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erin in london There's a girl at my school who was pregnant in 9th grade. And she's pregnant again this year (junior year).  erin in london  oh my! sounds like she is going places in life! hahah i would kill her if she was my daughter |
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the poetry of static erin in london There's a girl at my school who was pregnant in 9th grade. And she's pregnant again this year (junior year). erin in london oh my! sounds like she is going places in life! hahah i would kill her if she was my daughter IKR. I was just like are you kidding me? I hope it's at least with the same guy erin in london |
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I hate the stigma teenage parents have.
"Oh, you ruined your life." No, you really ******** didn't. Just because you have a kid doesn't mean s**t. If you decide to live off of welfare and not do something to make things better for yourself, then yes you ruined your OWN life. "Well, they can't go to school and can only work for minimum wage." Last time I checked, there are two parents. I'm pretty sure the grandparents wouldn't mind taking care of the baby, while their children go to school to get a higher education. If they decide to keep the baby, think of it as giving the kid the chance to be the next president or maybe just another drug dealer. Either good or bad can come out of it, and I knew a few teen parents doing just ******** fine with their baby. If anything, the baby sometimes adds to their relationship, and they grow closer. If they choose to abort, atleast the baby wasn't a waste. The fetus goes to stem cell research. |
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AT-MOS I'm surprised at the number who actively seek to get pregnant at that age. Disgusting. |
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fetusjello I hate the stigma teenage parents have. "Oh, you ruined your life." No, you really ******** didn't. Just because you have a kid doesn't mean s**t. If you decide to live off of welfare and not do something to make things better for yourself, then yes you ruined your OWN life. "Well, they can't go to school and can only work for minimum wage." Last time I checked, there are two parents. I'm pretty sure the grandparents wouldn't mind taking care of the baby, while their children go to school to get a higher education. If they decide to keep the baby, think of it as giving the kid the chance to be the next president or maybe just another drug dealer. Either good or bad can come out of it, and I knew a few teen parents doing just ******** fine with their baby. If anything, the baby sometimes adds to their relationship, and they grow closer. If they choose to abort, atleast the baby wasn't a waste. The fetus goes to stem cell research. I know this girl who has a kid who wants to go to college so bad. She works at a minimum wage job now. The father doesn't help her at all, not even financially. She doesn't really have much time to go to school, though, because she has to work AND take care of her baby. Imagine adding school into that mix. Not very easy, at least not now. Also, about the baby making the parents' relationship closer: I've NEVER seen that happen in a teen-parent relationship. I don't know how common that is where you are, but it's EXTREMELY uncommon pretty much everywhere else. |
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erin in london the poetry of static erin in london There's a girl at my school who was pregnant in 9th grade. And she's pregnant again this year (junior year). erin in london oh my! sounds like she is going places in life! hahah i would kill her if she was my daughter IKR. I was just like are you kidding me? I hope it's at least with the same guy erin in london yeah!! yeesh i just worry about the poor kids they have who have no control over anything |
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Quote: Well, how much would it suck to get preggerz with TWINS? My cousin got pregnant with twins at fifteen. Then she turned into a complete b***h. Now she's just plain retarded, she keeps trying to get her mom's boyfriend robbed, and he had to beat the s**t out of some guy because he was about to get shot. .___. Oh yeah, a previous post reminds me; one of my cousins got pregnant, and she tried getting pregnant again even though she didn't take care of the baby. My cousins are ******** retarded cunts. ._.;; |
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Miss. Sparkle Ew, no I'm not. But i was thinking. Y'know how sometimes people get knocked up while they're still in high school? And how it kinda ******** their entire life? Well, how much would it suck to get preggerz with TWINS? Being like, 17 years old, and having TWO BABIES. Oh lordy, I'd get that s**t aborted. discuss how insensitive I am. |
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Lady_Rose Don't stereotype. It only "ruins" one's life if they allow it to. they can try to do the best they can but a baby before youre ready will definitely ruin their lives no matter whether they think it will or not!! |
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I Say! fetusjello I hate the stigma teenage parents have. "Oh, you ruined your life." No, you really ******** didn't. Just because you have a kid doesn't mean s**t. If you decide to live off of welfare and not do something to make things better for yourself, then yes you ruined your OWN life. "Well, they can't go to school and can only work for minimum wage." Last time I checked, there are two parents. I'm pretty sure the grandparents wouldn't mind taking care of the baby, while their children go to school to get a higher education. If they decide to keep the baby, think of it as giving the kid the chance to be the next president or maybe just another drug dealer. Either good or bad can come out of it, and I knew a few teen parents doing just ******** fine with their baby. If anything, the baby sometimes adds to their relationship, and they grow closer. If they choose to abort, atleast the baby wasn't a waste. The fetus goes to stem cell research. I know this girl who has a kid who wants to go to college so bad. She works at a minimum wage job now. The father doesn't help her at all, not even financially. She doesn't really have much time to go to school, though, because she has to work AND take care of her baby. Imagine adding school into that mix. Not very easy, at least not now. Also, about the baby making the parents' relationship closer: I've NEVER seen that happen in a teen-parent relationship. I don't know how common that is where you are, but it's EXTREMELY uncommon pretty much everywhere else. I like your reply. smile Anywhos, yeah it does suck that the parents life is altered. We all know that 18-23 are some of the best years to party and whatnot. And the baby-making bringing bringing the parents closer and the relationship grow, its SUPER rare. You're completely right. But I know atleast one couple who feel like the baby has made a huge impact on their relationship. I don't expect a 13-17 to see their relationship grow, they don't have a mature mindset yet. But +18 couples can make it work. One thing I don't understand though, is what seems to be just the right age to have a kid? |
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fetusjello I like your reply. smile Anywhos, yeah it does suck that the parents life is altered. We all know that 18-23 are some of the best years to party and whatnot. And the baby-making bringing bringing the parents closer and the relationship grow, its SUPER rare. You're completely right. But I know atleast one couple who feel like the baby has made a huge impact on their relationship. I don't expect a 13-17 to see their relationship grow, they don't have a mature mindset yet. But +18 couples can make it work. One thing I don't understand though, is what seems to be just the right age to have a kid? I don't really understand what the "right age" to have a kid is, either. I think it's different for everyone. For me though? I want my fiance and I to have a few years at LEAST of peace and quiet to ourselves. rofl |
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I'm not going to lie. The intro to this post made me lulz. blaugh
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Lady_Rose Don't stereotype. It only "ruins" one's life if they allow it to. oh i get it now youre pregnant that explains so much it must be due really soon!!! |
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My friend got pregnant at 15, and she had the baby.
Now she's dropped out of school, not going to college, doesn't have a job and her 22 year old jobless boyfriend is hardly ever there. Oh, and he cheats on her too, but she pretends he doesn't because she's too scared to not have him there. So that, double? Hell no. |
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