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Scelere
Osmossis
Scelere
Osmossis
And some people.
I dont understand why things happen the way they do or why.
But ******** it confused ugh

Discuss..
What the ******** you want



DOWN WITH MY EX-BESTIE WHO TURNED OUT TO BE A LYING COLD-HEARTED b***h! XD

It really does hurt, though. Not being able to understand why things are the way they are.

Yea Im having an issue very similar to that scenario.
But its pretty much just makin me not wanna do relationships


I experience this apprehension occasionally.
It makes me feel like I can't trust those that I hold dear to me now.
It makes me nervous to think that they might not be in the my future, like I thought she would be.
It's soo weird to reflect and know you loved that person soo much
and you had great hopes and experiences with this person
and now that person is telling people you're friends with that you psychologically abused her
and you're really confused as to why they would tell such a cruel lie
when you had all these beautiful, loving memories that came before all the mess and mis-communication.
And this person ended up never giving you the chance to communicate, because she already made up her mind to give up, without your slightest knowledge.
And you realize she stopped loving you at some point and has just been appeasing you until she saw the opportunity to drop you.
And she is blaming you for everything and your heart is telling you, you're not the only one to blame. We both are.

It tears me apart inside, sometimes.

Ultimately, I'm trying to remove the judge from myself and let things just be. I'm trying to keep my heart open to new relationships and not fear the inevitable possibility of not knowing them later on. I'm trying to conquer my uncertainty by fulfilling my heart and being able to sustain my existence on my own.

I wish the best for you, too. Remember, this too shall pass. And never... ever question your self-worth! 3nodding

Yea, I feel everything that youre saying. And Im still talking to a friend about it.
I wont understand it and I dont care to find out either. Theres nothing i can do.
But accept that people are who and what they are.
Sorry for your friend however. She obviously cant handle responsibilty or the blame o her own actions at all.
idek sad
International Whore
Osmossis
International Whore
n***a,
you know i love you
niggas 4 lyfe

I gotta know.
Is that ny n***a Dayna talkin.
or the alcohol cry
It's just drunk dayna.
Not really the alcohol.
I'm just a lot more
smooth when I drink.
Because I'm a f*****t.

I just want you to know,
you deserve the best.
It's not the alcohol talking,
it's the truth.
This I can promise.

Dayna youre a sweetheart.
Ive never seen this side of you but I can really use it ya know.
Thanx. and I love this smooth f*****t lol
youre my smooth f*****t heart
Osmossis
International Whore
Osmossis
International Whore
n***a,
you know i love you
niggas 4 lyfe

I gotta know.
Is that ny n***a Dayna talkin.
or the alcohol cry
It's just drunk dayna.
Not really the alcohol.
I'm just a lot more
smooth when I drink.
Because I'm a f*****t.

I just want you to know,
you deserve the best.
It's not the alcohol talking,
it's the truth.
This I can promise.

Dayna youre a sweetheart.
Ive never seen this side of you but I can really use it ya know.
Thanx. and I love this smooth f*****t lol
youre my smooth f*****t heart
I'm always this person,
you know this much.
Sometimes my sarcasm overshadows
my true character,
but I really wish nothign more
than the best for all living, innocent people.
I know you've had it rough for a while,
but good karma is headed your way.
You're my n***a straight up.
Things can only go up from here. heart
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste

not thinking about it

most guys when having sex they think "ok ok i cant c** quickly i cant c** quickly i cant c** quickly" , and see they shoot themselves in the foot

if you can shut that down and just let yourself be attracted to the girl , it can last a long time.. plus that way you 'understand' how she reacts to things and you can naturally pleasure her without her needing to tell you what to do step by step

also , its not constant penetration because both your bodies couldnt handle it for too long , all about letting things go naturally / instinctively

Ive always thought of that.
But myself control can be kinda bad.
Sheesh you sounds like you can make a woman really want it. o.o

well if you cant put that thought aside , at least take out the negative wording

the brain doesnt understand 'dont' , 'not' and all the negative words of the language , it just understands it as positive

so if youre thinking "ok i cant c**" , your brain reads "ok i c**"

now a 'solution' i guess would be to tell yourself instead "i can and will last longer, im attracted to her so much, i want her, im a legend, im the king yes" , that way the brain reads all the positivity and can make it happen because suggestion is a powerful tool

Damn bro. Lol I used to think not to c** as too.
You sound like a sex guru.
Ive read books trying to get self esteem and stamina. its really hard to train the mind.
They dont really give you any tips for the mental part.
The feeling can overwhelm the thoughts sometimes confused

no such thing as a 'sexu guru' man

its just all about letting yourself lose control , letting your instincts take over

too many guys view sex like they view an exam .. "s**t i have to perform" , and negative thoughts work against you

youll reach a confident state after you can fully let go of your apprehensions towards sex , but until then you can change the wording to boost your ego in bed , and at one point you wont need to do that anymore since your stress regarding sex will be gone

********, Im one of those guys. But only cause thats what a lot of women today want.
Its pretty intimidating, especially when shes a beauty, and shes one of those girls who wants someone who can really give it to her. knowing that can make someone think that.
But what is your opinion on size.?
One of the most debatable questions.
Osmossis
Scelere
Osmossis
Scelere
Osmossis
And some people.
I dont understand why things happen the way they do or why.
But ******** it confused ugh

Discuss..
What the ******** you want



DOWN WITH MY EX-BESTIE WHO TURNED OUT TO BE A LYING COLD-HEARTED b***h! XD

It really does hurt, though. Not being able to understand why things are the way they are.

Yea Im having an issue very similar to that scenario.
But its pretty much just makin me not wanna do relationships


I experience this apprehension occasionally.
It makes me feel like I can't trust those that I hold dear to me now.
It makes me nervous to think that they might not be in the my future, like I thought she would be.
It's soo weird to reflect and know you loved that person soo much
and you had great hopes and experiences with this person
and now that person is telling people you're friends with that you psychologically abused her
and you're really confused as to why they would tell such a cruel lie
when you had all these beautiful, loving memories that came before all the mess and mis-communication.
And this person ended up never giving you the chance to communicate, because she already made up her mind to give up, without your slightest knowledge.
And you realize she stopped loving you at some point and has just been appeasing you until she saw the opportunity to drop you.
And she is blaming you for everything and your heart is telling you, you're not the only one to blame. We both are.

It tears me apart inside, sometimes.

Ultimately, I'm trying to remove the judge from myself and let things just be. I'm trying to keep my heart open to new relationships and not fear the inevitable possibility of not knowing them later on. I'm trying to conquer my uncertainty by fulfilling my heart and being able to sustain my existence on my own.

I wish the best for you, too. Remember, this too shall pass. And never... ever question your self-worth! 3nodding

Yea, I feel everything that youre saying. And Im still talking to a friend about it.
I wont understand it and I dont care to find out either. Theres nothing i can do.
But accept that people are who and what they are.
Sorry for your friend however. She obviously cant handle responsibilty or the blame o her own actions at all.
idek sad


I respect your views and I'm happy to hear you have a friend that you feel you can speak to about these things. I think it's being human and I don't understand it very much at all, as much as I would like to be able to make it into something that makes sense. You're right, I can't.

heart
International Whore
Osmossis
International Whore
Osmossis
International Whore
n***a,
you know i love you
niggas 4 lyfe

I gotta know.
Is that ny n***a Dayna talkin.
or the alcohol cry
It's just drunk dayna.
Not really the alcohol.
I'm just a lot more
smooth when I drink.
Because I'm a f*****t.

I just want you to know,
you deserve the best.
It's not the alcohol talking,
it's the truth.
This I can promise.

Dayna youre a sweetheart.
Ive never seen this side of you but I can really use it ya know.
Thanx. and I love this smooth f*****t lol
youre my smooth f*****t heart
I'm always this person,
you know this much.
Sometimes my sarcasm overshadows
my true character,
but I really wish nothign more
than the best for all living, innocent people.
I know you've had it rough for a while,
but good karma is headed your way.
You're my n***a straight up.
Things can only go up from here. heart

sheesh. youre making me smile heart
Thank you so much Dayna
Osmossis
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste

not thinking about it

most guys when having sex they think "ok ok i cant c** quickly i cant c** quickly i cant c** quickly" , and see they shoot themselves in the foot

if you can shut that down and just let yourself be attracted to the girl , it can last a long time.. plus that way you 'understand' how she reacts to things and you can naturally pleasure her without her needing to tell you what to do step by step

also , its not constant penetration because both your bodies couldnt handle it for too long , all about letting things go naturally / instinctively

Ive always thought of that.
But myself control can be kinda bad.
Sheesh you sounds like you can make a woman really want it. o.o

well if you cant put that thought aside , at least take out the negative wording

the brain doesnt understand 'dont' , 'not' and all the negative words of the language , it just understands it as positive

so if youre thinking "ok i cant c**" , your brain reads "ok i c**"

now a 'solution' i guess would be to tell yourself instead "i can and will last longer, im attracted to her so much, i want her, im a legend, im the king yes" , that way the brain reads all the positivity and can make it happen because suggestion is a powerful tool

Damn bro. Lol I used to think not to c** as too.
You sound like a sex guru.
Ive read books trying to get self esteem and stamina. its really hard to train the mind.
They dont really give you any tips for the mental part.
The feeling can overwhelm the thoughts sometimes confused

no such thing as a 'sexu guru' man

its just all about letting yourself lose control , letting your instincts take over

too many guys view sex like they view an exam .. "s**t i have to perform" , and negative thoughts work against you

youll reach a confident state after you can fully let go of your apprehensions towards sex , but until then you can change the wording to boost your ego in bed , and at one point you wont need to do that anymore since your stress regarding sex will be gone

********, Im one of those guys. But only cause thats what a lot of women today want.
Its pretty intimidating, especially when shes a beauty, and shes one of those girls who wants someone who can really give it to her. knowing that can make someone think that.
But what is your opinion on size.?
One of the most debatable questions.

size doesnt matter at all , now there are extremes , either way small or way big , and these kind of break the 'naturality' of sex because with a very small d**k youll 'fall' out of the v****a often , and with a d**k thats too big youll need to stretch her for a while before attempting penetration

well , she wants to have sex with you right ? wether shes a beauty or not , shes into you , and that alone should let you be able to take her off the pedestal you put her on
Osmossis
International Whore
Osmossis
International Whore
Osmossis
International Whore
n***a,
you know i love you
niggas 4 lyfe

I gotta know.
Is that ny n***a Dayna talkin.
or the alcohol cry
It's just drunk dayna.
Not really the alcohol.
I'm just a lot more
smooth when I drink.
Because I'm a f*****t.

I just want you to know,
you deserve the best.
It's not the alcohol talking,
it's the truth.
This I can promise.

Dayna youre a sweetheart.
Ive never seen this side of you but I can really use it ya know.
Thanx. and I love this smooth f*****t lol
youre my smooth f*****t heart
I'm always this person,
you know this much.
Sometimes my sarcasm overshadows
my true character,
but I really wish nothign more
than the best for all living, innocent people.
I know you've had it rough for a while,
but good karma is headed your way.
You're my n***a straight up.
Things can only go up from here. heart

sheesh. youre making me smile heart
Thank you so much Dayna
You're welcome buddy,
any time heart
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste

well if you cant put that thought aside , at least take out the negative wording

the brain doesnt understand 'dont' , 'not' and all the negative words of the language , it just understands it as positive

so if youre thinking "ok i cant c**" , your brain reads "ok i c**"

now a 'solution' i guess would be to tell yourself instead "i can and will last longer, im attracted to her so much, i want her, im a legend, im the king yes" , that way the brain reads all the positivity and can make it happen because suggestion is a powerful tool

Damn bro. Lol I used to think not to c** as too.
You sound like a sex guru.
Ive read books trying to get self esteem and stamina. its really hard to train the mind.
They dont really give you any tips for the mental part.
The feeling can overwhelm the thoughts sometimes confused

no such thing as a 'sexu guru' man

its just all about letting yourself lose control , letting your instincts take over

too many guys view sex like they view an exam .. "s**t i have to perform" , and negative thoughts work against you

youll reach a confident state after you can fully let go of your apprehensions towards sex , but until then you can change the wording to boost your ego in bed , and at one point you wont need to do that anymore since your stress regarding sex will be gone

********, Im one of those guys. But only cause thats what a lot of women today want.
Its pretty intimidating, especially when shes a beauty, and shes one of those girls who wants someone who can really give it to her. knowing that can make someone think that.
But what is your opinion on size.?
One of the most debatable questions.

size doesnt matter at all , now there are extremes , either way small or way big , and these kind of break the 'naturality' of sex because with a very small d**k youll 'fall' out of the v****a often , and with a d**k thats too big youll need to stretch her for a while before attempting penetration

well , she wants to have sex with you right ? wether shes a beauty or not , shes into you , and that alone should let you be able to take her off the pedestal you put her on

Dang dude.
Where did like seriously learn all this stuff?
Youre like the one person in the GD im sure is gettin plenty sweatdrop
butt ******** it
Osmossis
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste
Osmossis
ttriste

well if you cant put that thought aside , at least take out the negative wording

the brain doesnt understand 'dont' , 'not' and all the negative words of the language , it just understands it as positive

so if youre thinking "ok i cant c**" , your brain reads "ok i c**"

now a 'solution' i guess would be to tell yourself instead "i can and will last longer, im attracted to her so much, i want her, im a legend, im the king yes" , that way the brain reads all the positivity and can make it happen because suggestion is a powerful tool

Damn bro. Lol I used to think not to c** as too.
You sound like a sex guru.
Ive read books trying to get self esteem and stamina. its really hard to train the mind.
They dont really give you any tips for the mental part.
The feeling can overwhelm the thoughts sometimes confused

no such thing as a 'sexu guru' man

its just all about letting yourself lose control , letting your instincts take over

too many guys view sex like they view an exam .. "s**t i have to perform" , and negative thoughts work against you

youll reach a confident state after you can fully let go of your apprehensions towards sex , but until then you can change the wording to boost your ego in bed , and at one point you wont need to do that anymore since your stress regarding sex will be gone

********, Im one of those guys. But only cause thats what a lot of women today want.
Its pretty intimidating, especially when shes a beauty, and shes one of those girls who wants someone who can really give it to her. knowing that can make someone think that.
But what is your opinion on size.?
One of the most debatable questions.

size doesnt matter at all , now there are extremes , either way small or way big , and these kind of break the 'naturality' of sex because with a very small d**k youll 'fall' out of the v****a often , and with a d**k thats too big youll need to stretch her for a while before attempting penetration

well , she wants to have sex with you right ? wether shes a beauty or not , shes into you , and that alone should let you be able to take her off the pedestal you put her on

Dang dude.
Where did like seriously learn all this stuff?
Youre like the one person in the GD im sure is gettin plenty sweatdrop

well , what helped me a lot sexually was that i dated a 39 year old woman when i was 17 , thats when i learned about the g-spot , what to do with it , other sensitive spots , fingering techniques , oral techniques , positions , etc.. thats really when i first 'understood' a womans body , and it was a huge confidence booster

plus i guess i was fortunate enough to be the 'cute guy' in high school, so girls would just come up to me.. when youre used to getting 'wanted' , you lose that stress to perform since the pressure is more on them , and you can allow yourself to be attracted to the girl with no other thought floating in the back of your mind

but i havent had sex in quite a few months , mainly because im looking for strong feelings now since i want a stable relationship , so im pretty sure im far from being the guy 'getting plenty' right now lol

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