being transgendered (please hear my story)

let me know that you've read my story. (please respond too)

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[yugiohdueler]

hey. i know how u feel. i myself have some transgendered friends. and i've been teased most my life, due to my disability. so, i know how u feel. and i just wanted to let u know that i accept u for who u are, and won't judge u. biggrin biggrin . have a beautiful day!! biggrin

[Natsu5]

bump. i'll probably be bumping this thread until my parrents understand

[Natsu5]

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[Brendr]

I don't know how to help with this cause I wouldn't give any good advice.
Only thing I can do is give you incite your parents.

The honest truth is, every parent wants as normal as a child as they can get, and even though they say they would support you no matter what, they lie, plus they have been through life, and if they had never had those thought and feelings before, they don't understand the motives, or reasoning behind it(Not saying that you just thought this up one day >.< wink , so it scares them into thinking your a freak, or not normal in some kind of way. Things only become normal when people get used to them though, so I bet in time they will slowly become more supportive, although I don't want to give you false hope, for all I know it might be years before they respect your choice.

[Natsu5]

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[jeney]

I support you.

http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/prof_search.php

there's a directory there where you can search for counselors in your area who can offer you help and support. Especially with your parents.

[Spiky_oreo]

I know exactly what you mean. I happen to know someone who is transgender and they have it hard = I've seen how tough it's been on him and I really wish the world was a little more accepting of people... It really stinks to see people hurting others. I wish you the very best.. and remember that you are not alone in this world =) There are many people out there going through very similar things, and there are others still that would be happy to accept you. As for your parents, if they really love you, they will eventually learn to accept it. Even if it does happen very very slowly. wink

[Natsu5]

Spiky_oreo

I know exactly what you mean. I happen to know someone who is transgender and they have it hard = I've seen how tough it's been on him and I really wish the world was a little more accepting of people... It really stinks to see people hurting others. I wish you the very best.. and remember that you are not alone in this world =) There are many people out there going through very similar things, and there are others still that would be happy to accept you. As for your parents, if they really love you, they will eventually learn to accept it. Even if it does happen very very slowly. wink

i know there are others, and i hear parrents are not accepting at first. what makes my situation harder is that i'm the only son of 3 children in my family. so that fact doesn't exactly help my situation. thanks for your support.

[Natsu5]

bump, because people respond and support me

[Natsu5]

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[Goddessof-ImaginaryLight]

Natsu5

A few months ago, i had an epiphany. I found the answer to who i really am inside. I realized that i am transgendered. After thinking about it, i alwways have been, it's just taken me so long to finally realize it. I love women's clothing, i've always wanted to act like a girl without people thinking i'm gay. Girls who act like guys are considered as tomboys to everyone while boys who act like girls are considered gay. It's messed up.

The two friends that i've told were very supportive of me. My dad forced me to tell him what was the matter and he didn't believe me. My mom wasn't supportive like i thought she would be. in fact, she found out by invading my privacy by reading my msn e-mails. i was going to tell them in a few days later anyway. My sister is the devil's daughter and would give me hell for the rest of my life if she ever found out.

my mom is going to send me to a counseler to have me convinced that i was wrong all along and that i really am a guy. She asks questions like, "Why do you think you're transgendered?". it's very hard to explain. it could take me forever to think about what i would say and even longer and harder to say it.

i'm just heartbroken. my mom, who i thought would be the most supportive, can't accept the fact that her only son is really a girl on the inside. society in general doesn't accept people like me. i'm not gay or anything, i actually like girls even though i am one on the inside.

I'm just looking for mental support since it's been very tough on me lately.

I'm sorry to hear you've been having a tough time. My little brother is also possibly transgender, he enjoys girls clothes, polly pockets and putting on makeup/nailpolish. Do not be ashamed of who you are. God made you the way you are for a reason, I hope you can find someone who will love you inside and out for who you are inside and out.
... My boyfriend actually likes dressing up in ladies' clothes every so often, he likes wearing my undies too. ^^; I find it rather attractive.
This too shall pass, love.
TG

[Natsu5]

Goddessof-ImaginaryLight

Natsu5

A few months ago, i had an epiphany. I found the answer to who i really am inside. I realized that i am transgendered. After thinking about it, i alwways have been, it's just taken me so long to finally realize it. I love women's clothing, i've always wanted to act like a girl without people thinking i'm gay. Girls who act like guys are considered as tomboys to everyone while boys who act like girls are considered gay. It's messed up.

The two friends that i've told were very supportive of me. My dad forced me to tell him what was the matter and he didn't believe me. My mom wasn't supportive like i thought she would be. in fact, she found out by invading my privacy by reading my msn e-mails. i was going to tell them in a few days later anyway. My sister is the devil's daughter and would give me hell for the rest of my life if she ever found out.

my mom is going to send me to a counseler to have me convinced that i was wrong all along and that i really am a guy. She asks questions like, "Why do you think you're transgendered?". it's very hard to explain. it could take me forever to think about what i would say and even longer and harder to say it.

i'm just heartbroken. my mom, who i thought would be the most supportive, can't accept the fact that her only son is really a girl on the inside. society in general doesn't accept people like me. i'm not gay or anything, i actually like girls even though i am one on the inside.

I'm just looking for mental support since it's been very tough on me lately.

I'm sorry to hear you've been having a tough time. My little brother is also possibly transgender, he enjoys girls clothes, polly pockets and putting on makeup/nailpolish. Do not be ashamed of who you are. God made you the way you are for a reason, I hope you can find someone who will love you inside and out for who you are inside and out.
... My boyfriend actually likes dressing up in ladies' clothes every so often, he likes wearing my undies too. ^^; I find it rather attractive.
This too shall pass, love.
TG

actually, i am not ashamed of who i am. i'm only afraid of being rejected by the world. i'm already rejected by my parrents, in a way. i thank you for your support

[Natsu5]

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[amen phath]

im tomboy, emo, scene, punk.....i love gay boys....and yes, i have support

thats who i am