You are of course entitled to your opinions on the matter.
I use to think suicide was "taking the easy way out" ... I no longer feel that way.
Most people are afraid to die.
Well, maybe not most... but a huge portion of our society are afraid to die. (maybe it's the fear of the unknown, or the pain associated with terminal illnesses. (or accidents)
In any case, I no longer view these hurting kids as cowards who are just looking for an easy out.
They are just
children, who
reason like children & look for
any out. So, they face... the unknown believing anything is better than what they are enduring.
As for our situation... we've done everything we could think of short of going to the media. (and anyone who knows me knows I am not unwilling to do just that)
In any case, my daughter has a therapist now, she's been to see a doctor (yesterday) who actually advised us to pull her out of school. She has entered the red zone.
GPA has dropped to 0.00
Situations have been reported to the school... and there is a third party involved who acts as her voice in meetings with the school, teachers & bus drivers.
Her mentor told me today that the school's way of handling bullies is deplorable.
They expect to work these situations out like some cheesy after-school special & like you said... end up unlikely friends. She said there is just no way to stop bullying until schools are willing to make the bully accountable for their behavior.
We also got her a gym membership because working out increases one's endorphins & thus can make one feels better.
I am by no means a passive parent.
I informed the school that teachers who witness bullying & don't act are being reported to CPS.
(it's a long shot but hey... something has got to give these teachers a reason to stop ignoring the behavior of the star athletes)
If a parent knowingly ignores the physical or emotional abuse inflicted upon their child by another adult they risk Protective Services coming down on their backsides. Why not teachers?
Who cares if the offender is 16 or 17, they are old enough to drive, go to the doctor on their own... make most of their own choices & can be tried as adults if they commit a felony.
I wonder how other countries handle bullying & bullied to death situations.
I don't hear about Asian teens killing themselves because of peer bullying.
I sense a google search coming on.