From what I see, in the GCD it is acceptable to be a d**k, although not everyone is. This is true of other forums as well, so don't feel bad.
Also, GCD requires:
All questions, even Gaia-related questions, MUST go in Q&A or Chatterbox, with certain exceptions. What these exceptions are, not sure. It might be as whimsical as some d**k deciding to report you or not.
If new/unsure of yourself, the best format to follow when posting a thread is this:
Subject: Odd, attention getting line (can be the exact opposite of your content)
Content: One paragraph positing something inoffensive in an alarming way.
End with 3 spoon icons, each suggesting a topic for reaction. This is where your questions meant for discussion should go.