Chekira
Is the living cost for Japan higher than in the US?
Also with homestay what happens if you tend to be a bit antisocial? I don't mean in the sense of you hate to talk to people etc but just when it comes to having your privacy and own space. When you stay at their home do you constantly have to be friendly, cheerful, etc. or can you stay put in your room? Also, how long did it take for you to feel comfortable?
sweatdrop
Compared to what I'm used to paying for things in the US, electronics, clothes, and some foods were much more expensive. Books, magazines and some foods were cheaper. (yay for me because I'm a bookworm
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At least based on my personal experience, you get plenty of privacy and space. My host mom would ask when about I was planning to be home, and occasionally ask who I was going out with. Usually though, it was her just asking to confirm what she already suspected/knew: I was going out with the people from the club I'd joined.
smile Sometimes I think they wanted me to come out and do things with them, but that's mostly because I think my host mom worried sometimes that I spent too much time studying
sweatdrop I would say that even if I had a bad day/was stressed out, I would try hard to at least be polite.
To be honest, it took me a while to get used to them; but since I was their 3rd or 4th homestay student, they were used to me within a day it felt like!
xd But, since I'm a little bit introverted and shy, it took me a while to get used to things and to stop worrying
constantly about doing something to offend them without meaning to.
sweatdrop In hindsight though, I think that would have been hard to do since my host family seems to realize that people from different cultures and countries do things differently, etc.