being transgendered (please hear my story)

let me know that you've read my story. (please respond too)

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[Admiral Absurd]

Good luck.

[Natsu5]

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[Kaori_P]

Hello Natsu, I hope you have been doing well.

[Natsu5]

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[iMarina Massacre]

Not to go all "christian" on you, but I understand why your parents are pissed. God (or whoever made you) made you the way he/she saw you in his/her eyes. You have (or had) a p***s, correct? So you should be a boy for god sakes. Obviously you were made to be a boy, so be a boy.

I hate people like you who change your gender (in ur case) and when you're parents can't accept you, you whine about it on Chatterbox. All you guys do is annoy people like me. rolleyes

And I'm sorry if I'm hurting your feelings, but you asked for my response, so I'm giving you my response.

[Natsu5]

GC_Marina

Not to go all "christian" on you, but I understand why your parents are pissed. God (or whoever made you) made you the way he/she saw you in his/her eyes. You have (or had) a p***s, correct? So you should be a boy for god sakes. Obviously you were made to be a boy, so be a boy.

I hate people like you who change your gender (in ur case) and when you're parents can't accept you, you whine about it on Chatterbox. All you guys do is annoy people like me. rolleyes

And I'm sorry if I'm hurting your feelings, but you asked for my response, so I'm giving you my response.

however, i believe god gave us free will to let us live out our lives the way we want.

also i was asking for people's support, not your preaching. and btw, i doubt god wants you to make other people feel bad. after a response like that i know you're not sorry for anything.

[Basement Tranny]

GC_Marina

Not to go all "christian" on you, but I understand why your parents are pissed. God (or whoever made you) made you the way he/she saw you in his/her eyes. You have (or had) a p***s, correct? So you should be a boy for god sakes. Obviously you were made to be a boy, so be a boy.

I hate people like you who change your gender (in ur case) and when you're parents can't accept you, you whine about it on Chatterbox. All you guys do is annoy people like me. rolleyes

And I'm sorry if I'm hurting your feelings, but you asked for my response, so I'm giving you my response.

OMG a storybook character made us?!

[Natsu5]

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[xkeryssaxvampgrl]

u are who you are and somtimes people cant take it ! thats not your problem !! Has anything gotten better ??? !!!! well maybe you can try to sit and talk again maybe she was just in shock !! hope evertthing works out heart

[Nami Juice]

Just posting to let you know that I read your story.
Good luck.

[Grace Elizabeth 3208]

Follow your heart. If your family can't understand, have hope. You're the only one that can prove to them it's ok to be transgenderd. If you retaliate and act childish they will be even more adamit that you are acting out. Be patient and firm. In time they may come to see that you are what you say you are and even though it's not the choice they would have chosen for you, your happiness is all that matters. heart

[fruitlover66]

u sould probably talk to consular and answer the questions. u should also understand ur mom...i mean she's probably confused

[RoseOfEbony]

I've only read the first and the last page, so excuse me if I repeat advice other people have already brought up.

First I'd like to say that I think that most people underestimate how difficult of a realization and decision something like this is. Lots of society will hate you for it, and even some of the people close to you might leave you for it. But keep in mind that whenever you are pursuing anything extremely important to you, there will always be a price to pay. For something as important as self-realization, that just makes following your heart all the more important.

Unfortunately, you probably will have to deal with a lot of @$$%*!!$ like some of the other posters in this thread that try to tell you how messed up you are. Try your best not to listen to them. You are not defined by the situation you came into the world with. You are defined by who you are on the inside, and what you choose to do with your life. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

What you should focus on right now is education. Educate yourself about everything you can on the subject. Then try to educate the people close to you about it. This will show your serious about it, and it will help them to understand the changes in you and your life. It probably won't help with some people, but it could make a difference with others. It's always worth a try. During the process of educating yourself you will also learn a lot more about yourself. Like other people have said as well, try to find a support group of like-souls.

I don't know much about sex-change surgery, but I know that a lot of people go to Thailand for it. Regulations for who is allowed to do it at what age are less strict, the cost is lower than in Western countries, the doctors are very professional and experienced, and there are a lot of transgendered going through the same thing there.

Anyway, I hope at least something I've said helps. However you go about your self-exploration and lifestyle change, I wish you the best of luck.

[Tru3 L3v1athan]

exclaim I can understand how it can be hard to live with your family wile you go threw this my parents still dont know that I've actively been BiSexul sence i was 14 and i'm 25 now! I no longer live with them but If I had a girlfriend I would still hide our relationship from them. But enough about me Thanks to our wonderful Economy you are just gonna have to stay with your Parents they have already found out about what you think and if they dont like it well thats there problem. Try offering them some info on it to see if it makes them less upset about it. I say just be who you are inside.Try diffrent things when you can and see if you feel right with it. exclaim