Hullo thar! Names Uncle PP Pennybags-Wright, nice to meet cha!
Most of you all don't know me, but I know some who some of you all, and I like to take this time out to get a better idea of what makes many of you all tick, especially on this here website we consider home we call Gaia. I decided I would like to make a thread every so often on certain topics that not only concern Gaia as a whole but you as a person and the world at large. This is something I've been wanting to do for awhile among other things, unfortunately doing this on the account I considered my main back some years ago, no one would have taken me seriously (and that's going to be a topic for another day)! Anyhow, beyond my own personal interest of the human condition, I am also doing to see what I can improve as a person and do more for others, but also help others do the same as well as long as working to improve our community on this site, cause if ya haven't noticed (I know some of you have bear with me now), it's not nearly as welcoming or friendly as it use to it, especially with many users coming on regularly with their doom and gloom of the end times of the site and all. Not one person is infallible, and a person should always want to refine on their skillsets and whatnot.
Anyway, during my tenure with using the internet way back in the Year 2000...and 2 and subsequently going through highschool, I have gone through a great deal of websites and met many different people online and off. Some good, some not so much, some cool, some stuck up. A portion of those people I considered a friend for awhile because of how they acted and what I thought of them, unfortunately when it came down to it some of those folks only did that for all intents purposes of wanting something or "to be nice" because I approached them, or my many of thought and all is different from theirs---I don't like putting up with a ton of nonsense, selfishness, superficial things, and vying for the attentions for the wrong reasons. This is why I as a person I don't always readily warm up to people even when I go "well this person doesn't seem to suck too badly or annoy me that much, I guess I should befriend them!' and why a good deal of the time I keep to myself. I do have those few friends who understand that's how I am, and they accept me because I don't act like how a lot of other people normally do....even if I go off into a cave somewhere for weeks or months on end to get away from people for awhile.
tl;dr: Using the internet too much and dealing with people regularly over the years has made me realize a lot of people tend to care about superficial things more than who a person is when they look for friends, and it buggers the piss out of me sometimes especially with how I am, though there are people who aren't like that.
Now on to the topic at hand, I want to ask: What do you see in a person as a friend? I want your answers to be in relation to not just your on goings on Gaia, but elsewhere online and in person. Do you treat people different than what you do on here when you are trying to make friends? Do you seek out common interests? Is it because of appearance? Elaborate on your experiences!