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Yeah, I'm generally not attracted to people of the same ethnic background as myself... Asians generally, but especially other Chinese. I've only dated Caucasians, except my last g/f, who's mixed (half-British and half-Japanese). I think the cultural difference is exciting to me.

My parents and especially my grandmother, encourage me to date other Chinese. But honestly, cultural and social aspects of Chinese or Chinese-Americans are too familiar to me, that I grew up with in my own family but never found appealing to me (like the way we gather for karaoke, seriously).

Aw come on. I loooove how Asians get about karaoke. Some of the most fun nights I've ever had have been with drunk Asians singing karaoke. Good times.

But yeah, thank you for your input! I agree with you, and totally understand where you're coming from.
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I didn't do interracial dating, nor did I find other races attractive, until I started watching porn.

Thank you porn for helping me get over my ignorance.

God yes. I should start another topic about porn. Porn is amazing. Thank you for your input! Tipping this post!
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totally agree with bi-racial couple xD,
im mexican and i dated guys in the UK or caucasian >///>
sadly my own kind doesnt impress me or interest me o3o
scottish guys are candy to me o^o

Awww come on. I <3 Mexicans! All the salsa and bachata dancing and food and stuff. Tons of fun.
But yeah I really do understand where you're coming from. Scottish guys are mega cute. Ewan McGregor is a longtime favorite of mine.. but unless they're actually from Scotland, I'm not really interested. Like if they're American from Scottish lineage, I don't really care. Probably because I am too, but whatever.
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I prefer interracial dating, hands-down.

I have white skin, in spite of only being half-white, so I'm pretty much always looking for girls one melanin up. Asian, Hispanic, black, it's all good.

That, and I just really, really do not have a good history with white people.

That's another thing. The melanin. I think there might be a biological component to me liking people with more melanin than me. I'm super uber mega pale. I sunburn on cloudy days. It's impossible for me to tan. I have freckles. I'm at huge risk for skin cancer. So basically I think mother nature is like "Too much white in your blood! Save your future children from skin cancer!"
lol idk.
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That's another thing. The melanin. I think there might be a biological component to me liking people with more melanin than me. I'm super uber mega pale. I sunburn on cloudy days. It's impossible for me to tan. I have freckles. I'm at huge risk for skin cancer. So basically I think mother nature is like "Too much white in your blood! Save your future children from skin cancer!"
lol idk.


Well, besides being (usually )more physically attracted to Asians/Latinas/black women than white women, I mostly just find white people to either be A. extremely boring or B. super a$$holes.

Obviously boring people and rude people come in all colors and races, sure. But when I look at the boring and rude people I've met who are some shade of brown as compared to some shade of white? Whites DEFINITELY outpace browns by a huge margin.
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That's another thing. The melanin. I think there might be a biological component to me liking people with more melanin than me. I'm super uber mega pale. I sunburn on cloudy days. It's impossible for me to tan. I have freckles. I'm at huge risk for skin cancer. So basically I think mother nature is like "Too much white in your blood! Save your future children from skin cancer!"
lol idk.


Well, besides being (usually )more physically attracted to Asians/Latinas/black women than white women, I mostly just find white people to either be A. extremely boring or B. super a$$holes.

Obviously boring people and rude people come in all colors and races, sure. But when I look at the boring and rude people I've met who are some shade of brown as compared to some shade of white? Whites DEFINITELY outpace browns by a huge margin.


Well, that's probably a regional thing. I'm in the Bible Belt.. sooo... it's complicated. sweatdrop
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That's another thing. The melanin. I think there might be a biological component to me liking people with more melanin than me. I'm super uber mega pale. I sunburn on cloudy days. It's impossible for me to tan. I have freckles. I'm at huge risk for skin cancer. So basically I think mother nature is like "Too much white in your blood! Save your future children from skin cancer!"
lol idk.


Well, besides being (usually )more physically attracted to Asians/Latinas/black women than white women, I mostly just find white people to either be A. extremely boring or B. super a$$holes.

Obviously boring people and rude people come in all colors and races, sure. But when I look at the boring and rude people I've met who are some shade of brown as compared to some shade of white? Whites DEFINITELY outpace browns by a huge margin.


Well, that's probably a regional thing. I'm in the Bible Belt.. sooo... it's complicated. sweatdrop


What's a regional thing? Interracial dating? Or meeting boring/rude white people?
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Yeah, I'm generally not attracted to people of the same ethnic background as myself... Asians generally, but especially other Chinese. I've only dated Caucasians, except my last g/f, who's mixed (half-British and half-Japanese). I think the cultural difference is exciting to me.

My parents and especially my grandmother, encourage me to date other Chinese. But honestly, cultural and social aspects of Chinese or Chinese-Americans are too familiar to me, that I grew up with in my own family but never found appealing to me (like the way we gather for karaoke, seriously).


I'm chinese and have never dated anothe chinese guy. My parents almost set me up on an arrange marriage date and I nearly keeled over. burning_eyes ....my relatives keep on saying they will set me up to marry someone... I am attracted to my race.. they usually aren't but I'm not the typical chinese woman I have an hourglass body that is fit ...I notice alot of the guys are so short and I'm taller than them... thats so sad I'm only 5"4
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my family is huge too, and i have no idea who have the people are. its a weird family system, when we see each other we are all nice and stuff then after their gone the nails come out.

my family is really old fashion, they believe that the woman needs to have a man to support her. otherwise who will take care of her... grr not everyone gets married..

on the other hand i went to this korean website just to see tips on dating a korean guy and it didn't look good. basically you call the guy opa which means older brother in korean. he will take you out on dates and pay for everything but he will not open doors for you he goes first and when your married he'll be mean to you and you have to live up to the exspectations of his mother.


Wait what.. no... That's bizarre! My Korean is not crazy. haha.


http://www.korea-dating-tips.com/korean-guys.html

i got it from this website the moment i read it I umm didn't want to read anymore cause i was disgusted


Omg! that's crazy! They must be talking about first generation or something, because I've seen none of that from any of the Koreans that I know! Or maybe I need to look deeper... oOoOOoOooOoOoO~!

they are 2nd generation but you never know watch out for the mother if your dating a korean man...having an asian mother in law is like having a fox with razor sharp claws. she can be very demanding and proper....never ever let her see a dirty room or she will give you hell since she is probaly 1 st gen


On this topic I'm incredibly lucky that the fiance's dad and older brothers (one of whom is a mechanic!) have been basically chill with me instead of murdering me.


thats good, that they accept you. One time I went to a wedding and my cousin was marrying a 75% thai woman with 25% chinese blood. One of the games we were playing was get that free scarf. I remember fight with 5 women over an ugly brown scarf, the old lady was the one who didnt give up and I let her have her scarf. Asian women love free things and are not afraid to fight and hit each other to get the stuff they want. Asian women have alot of pride..... the men are a differnt story they have pride and aren't always nice to their wives but they treat their wives better than the women treat each other...
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I think interracial dating is fantastic. 3nodding Dating someone of another race can be fun and exciting. Also, why not? I hate those who think dating/marriage outside of your own race is taboo. That's just ridiculous.

I am a white-washed Mexican. Sadly my dating history is not very extensive. I've only ever dated once and the guy was white. He was my best friend at the time so it was a natural progression from friend to romantic interest. We only lasted 3 months because I wasn't all that attracted to him. I honestly prefer Asian men. Not that I think I'll be able to snag one (given my current location, slim to non-existant pickings). I like Asian men who are somewhat androgynous but at the same time I would probably be intimated if they end up prettier than me. sweatdrop I'm weird like that. xp
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they are 2nd generation but you never know watch out for the mother if your dating a korean man...having an asian mother in law is like having a fox with razor sharp claws. she can be very demanding and proper....never ever let her see a dirty room or she will give you hell since she is probaly 1 st gen

well I'm officially terrified.


all you need to make the mother happy is to learn to cook her style, make her healthy food, make a baby, make sure your house is always clean, make her feel needed, always dress appropriate...they like to suprised people at the worst times, then compliment her on her smartness always say stuff like I wish I was so smart or amazing like you....don't ever be caught by one of friends doing something dirty... other wise world will get to her and she will come marching over right away
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That's another thing. The melanin. I think there might be a biological component to me liking people with more melanin than me. I'm super uber mega pale. I sunburn on cloudy days. It's impossible for me to tan. I have freckles. I'm at huge risk for skin cancer. So basically I think mother nature is like "Too much white in your blood! Save your future children from skin cancer!"
lol idk.


Well, besides being (usually )more physically attracted to Asians/Latinas/black women than white women, I mostly just find white people to either be A. extremely boring or B. super a$$holes.

Obviously boring people and rude people come in all colors and races, sure. But when I look at the boring and rude people I've met who are some shade of brown as compared to some shade of white? Whites DEFINITELY outpace browns by a huge margin.


Well, that's probably a regional thing. I'm in the Bible Belt.. sooo... it's complicated. sweatdrop


What's a regional thing? Interracial dating? Or meeting boring/rude white people?


The rude/boring white people thing.
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they are 2nd generation but you never know watch out for the mother if your dating a korean man...having an asian mother in law is like having a fox with razor sharp claws. she can be very demanding and proper....never ever let her see a dirty room or she will give you hell since she is probaly 1 st gen

well I'm officially terrified.


all you need to make the mother happy is to learn to cook her style, make her healthy food, make a baby, make sure your house is always clean, make her feel needed, always dress appropriate...they like to suprised people at the worst times, then compliment her on her smartness always say stuff like I wish I was so smart or amazing like you....don't ever be caught by one of friends doing something dirty... other wise world will get to her and she will come marching over right away


Oh.. that seems simple. jk jk
Idk, I kind of get that sort of thing from most moms, but maybe not to such an extreme. They're all threatened by another female trying to take their little boy away from them. I've dealt with some crrrraaaazy mamas in my day. Yikes. O_O
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they are 2nd generation but you never know watch out for the mother if your dating a korean man...having an asian mother in law is like having a fox with razor sharp claws. she can be very demanding and proper....never ever let her see a dirty room or she will give you hell since she is probaly 1 st gen

well I'm officially terrified.


all you need to make the mother happy is to learn to cook her style, make her healthy food, make a baby, make sure your house is always clean, make her feel needed, always dress appropriate...they like to suprised people at the worst times, then compliment her on her smartness always say stuff like I wish I was so smart or amazing like you....don't ever be caught by one of friends doing something dirty... other wise world will get to her and she will come marching over right away


Oh.. that seems simple. jk jk
Idk, I kind of get that sort of thing from most moms, but maybe not to such an extreme. They're all threatened by another female trying to take their little boy away from them. I've dealt with some crrrraaaazy mamas in my day. Yikes. O_O


They are threatend by their son being taken away and they want you to know who is in the highest position and that is the mother ...I guess she is suppose to be your superior..my mom is nuts I haven't met crazy mommas the mothers all love me I act the part well then when they are away I get lazy.....lol I'm single and I have never dated an asian guy I don't know if I want to deal with thier moms some times I think of marrying orphans or a sun that only has a father in the picture
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They are threatend by their son being taken away and they want you to know who is in the highest position and that is the mother ...I guess she is suppose to be your superior..my mom is nuts I haven't met crazy mommas the mothers all love me I act the part well then when they are away I get lazy.....lol I'm single and I have never dated an asian guy I don't know if I want to deal with thier moms some times I think of marrying orphans or a sun that only has a father in the picture


Wish me luck then. crying
or idk, maybe that could be fun for me. I'm really competitive, so maybe a competition for dominance would keep my occupied. twisted
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