithful?
Different people have different views on what unfaithful mean. Some women/men, yes, will rocket themselves over the moon with jealousy if their partner so much as looks at another person and finds them attractive. I have a friend like that who has a jealousy bone the size of a T-Rex femur. She gets pissy when her boyfriend makes comments on the way other women look and gets mad at them. She does view it as being unfaithful. A bit harsh, in my opinion, but that's her view on things. And there are other's that have it as well.
Some people don't even find kissing to be cheating, to be honest. Some people will even shrug at the idea of their partner sleeping with other people. It all depends on the people in the relationship as to what would be viewed as being unfaithful and to each their own. The point of a relationship is that you are happy in it. Screw what other people think.
That being said, me? Nah. I wouldn't have a problem if my fiance said he found a woman attractive. I'll be honest though and say that if he told me he was "crushing" on them, yea, I'd have daydreams about drowning her in a river or tying her to a tree in the middle of the woods covered in honey for the bears to snack on ( I can be rather evil at times >.> ) and I would tell him that I was uncomfortable with it. Hell, I'd tell him the daydream death method of the day as well, he gets a flipping kick out of them and for some reason finds the adorable. I don't get the man, but I suppose that if I did, we wouldn't be a match for each other. xp
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