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Old Blue Collar Joe
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Do you think these people willingly choose to be depressed. Depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain, Joe. It doesn't matter how little or how much you have. It doesn't matter what good or bad things you have experienced. Depression has nothing to do with the environment one is in. His mother doesn't suffer from depression? Good! I mean that too. The Holocaust was a terrible, terrible thing, and even more terrible for the people who've lived through it, but that has nothing to do with depression, and she's pretty damn lucky she doesn't suffer from PTSD. You can have everything in your life you've ever wanted, but the truth is, that chemical imbalance in the brain has nothing to do with it. People can't just
will themselves out of depression. A lot of them need help. They need treatment, and for Gene to say to them just kill themselves is way out of line. He, nor you apparently, know enough about it to tell other people to do such a thing.
Read the rest of my posts before making ignorant a** assumptions. I am well aware of depression and what it can cause one to do. His point, and mine, is the drama llama's who claim to be suicidal who only want attention.
NOT those who actually do have issues of depression.
Please list the names of the kids who killed themselves over an iphone.
I doubt anyone here is a trained psychiatrist who can even tell the difference between 'whining' and legitimate emotional/mental issues. I think all threats of self harm or suicide should be taken seriously.
Same, and even if there was a kid who killed himself over an iphone, it obviously means he wasn't all together. It might not be depression, but no mentally stable person does that. No one should be told to just "kill themselves" and anyone who thinks it's okay to do so isn't a very decent person.
I had kept my mouth shut til now, but comments like these keep reminding me of that girl who recently killed herself after she had been bullied and told to kill herself... and she did. There was another girl before her not long ago either and I think...
I don't know how many of those particular girls had a problem and which of them had been bullied so badly that she just could not take it anymore... I had been on both sides of the issue and one (the one that is due to imbalances and conditions) is painful.
The other (bully issues), not so much. But it does make you feel really bad about yourself and if gone on for a long time, can make you a wreck.
Kids who kill themselves over a cell phone, iPhone/iPad or video game console... these are generally issues of a kid who has pretty much gotten whatever they wanted through whatever means possible. It used to be that there was a joke about "holding one's breath until their faces turned blue in order to get parents to give them what they wanted". I am not kidding.
I have experience working with children both elementary and high school aged. I also have experience working with kids with both mental disabilities and kids who function 'normally.' Some have been sweet, others have been bratty. The ones who are bratty are the ones you described who get everything they want. When something doesn't go their way, they might throw a tantrum, but they get over it...and trust me...these kids are very used to getting what they want. I once confiscated a 3DS in class, and the kid shrugged and said, "My mom will just buy me a new one," and he wasn't lying. She did.
The only kids I worry about are those who don't function well in society. It's not as easy for them to get over things like having something taken away from them. They are the kids who will make a scene, and I've even seen kids hurt themselves when things didn't go their way. I once worked with a little girl with severe autism who bit her arm hard enough to break her skin because she didn't want to be in school, because she had just finished a weekend of being spoiled by her father who let her do pretty much anything she wanted. I also worked with a kid who had aspergers who went into behavior because he couldn't have his Pokemon (or maybe it was Yuh-Gi-Oh!) cards on the desk near him during standardized testing.
There have also been kids who were considered 'normal' but worried me because they seemed to have a bad case of narcissism. I worried about them too, because they seemed to be the ones who would do something like kill themselves for spite, but their parents were pretty darn oblivious to it and didn't want to hear it when their teachers expressed concern for it.