If I have something to say to someone, I'll quote them. I'm the same way though, if you don't quote me I most likely will not see it. I don't usually go back and check a thread after I posted unless it's a really interesting one.
On another site I go onto, they don't let you know when you've been quoted and that kinda makes me mad. I could have so many people quoting me, but I post so fast that I don't want to go back and check every thread I posted in and remember the page I posted on just to find that response.
I actually feel like it's rude to /not/ quote the person you're talking to, if you are carrying on a conversation... Like, to me, not quoting them is like disregarding their presence? idk how else to explain it.
And on the flip side I feel weird quoting well wishers and passerbyes. I don't want to annoy them with a quote notice when they were just passing through. redface
If I'm just responding to a topic, I won't quote the OP unless i have multiple parts to respond to. if i'm hanging out in a thread with people I know, i may/may not quote them. like if i post right after them and i know they check the thread regularly, then i might not. if it's active and i want to reply to that specific person, then of course. if I post in a random thread i might check back on it, but if they don't quote me, i might never know they were responding to me
I think it's really self-indulgent (is that the word?) to put that s**t in your sig.
"Quote me or I won't see you?" Isn't it a given that we're going to quote you if we're replying in a non-constant thread if we want you to see it? It seems stupid to also put yourself up on that sort of pedestal, or others below. Something about the phrasing turns me off, I guess.
I dont quote in constant threads though, like art threads or such where the community is a consistent 3-5 members unless Im showing someone a drawing.
I just search "dakki" in forum search once a day or so if I've been posting a lot to make sure I didn't miss anything. It also helps me find idiots who post my art and whatnot for their RPs because it picks up photobucket links, too.
I quote or @reply wherever applicable. A long discussion one-to-one I'll quote. A quick comment at the end of an otherwise irrelevant to the quoted will be @-ed.
Not my problem if you can't figure out that people can respond to you without prompt.