My gf just had a baby, and I'm thinking of dumping her. :/

[ADMlN-111]

well i dont know(im 14 so i wouldnt know much about this) but i think you should stick with her. You dont want her child to hate you for being a terrible father, and leaving like most people do. I dont really know but thats my opinion. 19 isnt such a terrible age either. Some kids get pregnant at like 16 and stuff

[Captain Spanks]

Accidently lose the baby. wink

[[DethByDuctTape]]

as big of a life change it is for you, it is for her as well.

be there for her at least until she can handle it on her own

[LOL KAY]

Potential

[electric kool-aid]

well maybe you should learn how to use a condom then.

I know how to use a condom, it doesn't take a rocket scientist.

I just don't like using them, and I'm not paying her money for the next 18 years because of that.

LOL KAY ;DD

Then it's not her fault, it's yours, spermbank.

LOL KAY ;DD

[Potential]

Aiylan

It can't be ALL her fault. The sperm had to come from somewhere. If you think her life isn't effected, you're nuts.

You play, you got to pay.

Who cares about her, she's a woman.

She'll end up attaching herself to some rich guy anyways, she'll be fine.

Yea, there might be a little struggle until than, but she's just going to have to hang in there.

This is about me. confused

[crisb_2002]

Potential

To be honest, I can't believe I stuck with her for nine months.

I know that's really bad, but hear me out.

I'm ******** 19, having a baby is a big life change.

Should I really be forced to change my life style because my ******** gf got herself pregnant? confused

She went into labor yesterday morning, and I pretended to be stuck in traffic, so I wouldn't actually have to be there.

I mean she's hot and all, but not enough to REALLY consider raising a family with.

I don't know, I'm probably being selfish. I've been thinking of escaping the country sometime this week, so I can just get away, and get my thoughts together, or just get away permanently.

Maybe change my name or something, I can't live with her or the ******** baby, not when all this is her fault.

Discuss: What I should do.

She didn't get herself pregnant!!! You had something to do with it. Suck it up and be a father to your child. rolleyes

[GreenSplice]

If you are kidding, lawl.
If not, hit the baby with a pipe wrench.

Expect a serious answer from the GD?

[` S k y e]

She didnt bloody get herself pregnant.
You dont necissarily have to be in a relationship but do go off and leave her alone with a child.
Think about it, if it's a big life change for you it is also one for her.
So dont be a b*****d your whole life.
Stick around.
It was all your fault anyone.
You're the one with the sperm!

[devils_assassin]

She didnt get herself pregnant a*****e it takes 2 to make a baby so suck it up and be a man

[SweetxMadness]

How is it all her fault? I mean if you have used a condom then she wouldn't have been pregnant in the first place, you a*****e. D:

[Potential]

[DethByDuctTape]

as big of a life change it is for you, it is for her as well.

be there for her at least until she can handle it on her own

I don't want to handle it at all.

I just want to get away, which is what I'm probably going to do.

I want her and the baby out of my life forever.

[I Gots A Sock Box]

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Aiylan

It can't be ALL her fault. The sperm had to come from somewhere. If you think her life isn't effected, you're nuts.

You play, you got to pay.

Who cares about her, she's a woman.

She'll end up attaching herself to some rich guy anyways, she'll be fine.

Yea, there might be a little struggle until than, but she's just going to have to hang in there.

This is about me. confused

Don't be a d**k. Grow some balls and help out with YOUR child.

[Biemory]

If not for the sake of your girlfriend,
think of the kid.

You have a chance to save it from suffering
a little bit less, and if you can do that, I say
stick with it, it'll be worth it in the end.

[x - - Dalliance]

No, it's not all her fault.
Who stuck thier what in her where, now?
She could've gotten an abortion, but still. You should have thought before you did her.
Using contaceptives could have let you avoid this whole situation.

And breaking up with her now would just be selfish. I bet she already feels terrbile, havinf a babby at her age.
You're the father. Take responsibility.

[XxXrynXxX]

dude...
1) i dont think she im-pregnated herself X.x
2) dont you think shes having a hard ebough time as it is
3) running away from your problems never solves anything
4) try talking to her about whats going on and how its making you feel like its just pressure on your own life