I am very bounce-back-able!

[Lilithe Rose Philaeneus]

I dated a guy for eleven months. He was the first to say "I love you." He wrote me love notes all the time. I fell in love wih him. I had a very comitted relationship with him. He asked me to marry him, and I said yes. I couldn't have been happier.

Then out of the blue, he says maybe we're moving too fast and should hold off on getting married. That was all cool, because marriage freaks me out.

Then he starts telling me he's confused about our relationship. That we're missing out on something. I'm freaked because I'm sure I'm losing him.

Finally he breaks up with me. He needed to "explore other options" and he would come back to me "if nothing works out."

I was a ******** wreck. It was my last day of school, like ever.

A day later he starts dating this gril who's kind of an ugly slut. And that's not an opinion; she really is an ugly slut.

But I'm very bounce-back-able. I got a new boyfriend too. My best friend's boyfriend's best friend.

And it's totally not a rebound relationship. I like this guy.

Discuss: Relationships, how you get over break-ups,

[LightSlei]

I just accept them.

[MonkeyyBbY]

I eat looots of chocolates.

[bashfulglowfly]

I make voodoo dolls and throw darts at them.

[Arista Aturi]

"If there's one thing I learned from my mutual break-up with Sean that was totally mutual, it's that happiness can only come from within you."

I like Futurama. A lot lol

[hikaru prince of saiyans]

Never experienced a break up. I don't know if it's a good or a bad thing, seeing as I'm almost 17 and still single. neutral

[Flight Thirteen]

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Moap for a few days in which nothing gets done, and then when I decide I'm way too stinky to not shower I do. And that act alone revitalizes me and I'm back on the prowl so to speak.

So.. I guess I don't shower for weeks after a breakup? Rofl.

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[River_Grace_Stone]

Well, considering that the only relationship I've ever been in didn't work out, I'll just explain what I did.
First, I cried alot. Then, I wrote all the time. I'd have some feeings I wasn't sure about, and so i'd write all of them down, and think about them. It usually helped me feel better. Then after a long while I started noticing other guys. Now, after almost a year, I don't feel anything towards my ex. I don't hate him, I don't miss him. I don't feel as if it was wrong for our relationship to end. I just feel, well, fine. I mean, the world doesn't end with a bad relationship. So, why worry. I feel that the best thing anyone can do is just, move on. I mean, sure, it's hard at first, but if you never start, well, you're screwed.

[Garnet Strife]

I usually trash their cars with my lazer beam.

[COOL FREE RINGTONES]

I guess I got over my last one by hearing about her downward spiral of rebounding and that 6 months later she still isn't over me. neutral

She's a wreck but that's the past for me.

[Melelana]

"O R they?"

I normally have no real way to "get over" relationships... it just sort of happens one day. Normally, it just takes a weird reminder that makes me realize what an a*****e he really was.

[sierrachuu]

I'll go to some art galleries or do the things he never wanted to do.
It's liberating but sad at the same time.

[Melelana]

lapsi

I'll go to some art galleries or do the things he never wanted to do.
It's liberating but sad at the same time.

"O R they?"

Good answer.

[Gatica]

I dated a guy for eleven months. He was the first to say "I love you." He wrote me love notes all the time. I fell in love wih him. I had a very comitted relationship with him. He asked me to marry him, and I said yes. I couldn't have been happier.
3: I have only been with mine 6 months

Then out of the blue, he says maybe we're moving too fast and should hold off on getting married. That was all cool, because marriage freaks me out.
Deffinetly his mom gave him "advice"

Then he starts telling me he's confused about our relationship. That we're missing out on something. I'm freaked because I'm sure I'm losing him.
he discovered he was gay.

Finally he breaks up with me. He needed to "explore other options" and he would come back to me "if nothing works out."
Told you so.
I was a ******** wreck. It was my last day of school, like ever.

A day later he starts dating this gril who's kind of an ugly slut. And that's not an opinion; she really is an ugly slut.
That ugly slut is actually a tranny.

But I'm very bounce-back-able. I got a new boyfriend too. My best friend's boyfriend's best friend.
Say that three times real fast.

And it's totally not a rebound relationship. I like this guy.
Hurray.
Discuss: Relationships, how you get over break-ups

I've never been broken up with, I'm always the one that tells them to ******** off, and I have never regreted a decission.

[ocelotalope]

Tomoyo Manioso

He needed to "explore other options" and he would come back to me "if nothing works out."

How insulting! stressed

Anyway, I've only been in one relationship, and it was utter Hell. The circumstances were terrible, and both us had very different views on what our relationship should have been.

And then it went long-distance.

Then she tried to kill herself.

When we finally broke it off, it was very much a relief for the both of us.