Threinegha
(?)Community Member
Offline
- Posted: Mon, 22 Dec 2014 04:05:46 +0000
I'm a regular towns user. If you are as well, you know what it's like on an average basis and if you aren't, well you get a lot of random adds from people whenever you're around. Some people like this, but I'm one of those people who doesn't like adding people that I haven't talked to and probably won't talk to. My friends list isn't a place to see how full I can get it, it's a place for me to keep track of my buddies.
So whenever I get a random add, I often PM the person asking why they added me, and respond with "I don't add people unless I've had a conversation with them first." I get some pretty interesting reactions from this. The most common ones are people seem to be immediately shut down by it, or they get offended and respond with things such as "well how can you get to know someone if you don't add them?" or "add me and then we can talk lol" or "there's no need to be rude, it's just a random add." I'm not sure when having a conversation with someone became such a task.
So what about you GCD? How do you feel about random adds?
Spoons n s**t:
gaia_spoons Do you like random adds? If so, why? If not, what are your reasons?
gaia_spoons Do you prefer to talk to people before you add them? If not, why not?
gaia_spoons How full is your friends list? Do you know all of them? Do you ever clean it out?
gaia_spoons Do you ever meet people who get uppity because you won't add them randomly?
gaia_spoons Any horror funny stories about random adds?