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Post: 3787620_1 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:18:45 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:18:45 +0000

If you are in an abusive relationship we are brothers.....

I personally have a girlfriend who just love hitting me..i have no clue why..but I still love her.

If you are also in a abusive relationship please post and we can discuss the experience??

Question: Why are people soo violent these days????

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Post: 3787620_2 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:19:32 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:19:32 +0000

I hit her because I love her.

I want a PENIS

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Post: 3787620_3 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:22:19 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:22:19 +0000

If you still love her than go for it...?

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Post: 3787620_4 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:22:59 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:22:59 +0000

A Mayan Grinch

I hit her because I love her.

first i feel sorry for your girlfriend if you are hitting her hard..
second .. cant you find some other way to express your love towards her??

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Post: 3787620_5 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:24:29 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:24:29 +0000

Saucy Cup

If you still love her than go for it...?

i believe its the matter of if he keeps on hitting her will she break up with him..

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Post: 3787620_6 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:24:49 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:24:49 +0000

Uh... well... I get hit but it's not abusive. Because it's rarely just more then a nudge with elbow or light slap to the gut when I say something a*****e-ish which is anytime I open my mouth.

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Post: 3787620_7 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:25:15 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:25:15 +0000

If you don't like your girlfriend hurting you confront her and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't listen then there's a problem...

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Post: 3787620_8 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:26:09 +0000
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A Mayan Grinch

I hit her because I love her.

Oh joy... neutral

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Post: 3787620_9 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:27:05 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:27:05 +0000

Merlo

Uh... well... I get hit but it's not abusive. Because it's rarely just more then a nudge with elbow or light slap to the gut when I say something a*****e-ish which is anytime I open my mouth.

i get hit for the same reason but harder.. i am almost afreaid to talk now xd

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Post: 3787620_10 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:27:54 +0000
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mechworrior

sad aww...*huggles* I'm sorry......That's very sad. If you want to know why she hits you, why don't you ask her? And tell her it hurts you when she hits you. It's worth a shot. 3nodding

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Post: 3787620_11 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:27:57 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:27:57 +0000

I bite my boyfriend. A lot. And HARD. I give him bruises daily. I can't help it. He's so yummie. heart domokun heart

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Post: 3787620_12 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:28:33 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:28:33 +0000

Kealdrea

If you don't like your girlfriend hurting you confront her and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't listen then there's a problem...

she listens but she changes very little about it

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Post: 3787620_13 created on Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:30:21 +0000
Posted: Mon, 20 Sep 2004 00:30:21 +0000

i guess what i'm in could be called an abusive relationship, but a lot of it is my own fault. i dont really complain about it.

he's never hit me before. if he did, i'd ditch him.