Vampirate Kitsune
When did work-related stress become an excuse or even an explanation for child abuse?
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I was being facetious.
It's never appropriate for us to take our stress out on others. It can be an explanation - as in, "X was affecting me and I responded by doing Y" but then the obvious answer is, "You should not have done Y, it is inappropriate and hurtful, instead you should have done Z and some counseling or therapy might help you to learn to behave appropriately".
Not everyone is smacking kids or pouring hot sauce in their mouths but on the non-abuse level a huge percentage of the population fails at expressing their needs in an appropriate manner. Listen to people argue and most of them, instead of expressing their feelings and needs in a calm, appropriate manner, instead lash out with counter attacks and diversionary techniques. The more I observe people the more I become convinced that on the whole the citizens of the US suck at conflict resolution. I try to hang around people that don't but I've seen my share of it.