My gf just had a baby, and I'm thinking of dumping her. :/

[PEANUTSENBUTTERS]

grow...
some...
balls.

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[DethByDuctTape]

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[DethByDuctTape]

as big of a life change it is for you, it is for her as well.

be there for her at least until she can handle it on her own

I don't want to handle it at all.

I just want to get away, which is what I'm probably going to do.

I want her and the baby out of my life forever.

sorry, love, but you can't alway have what you want.
and though I don't know you myself, I'm going to go out on a limb here and say you may need to grow up and assume some responsibility.
because once you have a baby, it isn't about you anymore. it's about the baby.

No, it's about me.

and I know it's self centered, but I don't ******** care.

I'm not ruining my life just for a little brat, I'm sorry.

[_Kyhria_]

If its a troll, your wasting your time. If your being serious, your ARE a legal adult in America and some states have laws that if the parents wish, they could press charges and you will need to pay child support.

[Simplistik Love]

Selfish b***h. talk2hand

[LOL KAY]

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No, it's about me.

and I know it's self centered, but I don't ******** care.

I'm not ruining my life just for a little brat, I'm sorry.

LOL KAY ;DD

You smell like poo.
D:<

LOL KAY ;DD

[Longnatt]

Wow, dude, you're retarded. neutral
You're the one who ******** her knowing she wasn't on the pill, (even if you didn't know, you should've asked) and you didn't use a condom.
Thus, being YOUR ******** fault. This isn't her fault, you could've pulled out just before you came.
You = should go put a bullet through your head. Because you, sir, are a dickhead.

[Defiance_in_Anarchy]

your a d**k "got herself pregnant" you did half the work

[thenakedmolerat833]

Okay....

If you didn't want to have a baby you should not have had sex. You shouldn't make decision if you were not ready to take want comes with it. You don't have to stay with her but you and her made the baby, so you are half responable for it.

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[DethByDuctTape]

as big of a life change it is for you, it is for her as well.

be there for her at least until she can handle it on her own

I don't want to handle it at all.

I just want to get away, which is what I'm probably going to do.

I want her and the baby out of my life forever.

sorry, love, but you can't alway have what you want.
and though I don't know you myself, I'm going to go out on a limb here and say you may need to grow up and assume some responsibility.
because once you have a baby, it isn't about you anymore. it's about the baby.

No, it's about me.

and I know it's self centered, but I don't ******** care.

I'm not ruining my life just for a little brat, I'm sorry.

well if that's how you feel, then I can't change your mind.
but I do hope you have the decency to tell her before you up and leave.
it's the least you can do.

[hecatesheretic]

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Whitney is God

It's not worth it.
Tell her either she gives up the baby or you leave.
I mean, come on, does she really expect you do put up with that s**t?

That's what I thought.

How ******** SELFISH do you have to be, to have a baby and than force your bf who wants nothing to do with it, into being a father figure? confused

you had sex with her without pretection, you must have known the risks... you at least should be there for the child and help her support it!!! she did not "get herself pregnant"!!!! you got her pregnant!!!!

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Heenata

Wow, dude, you're retarded. neutral
You're the one who ******** her knowing she wasn't on the pill, (even if you didn't know, you should've asked) and you didn't use a condom.
Thus, being YOUR ******** fault. This isn't her fault, you could've pulled out just before you came.
You = should go put a bullet through your head. Because you, sir, are a dickhead.

Yea, but I'm not the pregnant one, so it's obviously her fault.

Man, you people know nothing about how the reproductive system works. confused

[XxXrynXxX]

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Whitney is God

It's not worth it.
Tell her either she gives up the baby or you leave.
I mean, come on, does she really expect you do put up with that s**t?

That's what I thought.

How ******** SELFISH do you have to be, to have a baby and than force your bf who wants nothing to do with it, into being a father figure? confused

for one thing, this is a child, a himan being, and since she was the one that grew the human being for 9 ******** months im pretty sure shed pick the child over your selfish a**

god damnit your acting like this is a ******** punishment! like god has smited you! suck it up! be a man! you make her choose, i promise you this, you'll lose. and if you didnt want the child in the first place you shouldnt have given her false hope from the start!

damn maybe this will teach you to use a condom...

[Rob Glompie]

[electric kool-aid]

well maybe you should learn how to use a condom then.
how is it all her fault, it takes two to have sex!

[Avis-yam]

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Whitney is God

It's not worth it.
Tell her either she gives up the baby or you leave.
I mean, come on, does she really expect you do put up with that s**t?

That's what I thought.

How ******** SELFISH do you have to be, to have a baby and than force your bf who wants nothing to do with it, into being a father figure? confused

Maybe you should have told her that earlier. Y'know, before she was IN LABOUR? Why pretend for nine months? Why not tell her you can't deal with it when abortion was still possible?

Even if she would have insisted on having the baby otherwise, you're still responsible.

OWN UP, YOU'RE NOT A CHILD.