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My Ex.
He.. Hes amazing.
And We dated it was all good; we broke up i saw it coming so i wasnt hurt..
Then his cousin told me he was using me.
For items on here.
Which is odd bcuz his cousin didn't even know i gave him items.
Who do i trust?
II One Last Wish 's avatar
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Your ex-boyfriend probably told your cousin about the items?

It seems like you were having an online relationship.
Do you know him in real life`?
How about you trust nobody and move on? No sense dwelling on the past.
You guys dated on gaia?
iButtMunch's avatar
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One: Yes I know Him in real life; ^^; And his cousin said it not mine him and his cousin are like this ---> ll


Wrox: Harder to do then say babe <3

Senor: Real life.
iButtMunch's avatar
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Well, whatever's the case, I'd say it's ok to still talk to both of them, but be aware that they may or may not be lying to you. If it turns out your ex was using you, you've learned not to trust him so much. If he wasn't using you, you've learned not to trust everything his cousin says. Straight up ask both of them if you need to.
iButtMunch's avatar
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I did.
The cousin said he was telling the truth.
And my ex Acted like the was crying.
(acting bcuz after im like okay i believe you hes like ohh okayy good so whats up?)
._.
iButtMunch's avatar
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What "items" are you talking about, because I don't understand what context this is. Sex? Money? Gaia Items? I'm confused.

Regardless, the cousin obviously found out from your ex about the items. Or through the grapevine. Anyway, it depends on what your present relationship is with the cousin and the ex. Are you still chums with the ex? Are you good friends with the cousin as well? What about the cousin and the ex? If they're not that close, it is suspicious that the cousin found out.

I personally wouldn't trust either of them. If you go to the ex for the truth, he'll say that he wasn't using you and you might end up going out with him again and the cycle resumes. You go to the cousin, he might lie again (maybe on behalf of your ex). So go to them both and ask about the ordeal. Then just go with your gut. If he was really using you for "items" then why did he dump you? He could have just stayed with you and continued using you.

Hope I helped out, eh? smile
Eh, I say don't trust either of them then. Somebody's lying. Your ex might have been "crying" to cover up that he actually was using you, but who knows. It's best just to stop worrying about it and not to trust them, or others, so easily.
Um, get a new guy?
iButtMunch's avatar
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Aka: Gaia items love <3
Yes I am very great friends with both. ^^and they are as close as EVER!
and u did ^^


Wrox: deal <3
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Watch: Haha. Hes not mine </3
And I just want to see if i can trust him is all sweetie <3
iButtMunch
Watch: Haha. Hes not mine </3
And I just want to see if i can trust him is all sweetie <3

i would like to say that he is a big pile of horse s**t that has rotted for like five years cheese_whine cheese_whine 4laugh mrgreen

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