Am I abusive?

[Taurtarus]

what the ******** is up with the cat abuse trolls lately? I'm getting really sick of it. animal abuse is one of the few things I can't stand. congratulations, you've found a topic that will always get people riled up. you have the attention you want, now leave us the ******** alone.

[Crsnowkitten]

Allen Ruan

Crsnowkitten

If you are serious then you, your parents and a counselor need to sit down and have a talk. Hurting the things you love is not a good habit to cultivate. And if the pain of a pet that you love does not move you then how long before the pains of people you love will lose affect? But you most definitely should not kill yourself and no one on here should be so irresponsible with their words to suggest that you do. Yea this may be Gaia and the internet...but the laws are changing to make people more accountable for what they do and say online.

What makes you think I'm not being serious!? We don't have a counselor, they cost money. I know. I hate rude people. I'm really not a troll, and I do want honest opinions on what (if anything) is wrong with me...Thanks for the advice.

I'm not trying to be offensive...I'm just much older than you are. I know people who like to say outrageous things when they are bored or to see what kind of reaction they can get. So I'm not surprised by anything I read or hear...I'm just not that naive enough to believe that everything posted online is true or factual in the least. Counselors are not expensive. You can talk to a school counselor and I'm sure there are programs and support groups for girls with the same questions and feelings that you have. You just really need to be proactive and serious about making a positive move. Inflicting pain on your cat is a lateral move. It is neither better nor worst. If you want real progress you'll have to seek the guidance of someone much more informed and educated then random people on Gaia.

[FuzzieFriend123]

Allen Ruan

FuzzieFriend123

Allen Ruan

FuzzieFriend123

Why aren't you aloud to go outside? Are your parents worried you'll get hit by a car or something?

I honestly think you're more subject to beastiality than abuse... but that's just me...

My parents give me no freedom...They're overprotective and everything is "dangerous".

What's beastiatlity?

Well I don't think they're being over the top. If you were my child I would just throw you in a padded cell.

Go look up beastiality on urbandictionary.com and then report back to me what it says wink

I honestly cannot tell if you're kidding me or not...We've talked about mental facilities, but they cost too much money. They know I have a serious problem...They just can't figure out what's wrong with me. I don't talk to them, so they have no idea...

Sexual intercourse involving a human and a lower animal.?

THAT'S DISGUSTING.

I still think sex is gross too, and wrong.

Well then I'd just lock you in a closet.

Funny, the way you were talking before made it sound like you were fantasizing about your cat...

[teacupsue]

Allen Ruan

FuzzieFriend123

Why aren't you aloud to go outside? Are your parents worried you'll get hit by a car or something?

I honestly think you're more subject to beastiality than abuse... but that's just me...

My parents give me no freedom...They're overprotective and everything is "dangerous".

What's beastiatlity?

Beastiality is having sexual feelings towards animals. I have no idea how it would apply to this situation, but ok. Yes, you're abusive and abusing your cat. Does this mean you're getting better? No, not really. You still need to hurt something to feel functional. That would be like me going from opiates to alcohol to stop my opiates addiction. It's just a replacement, and not a very good one. While what you're doing is wrong, it's understandable. I'm a recovering drug addict, I know the feelings of compulsion to use (or in your case, act) well. I won't judge you, instead I'll offer you something. This is a website with an article on self injury and how to cope with it. http://www.selfinjury.com/ is a website specifically on self injury and has it's own hotline if you need immediate help. Hopefully this can help you.

[Allen Ruan]

Crsnowkitten

Allen Ruan

Crsnowkitten

If you are serious then you, your parents and a counselor need to sit down and have a talk. Hurting the things you love is not a good habit to cultivate. And if the pain of a pet that you love does not move you then how long before the pains of people you love will lose affect? But you most definitely should not kill yourself and no one on here should be so irresponsible with their words to suggest that you do. Yea this may be Gaia and the internet...but the laws are changing to make people more accountable for what they do and say online.

What makes you think I'm not being serious!? We don't have a counselor, they cost money. I know. I hate rude people. I'm really not a troll, and I do want honest opinions on what (if anything) is wrong with me...Thanks for the advice.

I'm not trying to be offensive...I'm just much older than you are. I know people who like to say outrageous things when they are bored or to see what kind of reaction they can get. So I'm not surprised by anything I read or hear...I'm just not that naive enough to believe that everything posted online is true or factual in the least. Counselors are not expensive. You can talk to a school counselor and I'm sure there are programs and support groups for girls with the same questions and feelings that you have. You just really need to be proactive and serious about making a positive move. Inflicting pain on your cat is a lateral move. It is neither better nor worst. If you want real progress you'll have to seek the guidance of someone much more informed and educated then random people on Gaia.

Oh I suppose so. Well I wasn't quite sure whether my school would have counselors...I go to an "alternative school". Not because I dropped out of high school, but it's because of my mental stability. I have a couple of disorders, and my parents' are EXTERMELY ch

[Allen Ruan]

teacupsue

Allen Ruan

FuzzieFriend123

Why aren't you aloud to go outside? Are your parents worried you'll get hit by a car or something?

I honestly think you're more subject to beastiality than abuse... but that's just me...

My parents give me no freedom...They're overprotective and everything is "dangerous".

What's beastiatlity?

Beastiality is having sexual feelings towards animals. I have no idea how it would apply to this situation, but ok. Yes, you're abusive and abusing your cat. Does this mean you're getting better? No, not really. You still need to hurt something to feel functional. That would be like me going from opiates to alcohol to stop my opiates addiction. It's just a replacement, and not a very good one. While what you're doing is wrong, it's understandable. I'm a recovering drug addict, I know the feelings of compulsion to use (or in your case, act) well. I won't judge you, instead I'll offer you something. This is a website with an article on self injury and how to cope with it. http://www.selfinjury.com/ is a website specifically on self injury and has it's own hotline if you need immediate help. Hopefully this can help you.

Thank you.

[teacupsue]

Allen Ruan

teacupsue

Allen Ruan

FuzzieFriend123

Why aren't you aloud to go outside? Are your parents worried you'll get hit by a car or something?

I honestly think you're more subject to beastiality than abuse... but that's just me...

My parents give me no freedom...They're overprotective and everything is "dangerous".

What's beastiatlity?

Beastiality is having sexual feelings towards animals. I have no idea how it would apply to this situation, but ok. Yes, you're abusive and abusing your cat. Does this mean you're getting better? No, not really. You still need to hurt something to feel functional. That would be like me going from opiates to alcohol to stop my opiates addiction. It's just a replacement, and not a very good one. While what you're doing is wrong, it's understandable. I'm a recovering drug addict, I know the feelings of compulsion to use (or in your case, act) well. I won't judge you, instead I'll offer you something. This is a website with an article on self injury and how to cope with it. http://www.selfinjury.com/ is a website specifically on self injury and has it's own hotline if you need immediate help. Hopefully this can help you.

Thank you.

No problem. I use to have the same problem when I was young until I moved up to drug addiction. I'd rather not see someone go through the same crap. No one deserves it.

[Montage`]

i hope someone does those things to you one day,
and i hope that day is soon.

[Crsnowkitten]

Well good luck with that. You spend enough time online it seems to be able to google some articles and some help lines. Your case is not extraordinary nor impossible to overcome. Go to Teacupsu's link. Apparently she's the only other responsible adult posting on this thread. Don't mind what any other children on Gaia say. I knew someone who set kittens on fire as a child and she's perfectly functional and a pretty cool chick now. When you become an adult this will all just seem like another growing pain.

[ToxicRainbowFullOfLove]

Crsnowkitten

Well good luck with that. You spend enough time online it seems to be able to google some articles and some help lines. Your case is not extraordinary nor impossible to overcome. Go to Teacupsu's link. Apparently she's the only other responsible adult posting on this thread. Don't mind what any other children on Gaia say. I knew someone who set kittens on fire as a child and she's perfectly functional and a pretty cool chick now. When you become an adult this will all just seem like another growing pain.

Haha children? We are children just because we don't take animal abuse too lightly.... Yeah that's pretty ignorant of you.

[DefectivePopsicle]

You will probably end up being a serial killer.

No, it's not better. You should go back to harming yourself. Or better yet, why not TELL your parents so they can get you some psychiatric care because that's what you need.

if I knew where you were located I would call your local humane society and police department to make sure you couldn't torture a poor cat ever again.

[Crsnowkitten]

ToxicRainbowFullOfLove

Crsnowkitten

Well good luck with that. You spend enough time online it seems to be able to google some articles and some help lines. Your case is not extraordinary nor impossible to overcome. Go to Teacupsu's link. Apparently she's the only other responsible adult posting on this thread. Don't mind what any other children on Gaia say. I knew someone who set kittens on fire as a child and she's perfectly functional and a pretty cool chick now. When you become an adult this will all just seem like another growing pain.

Haha children? We are children just because we don't take animal abuse too lightly.... Yeah that's pretty ignorant of you.

No sweety you're acting like a child because 1) You are clearly not following the rules by suggesting that someone commit suicide and you have been reported, 2) You are being abusive and judgmental without contributing anything intelligent or constructive and 3) Because you are representing an oxymoron by claiming you value the lives of animals while disregarding the value of human life. Animal abuse is serious and wrong, however an adult knows that one wrong does not give them justification to commit another. So as for depicting an ignorant character, it is your actions not mine that place you in that category.

[Nocweed]

You're harming another living creature even if it' not human so yes that is abuse and it is very wrong.

[Pasharia]

Hugging your cat constitutes as abuse? What? I pet and hug my cats and make them sit on my lap even when they don't want to...and they hiss and scratch and bite. But they still love me and still want me to pet them. Does it seem like your cat hates you? Or are you gentle with it sometimes?