being transgendered (please hear my story)

let me know that you've read my story. (please respond too)

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[Strawberry_Ala_Momo]

I think its great that you're trying to express yourself and all. If you don't love yourself and can't be proud of who you are, then you'd be lieing to not only yourself but also to everyone else you care about.

[angellgirl2007]

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[Emo Rain Forest of knives]

I had an epiphany too.


Although, I found out that I am still straight, lol. lol

[Giant Pandaz]

That's very sexy and I'll think about it later 4laugh

[Natsu5]

Strawberry_Ala_Momo

I think its great that you're trying to express yourself and all. If you don't love yourself and can't be proud of who you are, then you'd be lieing to not only yourself but also to everyone else you care about.

i do love myself, i'm not ashamed of who i am. i only just fear rejection is all.

[Natsu5]

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[Taylonn]

If your parent's can find a qualified counselor who has dealt with people who are transgendered that would be great :3 But also remember that most of society doesn't even know what that is and your parents may be non supportive because that's their initial reaction to something they don't understand. Be patient with them, most parents love their children unconditionally and I'm sure yours are no different. I know if my child told me something like that I would be taken aback. I would ask them if they are sure about these feelings for fear that they may be making a mistake that I can not, as a parent, fix for them.

Best of luck to you though. A lot of transgendered individuals live happy and successful lives.

[Natsu5]

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[loltank]

parents always think theres something wrong with you,because it makes them think something is wrong with them.and if you think your decision is right you have my support

[Vhann Huga]

The Key is Communication...

Oh, man. I'm SORT OF the same way. I know, good and well, that I'm a guy. I like being a guy. I just like being the softer, gets his hair done, hangs out with chicks all the time, borderline gay, guy. I like flowers, I like poetry. I feel your pain, man. If you need to talk. I'm open to listen.

The Lock is in your head.

[Ruj]

Why not get support from real, non-internet friends?

[dethbee]

Pupfang

Good luck with your newly-realized gender status.

A counselor could be good for you. Might be able to help you put your understanding of your state into words that can successfully communicate it to others. Might be able to validate your gender indentity to your mother. Might help out with any number of confusing points you may encounter in your own thoughts, or those of others.

Just make sure the counselor is actually qualified to work with a transgendered client. Ask about their education, there experience working with transgendered people, and just how many transgendered people they have worked with. If the counselor doesn't satisfy you, demand a better one.

This guy right here has given you some of the best advice ever. You have my full support btw, I actually know a transgenendered person and he is living happily with his girlfriend. In fact, I think they may pregnant smile They don't want to get married because they think the public won't approve. I don't see why they shouldn't, but their choice.

So just so you know, if you are interested in girls still, there are some out there for your pickin' whee

[Look Through The Window]

I can't ever understand you or people like you but im sorry your parents won't support you. Maybe they just need time to adjust. But I hope everything works out and keep your chin up!!! xd

[Natsu5]

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[Whoa Its MaRiSsA]

Before the baby is born it can choose to be male or female, and sometimes they choose female but come out male, or vis versa. Tell her that.