Ananemain
Not really. I've read the books (all of them) and have realized that there is something fundamentally wrong with Bella and Edward's relationship. It is based more on obsession and need than any mature feeling for one another. He compulsively feels it's necessary to protect her, and she feels it's her duty to allow him to save her over and over. He enables her sense of helplessness rather than give her the opportunity to learn to protect and look after herself. Essentially, he deepens her already needy attachment to him by turning himself into her savior.
As for the abusive part, well... He does kind of keep fighting the desire to kill her. He won't allow her to be alone. He stalks her. And his enabling ties her self esteem to his approval.
All in all, no literary text has any one interpretation. This is just mine.
Yup, I agree. Well on the Obsession part at lest.
The characters Bella and Edward have flaws without a doubt, and that's why I like the novel.
The characters have the potential to become Mary-sue like, which they don't. Well not until the very end at lest.
But I don't see a problem with a novel portraying this type of relationship. It's not trying to make a statement, just tell a story.