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To be honest, I'm a white girl who is mainly attracted to white guys,
but I've been dating a Colombian for about two years now.

I was never attracted to him at first.. but I don't know, we kind of just work.
And now I'll see hispanic guys that I find to be really attractive.

So I guess it's normal?
I don't know. All preference.
I started liking hispanic guys more because I have one of my own. wink
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Yes. That's me. When I dated my ex he wasn't the same ethnicity as me.
I don't know why but I'm just not attracted to the same ethnicity as me...
if you get my drift..?
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Yes. That's me. When I dated my ex he wasn't the same ethnicity as me.
I don't know why but I'm just not attracted to the same ethnicity as me...
if you get my drift..?

Thank you! I completely understand.
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To be honest, I'm a white girl who is mainly attracted to white guys,
but I've been dating a Colombian for about two years now.

I was never attracted to him at first.. but I don't know, we kind of just work.
And now I'll see hispanic guys that I find to be really attractive.

So I guess it's normal?
I don't know. All preference.
I started liking hispanic guys more because I have one of my own. wink

I've always had a weakness for them. Colombians are fabulous. Love them. Is he actually an immigrant or is he second-gen? I find it really interesting how quickly immigrants become Americanized and stuff, and still retain some of their culture.. idk how to accurately word it. It's just really interesting stuff.
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my family is huge too, and i have no idea who have the people are. its a weird family system, when we see each other we are all nice and stuff then after their gone the nails come out.

my family is really old fashion, they believe that the woman needs to have a man to support her. otherwise who will take care of her... grr not everyone gets married..

on the other hand i went to this korean website just to see tips on dating a korean guy and it didn't look good. basically you call the guy opa which means older brother in korean. he will take you out on dates and pay for everything but he will not open doors for you he goes first and when your married he'll be mean to you and you have to live up to the exspectations of his mother.


Wait what.. no... That's bizarre! My Korean is not crazy. haha.


http://www.korea-dating-tips.com/korean-guys.html

i got it from this website the moment i read it I umm didn't want to read anymore cause i was disgusted


Omg! that's crazy! They must be talking about first generation or something, because I've seen none of that from any of the Koreans that I know! Or maybe I need to look deeper... oOoOOoOooOoOoO~!
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To be honest, I'm a white girl who is mainly attracted to white guys,
but I've been dating a Colombian for about two years now.

I was never attracted to him at first.. but I don't know, we kind of just work.
And now I'll see hispanic guys that I find to be really attractive.

So I guess it's normal?
I don't know. All preference.
I started liking hispanic guys more because I have one of my own. wink

I've always had a weakness for them. Colombians are fabulous. Love them. Is he actually an immigrant or is he second-gen? I find it really interesting how quickly immigrants become Americanized and stuff, and still retain some of their culture.. idk how to accurately word it. It's just really interesting stuff.

He was born in America, so he's a full citizen, but he moved back and forth for a while, living there most of his childhood.
I'm a French mixed baby (I'm half asian), and my boyfriend is Belgian.

"Race" doesn't matter to me =)
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my family is huge too, and i have no idea who have the people are. its a weird family system, when we see each other we are all nice and stuff then after their gone the nails come out.

my family is really old fashion, they believe that the woman needs to have a man to support her. otherwise who will take care of her... grr not everyone gets married..

on the other hand i went to this korean website just to see tips on dating a korean guy and it didn't look good. basically you call the guy opa which means older brother in korean. he will take you out on dates and pay for everything but he will not open doors for you he goes first and when your married he'll be mean to you and you have to live up to the exspectations of his mother.


Wait what.. no... That's bizarre! My Korean is not crazy. haha.


http://www.korea-dating-tips.com/korean-guys.html

i got it from this website the moment i read it I umm didn't want to read anymore cause i was disgusted


Omg! that's crazy! They must be talking about first generation or something, because I've seen none of that from any of the Koreans that I know! Or maybe I need to look deeper... oOoOOoOooOoOoO~!

they are 2nd generation but you never know watch out for the mother if your dating a korean man...having an asian mother in law is like having a fox with razor sharp claws. she can be very demanding and proper....never ever let her see a dirty room or she will give you hell since she is probaly 1 st gen
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I'm a French mixed baby (I'm half asian), and my boyfriend is Belgian.

"Race" doesn't matter to me =)

That's very interesting!
So you have no preference then?
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my family is huge too, and i have no idea who have the people are. its a weird family system, when we see each other we are all nice and stuff then after their gone the nails come out.

my family is really old fashion, they believe that the woman needs to have a man to support her. otherwise who will take care of her... grr not everyone gets married..

on the other hand i went to this korean website just to see tips on dating a korean guy and it didn't look good. basically you call the guy opa which means older brother in korean. he will take you out on dates and pay for everything but he will not open doors for you he goes first and when your married he'll be mean to you and you have to live up to the exspectations of his mother.


Wait what.. no... That's bizarre! My Korean is not crazy. haha.


http://www.korea-dating-tips.com/korean-guys.html

i got it from this website the moment i read it I umm didn't want to read anymore cause i was disgusted


Omg! that's crazy! They must be talking about first generation or something, because I've seen none of that from any of the Koreans that I know! Or maybe I need to look deeper... oOoOOoOooOoOoO~!

they are 2nd generation but you never know watch out for the mother if your dating a korean man...having an asian mother in law is like having a fox with razor sharp claws. she can be very demanding and proper....never ever let her see a dirty room or she will give you hell since she is probaly 1 st gen


On this topic I'm incredibly lucky that the fiance's dad and older brothers (one of whom is a mechanic!) have been basically chill with me instead of murdering me.
I prefer interracial dating, hands-down.

I have white skin, in spite of only being half-white, so I'm pretty much always looking for girls one melanin up. Asian, Hispanic, black, it's all good.

That, and I just really, really do not have a good history with white people.
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totally agree with bi-racial couple xD,
im mexican and i dated guys in the UK or caucasian >///>
sadly my own kind doesnt impress me or interest me o3o
scottish guys are candy to me o^o
I didn't do interracial dating, nor did I find other races attractive, until I started watching porn.

Thank you porn for helping me get over my ignorance.
Yeah, I'm generally not attracted to people of the same ethnic background as myself... Asians generally, but especially other Chinese. I've only dated Caucasians, except my last g/f, who's mixed (half-British and half-Japanese). I think the cultural difference is exciting to me.

My parents and especially my grandmother, encourage me to date other Chinese. But honestly, cultural and social aspects of Chinese or Chinese-Americans are too familiar to me, that I grew up with in my own family but never found appealing to me (like the way we gather for karaoke, seriously).
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they are 2nd generation but you never know watch out for the mother if your dating a korean man...having an asian mother in law is like having a fox with razor sharp claws. she can be very demanding and proper....never ever let her see a dirty room or she will give you hell since she is probaly 1 st gen

well I'm officially terrified.

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