What are your views of S/M

[Sir Barton]

Blackrose_Knight

Sir Barton

Blackrose_Knight

Where do you think the drive behind such activities comes from?
I have no idea. Different people feel different things when the same thing is done to both people. I am thinking biochemistry here.

Why are people so obsessed with what other people do in bed, thus try to restrict it?
Because the secretly want it... >.>
I have no idea.

Very likely that they secretly want it. wink

Here's a thought that I have about the drive behind S/M. At its bases sado-masochist play is sexual and I feel that when we indulge in these activities we are being more true to our animal nature. Do animals have romantic soft fluffy sex? Nature shows have shown us that sex in nature tends to be rough and in some species this is needed to excite the female. Maybe we are more human when we tap into that primal nature and let our beast roam.

Not the image I wanted to see... I remember something about barbed cat penises....
Anyway good theory. Also I imagine it has to do with the make up of each person's pain systems and how they respond. Bite me and my knees give out. Bite my best friend, she will hit you and then cry cause it hurts. But it is animalistic in nature.

It does have to do with the way we process pain. 3nodding When a masochist experiences brain their brain fires a different way then it does in other people. Pain and pleasure sensors are so closely related that the cross wire is a pretty easy occurrence. That would also be the reason that masochist like the pain that they like and not just all pain.

[Captain Daemonfelis]

Just one semantical thing. S/m is Sadism and Masochism.
M/s (D/s) is Master and Slave
M/s is who we are, S/m is what we do.

[Lilith1713]

Captain Daemonfelis

Just one semantical thing. S/m is Sadism and Masochism.
M/s (D/s) is Master and Slave
M/s is who we are, S/m is what we do.

If you were referring to me... I realize that. I meant that I am experiment with S/M through my experimentation with M/s.

[Blackrose_Knight]

Sir Barton

Blackrose_Knight

Sir Barton

Blackrose_Knight

Where do you think the drive behind such activities comes from?
I have no idea. Different people feel different things when the same thing is done to both people. I am thinking biochemistry here.

Why are people so obsessed with what other people do in bed, thus try to restrict it?
Because the secretly want it... >.>
I have no idea.

Very likely that they secretly want it. wink

Here's a thought that I have about the drive behind S/M. At its bases sado-masochist play is sexual and I feel that when we indulge in these activities we are being more true to our animal nature. Do animals have romantic soft fluffy sex? Nature shows have shown us that sex in nature tends to be rough and in some species this is needed to excite the female. Maybe we are more human when we tap into that primal nature and let our beast roam.

Not the image I wanted to see... I remember something about barbed cat penises....
Anyway good theory. Also I imagine it has to do with the make up of each person's pain systems and how they respond. Bite me and my knees give out. Bite my best friend, she will hit you and then cry cause it hurts. But it is animalistic in nature.

It does have to do with the way we process pain. 3nodding When a masochist experiences brain their brain fires a different way then it does in other people. Pain and pleasure sensors are so closely related that the cross wire is a pretty easy occurrence. That would also be the reason that masochist like the pain that they like and not just all pain.

My brain is different cool!!! That would be a study I would want to see. How a masochists brain differs from someone who doesn't like pain. Or better yet, how a maschosits brain fires when given pain they like, then pain they don't like... hmmm

[Eden_hummel]

Sounds like fun for both partys, as long as they do things properly (sush as haveing a safe word, and haveing an emergancy kit.) and with repect.

[Sir Barton]

Cobaltskye

Captain Daemonfelis

Just one semantical thing. S/m is Sadism and Masochism.
M/s (D/s) is Master and Slave
M/s is who we are, S/m is what we do.

If you were referring to me... I realize that. I meant that I am experiment with S/M through my experimentation with M/s.

They can and often do go hand in hand. S/M is an important factor in my M/s relationship but some of my most satisfying S/M has taken place with others then my slave. Sometimes it is easier to express my sadistic side with someone that I don't love because I have few reservations.

[Captain Daemonfelis]

My apologies Cobalt. I was just being a prat about semantics.

[Sir Barton]

Blackrose_Knight

Sir Barton

Blackrose_Knight

Sir Barton

Blackrose_Knight

Where do you think the drive behind such activities comes from?
I have no idea. Different people feel different things when the same thing is done to both people. I am thinking biochemistry here.

Why are people so obsessed with what other people do in bed, thus try to restrict it?
Because the secretly want it... >.>
I have no idea.

Very likely that they secretly want it. wink

Here's a thought that I have about the drive behind S/M. At its bases sado-masochist play is sexual and I feel that when we indulge in these activities we are being more true to our animal nature. Do animals have romantic soft fluffy sex? Nature shows have shown us that sex in nature tends to be rough and in some species this is needed to excite the female. Maybe we are more human when we tap into that primal nature and let our beast roam.

Not the image I wanted to see... I remember something about barbed cat penises....
Anyway good theory. Also I imagine it has to do with the make up of each person's pain systems and how they respond. Bite me and my knees give out. Bite my best friend, she will hit you and then cry cause it hurts. But it is animalistic in nature.

It does have to do with the way we process pain. 3nodding When a masochist experiences brain their brain fires a different way then it does in other people. Pain and pleasure sensors are so closely related that the cross wire is a pretty easy occurrence. That would also be the reason that masochist like the pain that they like and not just all pain.

My brain is different cool!!! That would be a study I would want to see. How a masochists brain differs from someone who doesn't like pain. Or better yet, how a maschosits brain fires when given pain they like, then pain they don't like... hmmm

I know that there have been studies that do show that different parts of the brain are triggered in a masochist but I would find it cool to see what happens when you hit a masochist who likes thud with a heavy flogger and then smack them with a cane. 3nodding Let's see what part lights up like a Christmas tree.

[Lilith1713]

Sir Barton

Cobaltskye

Captain Daemonfelis

Just one semantical thing. S/m is Sadism and Masochism.
M/s (D/s) is Master and Slave
M/s is who we are, S/m is what we do.

If you were referring to me... I realize that. I meant that I am experiment with S/M through my experimentation with M/s.

They can and often do go hand in hand. S/M is an important factor in my M/s relationship but some of my most satisfying S/M has taken place with others then my slave. Sometimes it is easier to express my sadistic side with someone that I don't love because I have few reservations.

My Master has a bit trouble seeing me in pain since he cares for me so much. We are still training..and learning so much from each other. I enjoy the more psychological portion of M/s...if that counts for masochism in that because I am a very emotional person, emotional pain may turn me on more than physical pain. Plus, I'm still exploring what types of pain feel good, and which types don't. whee

[Sir Barton]

Captain Daemonfelis

My apologies Cobalt. I was just being a prat about semantics.

*poke* You're just trying to make sure everyone is on the same page.

[Blackrose_Knight]

Cobaltskye

My Master has a bit trouble seeing me in pain since he cares for me so much. We are still training..and learning so much from each other. I enjoy the more psychological portion of M/s...if that counts for masochism in that because I am a very emotional person, emotional pain may turn me on more than physical pain. Plus, I'm still exploring what types of pain feel good, and which types don't. whee

Aha, that brings in a good part of S/M. The ********. I really dislike this sort of thing myself, but different strokes for different folks.

[Sir Barton]

Cobaltskye

Sir Barton

Cobaltskye

Captain Daemonfelis

Just one semantical thing. S/m is Sadism and Masochism.
M/s (D/s) is Master and Slave
M/s is who we are, S/m is what we do.

If you were referring to me... I realize that. I meant that I am experiment with S/M through my experimentation with M/s.

They can and often do go hand in hand. S/M is an important factor in my M/s relationship but some of my most satisfying S/M has taken place with others then my slave. Sometimes it is easier to express my sadistic side with someone that I don't love because I have few reservations.

My Master has a bit trouble seeing me in pain since he cares for me so much. We are still training..and learning so much from each other. I enjoy the more psychological portion of M/s...if that counts for masochism in that because I am a very emotional person, emotional pain may turn me on more than physical pain. Plus, I'm still exploring what types of pain feel good, and which types don't. whee

Some masochist to have a preference for emotional or psychological pain. That's why we have people who enjoy humiliation. wink Find out what you like and what you don't is half the fun.

[Lilith1713]

Blackrose_Knight

Cobaltskye

My Master has a bit trouble seeing me in pain since he cares for me so much. We are still training..and learning so much from each other. I enjoy the more psychological portion of M/s...if that counts for masochism in that because I am a very emotional person, emotional pain may turn me on more than physical pain. Plus, I'm still exploring what types of pain feel good, and which types don't. whee

Aha, that brings in a good part of S/M. The ********. I really dislike this sort of thing myself, but different strokes for different folks.

My mind is constantly being played with. 4laugh Really turns me on. redface

[Blackrose_Knight]

Cobaltskye

Blackrose_Knight

Cobaltskye

My Master has a bit trouble seeing me in pain since he cares for me so much. We are still training..and learning so much from each other. I enjoy the more psychological portion of M/s...if that counts for masochism in that because I am a very emotional person, emotional pain may turn me on more than physical pain. Plus, I'm still exploring what types of pain feel good, and which types don't. whee

Aha, that brings in a good part of S/M. The ********. I really dislike this sort of thing myself, but different strokes for different folks.

My mind is constantly being played with. 4laugh Really turns me on. redface

And see, I am one of those really really dominant types in normal life, but when it comes to my love life, I surrender everything (cause I am lazy lol)
If ~someone~ where to play with my mind. ~They~ would be apt to get punched in the face. But that is just me, and that is just you. I doubt you like to be bitten on your wrists...