Mittens188
Hey all
I have a friend who always lies. She will tell me 1 thing and then even when im standing right next to her she will say another to somebody else. Im really getting fed up as she only does it to get attention. I dont know how to approch her about this.
Also another friend is 14 and she is going out with a guy she met through a friend. The guy lives near by. All well and good. BUT HE IS 19 YEARS OLD............I think she is too young 4 him.....ecpecially because she says she has been in his car!!!! Im scared this guy will use her or pressure her into sex.
What should I do about both of these Predicaments
thanx
Mittens
Okay, first thing's first; the friend:
-Some friends do not realize what they're doing when they do it. This two-faced thing that she's pulling can be A) the way she was raised or B) something she's doing as a "joke" or a "prank" or she just finds amusing in particular or C) she doesn't realize what she's doing when she's doing it. I.E.--She's a dumb-***
I suggest talking to her about it and solving the issue peacefully.
Second addressee; the 14-and-19-year-olds:
-She's driving in his car. Whoop-dee-do. If I was 14 and had a boyfriend that drove I'd so be hitching rides all the friggen time. You betcha. And the sex thing... talk to your friend. Some people (like moi) have sexual appetities arrise when they are MUCH younger then a lot of people. If she is uncomfortable with the idea of sex then, yes, I think you should intervene because (honestly) that's the ONLY thing on a boys mind at this age. But if she's really gung-ho for it; leave her alone. Just remind her to be safe. Use a condom. All that jazz.
Honestly, I don't think it's any of your business what mistakes your friend does/doesn't make.